Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

2007-05-23 06:15:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

5 years, 2 lovely kid's, an upcoming marriage July 21st,2007,
haven't had s-e-x in a month and I feel really alone and hurt, I know that I am not doing anything wrong....I have tried everything imaginable to be "desireable" in his beautiful brown eyes but he just doesn't catch on to it. I love him tremendously and I feel the urge to move on and leave for good because things are steadily falling apart....I have even jumped tothe assumption that he is gay....(that is not intended to be a joke it is what I believed) I can't promise him forever if he stays the way that he is:

1) Always complaining about SOMETHING
2)Never makes the time for me anymore (always finds things to pre-occupy him)
3)makes sexual comments to the guys on his softball team that I wish he would make to me ;(
4)we never are intimate

I know he isn't cheating because he is with me all the time and I just don't see how that would be possible but hey stranger things have happened right? please help me

2007-05-23 06:12:58 · 19 answers · asked by Sam Fisher 3 in Singles & Dating

I have had my son from birth 11 years ago, My son father is really good and I do trust him with his father but not to live.

I know that he will do a good job with him no doubt but the thought of him leaving I can't bear I do have 3 more kids out side of him, but he is my 2nd oldest. His father thinks that he is old enough to be brought up by a man in some way I believe him and I know he is right but I can bring myself to say yes.

I mean he don't have a job he do things on the side (if you know what I mean) but I don't want my son brought up around that it would be different if he had a job but he don't and he alway told us he would come over and get him on weekends but he don't and all I did was make up things for him but now he's mad and he told me to never talk to him he would just cont. to send money threw child support and not give me extra money but it all good because I work 2 jobs anyways. so what do you think?

2007-05-23 06:11:20 · 17 answers · asked by msgris2000 2 in Family

I am married and and have 4 kids from a previous relationship and have just finish my Nursing degree. My husband now wants to quite his job and stay home, because his job and his boss just piss him off. I want to be able to buy a house and start having nice things. But with the price of houses these days...how am I supposed to buy a house on one salary. FYI...everyone of his siblings (5 in all) don't work...their significant others work to support the families. I've told him how I feel and told him that if he quits his job he needs to find another one that will make him happy. He is content with getting fired from his job and collecting unemployment...
So am I crazy for being pissed???

2007-05-23 06:10:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friends are getting married. They already have a house and some gadgets. I refuse to go by the wedding registry.

2007-05-23 06:10:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

do all men in marriages or relationships want or fantasise or desire other women ! other than there partner

2007-05-23 06:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do i like this guy but i have a boyfriend and i like him too what should i do??

2007-05-23 06:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married on Valentine's Day 2008 at Sandal's Grande Resort & Spa in Antigua. One problem...It's a couples resort! I tried the sneaky route by trying to book my single same sex friends as "roommate" couples, but the resort caught on! Plus, My mother is single, and I don't want her to feel like we banished her to another part of the island because she doesn't have a significant other. I would like my guests to be able to stay somewhere close, but all inclusive as well. I'm currently working with Groople Group Travel, but it doesn't look good. Any advice?

If you got married at the Antigua Sandals...where did your guests stay?

Last but not least, any way around that wedding day pass thing if your guests aren't "allowed" to stay at Sandal's?

2007-05-23 06:07:02 · 5 answers · asked by Kim W 1 in Weddings

I overheard my hubby talking about me real bad with his brother.His brother said alot of things he had no business...alot of mean things like I'm stupid and crazy and he should leave me..Im so upset and hurt that brother in law was talking about me like this and hubby was encouraging it.what should I do?

2007-05-23 06:06:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-23 06:04:50 · 13 answers · asked by court 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

6ft tall
brownish blonde short hair
dark skinned
gorgeous blue eyes
southern accent
wears abercrombie type clothes
very good manners
smells good
smokes like a freight train
chews tobacco
seems a little cocky at times
very funny

2007-05-23 06:04:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you suggest for A classical[s] Music to be played at My wedding.Church... PS" Must be Classical .tks

2007-05-23 06:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by whoeddy 1 in Weddings

I would consider this medium sized, almost 7 inches is this enough, or does it have to be huge for you size queens?

2007-05-23 06:03:15 · 13 answers · asked by miklo 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i have had threesomes and i've done some bondage which i really enjoy, well i enjoy sex all around but lately i'm not satissfied with how it's going i have to bring out my toys just to try and satissfie myself and even thats not working all the time. and i've even went so far to smoke pot to make it more intense can someone please tell me how to spice up my sex life more i need something and i just can't figure it out

2007-05-23 06:01:06 · 10 answers · asked by The brat 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 05:58:30 · 6 answers · asked by lou k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I'll start from the beginning. A few months ago my doc prescribed me a new medication. I know I'm not supposed to drink while taking meds but there have been a few times when I did (my bday for example). Well those few times I did I had very bad reactions to it. I completely blacked out and became quite beligurant with my boyfriend. I honestly don't remember any of it. There have other times when I've drank and been fine. So to continue with my story, my best friends bday is today and she's having a party friday at a local bar. She isn't exactly the best friend in the world but I've know her for years and would like to go. My boyfriend is really pushing that we not attend due to the recent past events that occur when I drink. I've very torn right now because I want to go but at the same time I completely understand where my boyfriend is coming from. What should i do? How do I talk this through with my boyfriend and my best friend and without hurting someones feelings? Errrr!!!

2007-05-23 05:57:58 · 29 answers · asked by Bonzilla!! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance just lost his job because they found out that he was looking for another job. While he was working, I was being the homemaker because the plan was that I was going to go to school full time this summer. Now though we have about sixty dollars to our name and rent is due next week. I also now have no money for school and we have a car payment due. I need money fast. I did temp work at the beggining of the week and he is doing labor work right now but they only pay six dollars an hour. We have never been this broke and I am terrified. Any suggestions?

2007-05-23 05:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Grace86 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A buddy of mine plans to propose to this woman he's been dating for a year. He has some substantial assests and therefore wants her to sign a prenuptial agreement. He asked me what I thought. Well first of all knowing him, he's going to do what he wants regardless of what I tell him. Nevertheless I asked him if he really loved this woman. He said, "yes". So I said, "Well why ruin the romance...?" I think bringing up something as serious as a prenup before (or after) proposing to the woman you want to marry and spend the rest of your life with is inconceivable! You're planning the divorce while she's planning the wedding! Maybe I'm too old fashined and sentimental. But despite the assests I may (or may not) have, I couldn't possibly imagine this scenario. If he's not convinced that she's marrying him because she loves him, then maybe he needs to do a little more "digging" before he pops the question. What do you think?

2007-05-23 05:52:46 · 24 answers · asked by Nigel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, we are both christians, and young, and shes a good girl, believe me. but heres the thing, i dont quite understand her right now. im pretty skinny, not huge and muscular but i have one tone defined torso, 6 pack, and pecs and all that, and my girlfriend like did care at all.

but recently, now whenever i see her she always rubs my abs, ALWAYS! i dont mind, it makes me feel better about myself but before she wouldent even acknolage it, why is she getting so physical!?

we would never have sex, yet, when we like hold hands when no one easle is paying attention like she pull put my hands on her legs and stuff, and let me remind you WE ARE YOUNG CHRISTIAN AND WOUDL NOT HAVE SEX.

so why is she getting all physical now? we have been together 3 months, and also she steals my phone and puts it in her back pocket so thus, i had to carress her ***, and sometime she says she would put it down her shirt, but i always find a way to avoid so it doesnt get awkward!

explain to me?

2007-05-23 05:48:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years of age, female, I go to school majoring in Mechanical Eng. and work. I think pretty, at least thats what people tell me...lol...i have a good sense of humor, i love sports, am not the jealous type, very down to earth. But for some reason i can't get a guy. If i go out and i meet a guy and start talking to him , we go out once or twice and that is it, and every time that happens i ask my self why??? what em' i doing wrong or whats wrong with me?? or maybe i am looking in the worng place i don't know! HELP!!

2007-05-23 05:46:05 · 18 answers · asked by NatPar 1 in Singles & Dating

i was out late night partying last night with some girl firends.
i met a very very hot italian type guy...looked like a model, and very nice personality too!

by the time the night was over, i was going home with him back to his apartment downtown...when we got there we had some wine and sat on the couch and began to make out...

he put his hands on my butt, and from there,let's just say, they never came off...he then got my to kneel down with my bottum up...where he proceeded to sniff, lick and touch it like it was the only thing on my that was sexual...we didnt even have regular sex...only the back door style...

like how wierd is that...is that what a fetish is? and isnt it gross?

2007-05-23 05:45:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i`m 17 and me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year..i think he`s starting to get abusive..he pushes me when we argue...and he kicked me the other day..i`m scared it`s gonna turn into something else...i want to break it off , but i also want to work things out...he was my first boyfriend...we haven`t had sex or anything, but he was the first guy i kissed..any advice would be good. thankss

2007-05-23 05:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I would like to marry in a church that happens to be catholic and has sentimental value to him. I was baptized a catholic but now I am a Christian and my fiance was baptized non-denominational and is now more along the lines of agnostic. I know Catholic churches are very strict in their rules but i am also aware some accept money for the ceremony. We really like the church (building) and that is why we want to get married there, but I am wondering if the pastor would agree to such a thing, and if so would we need to go through counseling.

2007-05-23 05:41:30 · 23 answers · asked by Oli 3 in Weddings

im 23, a guy, about to go mow the grass at my parents house. its 85* and partly cloudy...... details head to toe. thanks!

2007-05-23 05:41:26 · 14 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

isn't she crazy ?

2007-05-23 05:40:47 · 23 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

This is my friends problem, as she wana get married with a guy 'n' he is continously forcing her to get married but she is really afraid of her dad, as she thinks that her dad would not agree for their marriage, she wana get married within this year but the problem is that she don't know how to start talking with her dad about her affair, as they have affair for about 1 year.
I don't know anything about that guy but she says that he really loves her 'n' he even doesn't live in india, he lives in america but often come to visit India, about 3-4 times.
she is continously asking for help that how she should talk with her dad? and she says that she really loves him a lot 'n' would just get married with him only.

Honest answer plz.......!!
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2007-05-23 05:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by Priti 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 05:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married a few weeks ago and my husband tells me something that happened 2 years ago. We had just started dating and he went on a cruise with 4 groups of friends. I couldn't go because I have kids and he got his ticket months before we met each other. Only been together maybe a month! He told me the other day that he met a girl on the ship but only talked, nothing happened! But he said his friends kelp asking him if he slept with her and her friends had a bet on who was going to get laid first. They told there friends they did sleep with each other. he said he wanted to look good and build himself up to his friends, but it has eaten at him since. I asked him why he said he did if he didn't. I also asked why he felt he needed to tell me this! He said because he didn't want anything to come out and it would look bad if something was said and it not have come from him... I know in my heart he didn't sleep with her but having a hard time with him lieing to the friends,I look stupid...

2007-05-23 05:37:18 · 38 answers · asked by Lookin 4 ants 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he is angry with me regarding my atitute and not talking with me since 3 or 4 days

2007-05-23 05:35:08 · 22 answers · asked by Pallabi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriends friend is having a party, and she invited one of his ex's who is also a friend of hers. My boyfriend rarely hangs out with this friend, but since ALL of his friends are going, he wants to go to catch up with them (the dont get to see eachother much since they have graduated college). Anyway, I am 99% sure the ex will be there. My bf and her ended on good terms, but I am not one to be all "lets hang out" with exs. My bf said I dont have to go, but he is no matter what. I want to go to keep an eye on him, but what if we run into her? I dont want to be a Bit** but I dont want to be all happy either. ITs just weird

2007-05-23 05:31:52 · 3 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Singles & Dating