I am 21 years of age, female, I go to school majoring in Mechanical Eng. and work. I think pretty, at least thats what people tell me...lol...i have a good sense of humor, i love sports, am not the jealous type, very down to earth. But for some reason i can't get a guy. If i go out and i meet a guy and start talking to him , we go out once or twice and that is it, and every time that happens i ask my self why??? what em' i doing wrong or whats wrong with me?? or maybe i am looking in the worng place i don't know! HELP!!
2007-05-23 05:46:05 · 18 answers · asked by NatPar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u could be looking in the wrong place. let them come to u and u will find a guy.....
good luck!!
2007-05-23 05:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should listen to Debra B's advice and the last part of Flame's advice. As for me, when I use to date, someone would always come my way when I wasn't looking.
It sounds like you are a very busy young lady and probably very energetic. Don't rush things, just slow down a little and just be yourself. I believe the right person is out there, be patient. There is this old cliche: "Good things comes to those who wait."
You said "If I go out and meet a guy and start talking to him" , that made me think that you are meeting these guys at bars. That is the last place you should look, if that is the case.
2007-05-23 15:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Michelangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound down to earth and easy to get along with.. and more like a guy'girl then a girly girl.. and nothing is wrong with this since im like this.. You just need a guy that isnt' going to think thats bad and now going for just straight looks and a girl in a tight dress ya know!! Also there is a chance that with you degree guys can be kinda jealous and they dont wnat a girl that one day will be making more money then they are?!? Good Luck!
2007-05-23 05:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you sound like you are a very nice girl and intelligent. I have two daughters 21 and 20 who look like models and are very pretty. They are having the same problem and it is usually because all their dates want is sex. My daughter's want to wait until marriage. The oldest is graduating from college on Sunday, teaching and per suing her Master's. The youngest is in her senior year as an Occupational Therapist, will graduate with a Master's and is planning on pur suing her PHD. Some day I truly believe someone will come along who appreciates them and I am sure someone will show up for you too. You are young yet and have plenty of time to find a fellow. Make sure he is worthy of YOU!
2007-05-23 05:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by goodbye 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking in the wrong place and also you are out there searching for a man and you will not be able to find one that way you just have to let the cards fall where they may and a lot on men find educated women intimidating. I would just be patient and let the creator bring you the man of your dreams, because when you stop searching what you want comes falling into your lap.
2007-05-23 05:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by karamelchem_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if a guy cant see you for you then screw um... honestly maybe your taking to the wrong guys or maybe you have values and all they want is sex. (guessing here) so if that doesnt happen and thats what there looking that may be why they stop calling.
Nothing is wrong with you and dont let anyone convince you of that. You will find love...probably when you least expect it as well...take care
2007-05-23 05:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch sportscenter on a daily basis on ESPN, that's an hour long software that exhibits on a daily basis from 6-7am 7-8am 8-9am and 9-10am then at night there's a 6-7pm version. it could desire to have you ever up as much as now and speaking like youve conventional the activities for years
2016-11-26 19:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong places... beach, park, malls... etc... I think is not real wrong places... what I think is you "desperate" to have a man? let them come to you... if some one finally offer to go to a date... say is not a date.. say that two different person go to enjoy a dinner..or lunch or whatever... also you can be brave a start the conversation with someone... but never do that invite him to a "date" let he do that... but I think if I not wrong that you are in college right now if you have 21year old... so what you worry... enjoy life now, the man that you suppose to meet he find you... on his time not on yours....
good luck
2007-05-23 06:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by jorge c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question to answer, epifania. What you told us about yourself sounds a-OK. Do you talk non-stop so that the guys can't get a word in? Are you biased or judgmental? Does your intelligence intimidate people? Do you need to use foot deodorizer? Ask a good friend or a relative... ask them to be honest... maybe they will have some insight for you.
2007-05-23 05:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Flame 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're 21, pretty and smart I can't imagine why you're having trouble. Unless you have a poor outlook on life, or are cold. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places?
2007-05-23 07:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tim B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to see the person 1 or 2 times because u don't now what they r like. when i go out with a nice looking girl like u i would say what i like and i would impress u or the girl i am seeing. by the second date i would tell the u or the girl i was seeing i love u or her. email me haughn123@yahoo.com, and you'll find out how i am girl.
2007-05-23 05:55:41 · answer #11 · answered by haughn123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋