ok, we are both christians, and young, and shes a good girl, believe me. but heres the thing, i dont quite understand her right now. im pretty skinny, not huge and muscular but i have one tone defined torso, 6 pack, and pecs and all that, and my girlfriend like did care at all.
but recently, now whenever i see her she always rubs my abs, ALWAYS! i dont mind, it makes me feel better about myself but before she wouldent even acknolage it, why is she getting so physical!?
we would never have sex, yet, when we like hold hands when no one easle is paying attention like she pull put my hands on her legs and stuff, and let me remind you WE ARE YOUNG CHRISTIAN AND WOUDL NOT HAVE SEX.
so why is she getting all physical now? we have been together 3 months, and also she steals my phone and puts it in her back pocket so thus, i had to carress her ***, and sometime she says she would put it down her shirt, but i always find a way to avoid so it doesnt get awkward!
explain to me?
2007-05-23 05:48:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HORMONES!!!! believe me mate in a few years you will be complaining that she doesnt!
2007-05-23 05:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by colesey72 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is just getting more comfortable with you. She probably has fallen in love with you too. I am the same way. I take a while to warm up to a guy. The when I do, I do silly stuff to get attention from him such as put the cell phone in my shirt. I would so do that! I have done things like that in the past with absolutely no intentions of having sex. Also the most sexy attractive man I have ever seen is the one that I'm in love with. I really don't just see a guy out on the street and think, "Oh, he's hot! I want him!". My point is: I think she has fallen in love with you and it makes her more attracted to you physically. It's okay to flirt! That's all she's doing. It doesn't mean that it has to lead to sex. Just make sure she knows and understands your bounderies. I do not believe it is a sin to be affectionate. If you didn't like touching her *** then you should say: "Please give it back. This makes me uncomfortable." And she will give it back. It may hurt her feelings and she may feel rejected but you shouldn't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Communicate with her. That is the key to a long and healthy relationship.
2007-05-23 06:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's wanting more physical action than she's letting on....
Then again, she IS hiding your phone, touching your abs, ect... Maybe she IS letting you know that she is ready for more of a physical relationship. Maybe she is just a "touchy-feely" girl.
Kissing and touching aren't a huge deal, but you just have to be aware of how far it's getting. Let her know you may not be comfortable with it. Ask her why it's starting the "touching" now. Tell her exactly how you feel, and ask how she's feeling. It's the only way to find out for sure.
2007-05-23 05:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Texas Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand what exactly your asking but as I see it either she wants more out of you, emotional or physically or time wise? Its hard to tell with only that much. If this isnt the case maybe she doesn't really want to be with you for which ever reasons she has but is having trouble moving on because of the time you spend together.
2016-05-20 23:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by sebrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just wants to feel closer to you on a more intamate level and that is really good. its good that the two of you choose not to have sex and it is best that it stays that way. sex can make things complicated sometimes. but like i was saying she probably just wants to be closer to you. then sometimes it is a temptaion thats hard to resisit. have a talk with her and remind her why the two of you chose not to have sex in the first place. i hope everything works out for you.
2007-05-23 05:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by autumn_aka_slick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you haven't read the world's thinnest book entitled, "Everything Men Know About Women". She is playing with you the way a cat plays with a mouse so just enjoy it. Maybe she will let you live. ps. Read the book.
2007-05-23 05:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling sexual towards you and these feelings are beginning to win over her christian values. You both need to talk about this to see where you and her stand regarding your relationship and religion. Work this through as it is tough for anyone to refrain from sexual activity with the one they love. Hopefully she will seek help through her church to reinforce her christian beliefs.
2007-05-23 05:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is not the young Christian girl you think she is, and she is giving you signs that she wants to get phsyical. If you don't want to then I think it is time to end this relationship. This girl wants to take it further. There is no need to explain. She wants more then you seem willing to give her.
2007-05-23 05:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by ***ME*** 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably wants to have a little fun with you.
But you should be the bigger Christian and be an example and not give into her..... new ways.
2007-05-23 05:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Alisha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahah that sounds like me....some girls just take a lil while to get comfortable with getting physcial and making moves and stuff...im sure at first she was like omg im not brave enough to show that...now she is...don't worry its normal for us good girls to do that :P
2007-05-23 05:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants more then just hand holding.. Try foreplay with her but without sex involved! She might just want more touching and playing! ? ! hard to tell.. ask her?
2007-05-23 05:52:53 · answer #11 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋