My boyfriends friend is having a party, and she invited one of his ex's who is also a friend of hers. My boyfriend rarely hangs out with this friend, but since ALL of his friends are going, he wants to go to catch up with them (the dont get to see eachother much since they have graduated college). Anyway, I am 99% sure the ex will be there. My bf and her ended on good terms, but I am not one to be all "lets hang out" with exs. My bf said I dont have to go, but he is no matter what. I want to go to keep an eye on him, but what if we run into her? I dont want to be a Bit** but I dont want to be all happy either. ITs just weird
2007-05-23 05:31:52 · 3 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just dont let her get to you, keep being the better person, whatever she says keep in mind that your the one who gets to be with him at the end of the night, not her, so jsut shrug it off, and she'll go away(this includes not busting her in the face with a whiskey bottle)
2007-05-23 05:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some confidence girl!! U shouldn't have to be worried.... And if he makes u feel like u should be worried then kick his *** to the curb! But honestly if it's just you nein insecure like it sounds-- she's gonna come out lookin better if she's the one not making a big deal about it. Don't let either one of them know you're bothered by it. Confidence is key! Good luck sweetheart!!
2007-05-23 05:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by ~*TiNa*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act indifferent, like you would with any stranger. Ignore her, and have a good time with your other friends. If it is a big party, then you can't interact with everyone anyway, so ignoring someone should be easy.
2007-05-23 05:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋