what should i do i like this guy but i have a boyfriend and i like him too what should i do??
2007-05-23 06:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough isnt! *lol* Okay so what i do pick out of a hat....*lol*...j/k no really it truely depends. Dont play with the guy your going out with because i doubt that you would like it if he did the same. What you need to do is get your priority stright. If you like this new guy maybe its because the relationship you have right now wasnt like it was before maybe its lost something and you havent figured it out yet. You need to see the good sides of each guy and make sure he likes you first too though. Think about it and if you end up choosing the new guy try to break up with your bf in a way that wont seem harsh because if you still like him you want to stay friends with him (though..warning no relationship is ever the same after break ups) Also think about it if you have a good guy why break up with him for just a crush what if he turns out to be a jerk? Now that would be a mistake....anyways like always follow your heart not your eyes...good luck!
2007-05-23 06:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know that you can't have your cake and eat it too, which is why you posted this question. You need to consider what is more important- your relationship with your boyfriend or how you feel about a new guy. I wouldn't leave a good relationship over a flighting feeling. Being attracted to other people sometimes is natural but you don't always have to act on it.
Just remember if you leave your boyfriend for someone else you may close the door to your boyfriend forever. If you can handle that thought and you feel like the guy is worth that chance then you need to leave. But don't try to do anything with both- that would be disrespectful to both of them and to yourself. Whatever you do, maintain your dignity.
2007-05-23 15:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by shosha_tiqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop being selfish. Each of those boys have feelings too. Stop it girl. I've been there too. One has to weigh, not only our own feelings, but those of others. This is serious business. Sometimes teens consider suicide when they feel rejected. Don't give this the opportunity to happen.
You are young. Give it time with the boy you have now. Don't throw something good away for something you may not want because in reality, you may never know what the other boy is about until it is too late.
A bird in ones hand is better than two in the bush.:)
Take care girl. I hope this helps.
2007-05-23 13:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Terry Dean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what dating is all about. To discover one you wish to especially enjoy being with. Without the experience of DATING, it's not possible to make a decision of choice.
2007-05-23 13:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide.
Who do you like more. This person, you are not going out with, or the person you are going out with. It all depends on how you feel, no one can really answer this question for you. Good luck
2007-05-23 13:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nate W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you are not married you are obliged to no one. Play the field and make a choice.
2007-05-23 13:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by crownplease 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's sad you have to ask this. Stay with your boyfriend.
2007-05-23 13:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you care about the most?..which one can you live without?
2007-05-23 13:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by d(^.^)b Clumsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur man the truth he should understand if it was me i would want to know
2007-05-23 20:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Zack M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing at all if ,you are in a relationship
2007-05-23 13:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋