Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

2007-05-23 21:31:06 · 17 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 21:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by mostafa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 21:24:08 · 26 answers · asked by greyskinn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 21:22:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My wie and I are getting divorced. She had a physical affair back in December. We got back together and then she abruptly changed her mind. The dishonesty has driven me crazy. She swears there is no one else. The because I snoop I found a message she evidently intended to send to a number but send it to her email.

It reads, "

-----Forwarded Message-----
>From: @message.alltel.com
>Sent: May 23, 2007 5:32 PM
>To:
>Subject:
>
>Maybe I could walk with u awhile, rest beneath ur smile, everybody
>stumbles now and then and needs a hand to hold... Its a long trip alone"

So do I confront her or leave it alone. This is I am almost certain to a lawyer she is in the works of a business deal with. I have suspected at least an emotional affair.

2007-05-23 21:22:22 · 14 answers · asked by ZenMonkey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do men say things like, "if you were my gf I'd treat you like a queen" or "I'd spend my life trying to make you happy" blah blah blah when it's never true?!
They should just be honest & say, "get with me & I'll piss you off, ignore you, sleep around, & be a tosser whenever I feel like it."

Where have all the good men gone?!

2007-05-23 21:22:02 · 26 answers · asked by Cori 4 in Singles & Dating

i use to like this guy but i hate him now.he is one of my mom colleague.i did not tell my mom that i like him.My mom work in a cafe.i usually go there to have some snacks but now i have started not to go there because he told my mom that he likes me.i think that doesnt sound right at all because he is 21 and i am 15.i think he just want to have sex i think.i really miss the snacks in that cafe but i think is weird to go because i do not want that guy to misunderstood that i am desperate for him.i think he is trying to avoid me because when ever i am in that cafe,he seems to be not around?What he is doing?what to do now??help???

Sorry,i am having problem with my grammer because this my second language...

2007-05-23 21:21:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am American and I am engaged to an Indian. He lives in India and has been denied visas to come here so far. So, I have decided to try to go there next year. Everything has been great between us so far, but in my last visit, I found some things to be very hard....cultural differences...and I am also realizing he doesn't understand me as much as I thought he did (language barrier)...so it's causing some problems. I want to try to work them out. I can read and write Hindi and I'm going to take a grammar class starting September. I could REALLY REALLY use some other input - some advice from other Americans married to Indians or some Indian ladies who can help me understand the men there a bit more...some support group...some tips on cross-cultural marriage (any good books?) - anything would be helpful. I believe he's getting a little tired of how hard it is for him to understand English and I really want to meet him half way - any thoughts?? :) Thanks!!

2007-05-23 21:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by Jazmin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my best fre told me her hubby got woman outside but he still do the duty of husband n father but he still want his gf.why man got $ cannot be faithfull to the wife........ if the wife do that to the husband i wonder how will the man feel.

2007-05-23 21:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by pretty girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just recently, my daughter introduced me to a african fellow by the name of... I forgot his name.

He is profficient in his use of slang, and frankly, doesn't seem to fit in with my family's comparsoie. He doesn't appear to have redeeming qualities either.

My daughter is 17. How shall I interfere and rid my daughter of this menace?

2007-05-23 21:08:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am getting married in three weeks and have been attempting to make my own table centres on a very low budget. The colours i am using are red (roses), ivory and gold. The plan was to have a single rose in a tall glass bud vase sat on a candle plate surrounded by candles and glass pebbles...I tried it last night and it didn't quite look as expected. Have trawled the internet for inspiration and am still left a little stumped. Can anyone help?

2007-05-23 21:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

you've never actually met?

2007-05-23 21:03:06 · 22 answers · asked by cockneyboy 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel silly having them on my friend's list when I don't really want to chat or meet up with them again. That seems to be what some people expect, as if we'll rekindle our friendship, for at least one evening of drinking. I guess the only reason I want to contact them is to see how their lives compare to mine, and perhaps figure out where I've gone wrong? I would like to confront them about our past mistakes and talk about that, but I don't get any sense anyone else is interested, they just want small talk? Usually I get so sick of seeing them and so embarrassed about myself that I'll delete my profile, just to get away from everyone. Maybe it's because I don't have any real friends now, for many years, and I don't really "get" friends since I don't drink, party, like music or anything social. Do normal people party with old friends?

2007-05-23 20:52:53 · 2 answers · asked by Shinigami 2 in Friends

all my freinds always bring up sex.. and i just sit back and try to fly low under the radar... i have had a few chances but didnt take them...

i just freak out so bad anytime i get close to the real thing.


is this normal?

2007-05-23 20:45:34 · 22 answers · asked by Justin L 1 in Singles & Dating

i absolutely hate myself...and there is no hope. its like im trapped with no exit....for all eternity...


can you fathom what that is like?

what is "one" supposed to do?? any real suggestions.. oh..and ps..i am pretty smart actually so dont give me any of that "be postiive", believe in yourself", "look at so and so who has it worse than you"...bull sh*t cuz i see right trough it....

2007-05-23 20:39:37 · 11 answers · asked by justin 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends and i have talked about it for a while and now for a fact that whatever it takes we will get married. The problem is telling my parents. They already have a clue that we want to be married, but im not sure how they will react if i tell them we are wanting marriage now. I know he is the one. It hurts everyday when im not able to see him cuase i dont get to see him alot. I don't care if we live with my parents, and neither does he. We don't care about where we will be or what we'll have to do..we just want to be together,...but time is holding us back,..and we are afraid of what my parents would say or do about us getting married. I have one more year of school, and then ill go to beauty school for a year or so. He has a job already. I promise to focus on my school and career even if im married, becuase I want us to be able to move into a house oneday then have children. I just wish we could be married. Im not just another teen who thinks she's in love.what do i do...?

2007-05-23 20:38:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got rejected by a guy who I've liked for a long time, and now, my ex-boyfriend's friend likes me. I talk to him everyday at school, he's a great friend, but I don't really like him that way. I tried to imply to him that now's really not a good time, since he KNOWS about the rejection incident, but he doesn't seem to be taking the hint, even though he's really smart! How do I tell him I'm not interested, and keep the friendship? Should I tell him ASAP? How do I make sure that I won't lead him on afterwards?

2007-05-23 20:35:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mum was the sweetest, most generous, most selfless person you could possibly imagine. She would do anything for anyone, anything I asked her to do.
Then BAM! Menopause struck! My gentle mother suddenly became a savage monster, throwing coffee cups because the lunch my father brought home for her was on the wrong bread, feeding my babies full-sugar diets despite me telling her it was bad for them and asking her to stop. She turned gossipy with her friends. She'd go from happy to vicious in 10 seconds. And so many other horrible things, I can't fit them all here. Now, we put up with this, and tried to understand that it was her hormones and not her doing this, and that she had no control over it.
She's been on hormone replacement and her levels have been normal for over 5 years now, so why is she still devil-woman? It got so bad that I've had to keep her out of my life. It's just on a year now since I've spoken to her. I miss my mum. Anybody have a similar situation?

2007-05-23 20:29:27 · 4 answers · asked by CheeseFest 2 in Family

This actually happened to me... my bf and me was having a quarrell the last few days and he was really mad at me... and I was even madder! he was so bad to me!

And it ended up to be..
we broke up..
so.. I felt very sick without him.. and there fore... I was like..
didn't really wanted to go for work... but I actually knew how to keep my mind away from him.. which is... I stuff myself with work.. but... I wasn't really sure about it... so..
any advice? I need some help for forgetting him!
Thanks in advance.

2007-05-23 20:25:42 · 19 answers · asked by CELiNE:] 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this boy as a freind the thing is we hug spoon and make out kiss sleep togetha and sometimes hold hands but weneva i ask him out he says no what do i do and i tell him how i feel

2007-05-23 20:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by measexymonkey 1 in Friends

I have been reading through the questions and I really need to know. Why are our teens rushing to be in relationships and have sex? I have a 10 year old daughter and I really want to know so I can address these issues with her. I think that you young people should slow down, sex is not something to rush into and nor is it something to take lightly. Thanks for reading and any answers

2007-05-23 20:19:12 · 12 answers · asked by Tia 1 in Singles & Dating

Yao Defen lives in China and is 7 feet and 10 inches tall with a Pituitary Glan condition she is 35 year old and in Gerat need of our prayers. A Doctor has offered to operate on her in a few mounths but needs her health to improve. Please pray for her to get better and to recieve the gift of our father GOD and son Jesus. She is a very good person who has been poor and her family is very poor but GOD can do anything. Please pray for her and her family. GOD Bless you all.

2007-05-23 20:08:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i met her two days ago but i dont know what the hell happen to me,,, i mean i cant stop thinking about her she has everything that i want in girl she just amazing. i duno ...is that weriod

i really want her to be my girlfriend. i saw her today and we talked for ten minutes even thought she wasn't my watress cuz i wasnt sitting in her session then she keep't staring at me every time she past me i dont this girl is driving me crazy. i can't qiut thinking about her.
is't weriod to have strong feeling 4 someone after seeing her for second time.
all i know is that i wish that she with me between my arms.

2007-05-23 20:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to know the tactics of satisfying a girl in bed.

2007-05-23 20:04:05 · 12 answers · asked by Aubrey S 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats uppp sexyyyyy???

2007-05-23 19:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Singles & Dating

It is widely said that girls don't like pickup lines. How else to start a conversation? Many people suggest to use situation specific openers. But I have observed that that they don't necessarily lead to further conversations and you are back at square one wondering how to break the ice again.

2007-05-23 19:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by Kannan J 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years but lately we have been fighting alot. I was raped in febuary and have been depresed and my doctor put me on prozac. I think the medicine helps me and makes me feel better and less depressed, but my boyfriend doesent agree. he feels that i act differently. but he cant tell me how I am acting and what he doesent like about my personality when im on the medicine. He doesent want me to take it and has given me an ultimadum. basicaly its him or the medicine. what should i do?

2007-05-23 19:49:29 · 16 answers · asked by vesper_love 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres my situation. I'm 20 years old, and was with the same guy since I was 14. Whenever we were younger we had always planned on getting married and "being together forever". Lately I've grown up though and realize we aren't really right for each other and I ended it about a month ago.
So heres the real question. I work with this guy, and he's easily one of the most amazing guys I've ever met... We have an insane amount of things in common and we just flow really well when we're around each other. Problem is, hes kind of seeing this girl. He says that he doesnt really like her much but he likes being with her because it's some sort of companionship & he flirts like crazy with me...
I have REALLY strong feelings for him, but I just don't know if I should say anything, or maybe wait a while? Or maybe just never say anything and wait to see if he says something?

I dont know I just need some advice..

2007-05-23 19:47:18 · 16 answers · asked by jestergirly1969 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 19:42:05 · 6 answers · asked by miako 1 in Weddings

Ok well ive been going out w/ this guy for 3 weeks. We he recently yold me he loved me over the phone and i said i wasent ready to say it back, he told me again and again so i eventually told him back.
Hes really good to me, and calls like 3 times a day. He makes me things and sings to me. I really started falling for him.
Then i was gonna send him some pictures, and it dident work. And he was like what were they of. And i was like just me. And he was like were they naughty? and i said "you wish"
and he said not really cuz im eventually gonna get the real thing, and i was like NO YOUR NOT. and hes like if i marry you i will.
Later i was telling him i was excited to meet my future husband and know it was him, and he was like "do you know yet" and i said not yet. Ans he said ill just have to prove it to you.
Hes moving SO fast. and he tells me he loves me every 5 min.
i really really liked him but now im kinda freaking out. And backing off. what do i do

2007-05-23 19:39:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating