Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

2007-05-23 17:16:33 · 9 answers · asked by Amy Y 1 in Weddings

Did you take your wedding vows to heart & understand the magnitude of their meaning or now that you're married you realize the weight of their importance & wonder if marriage is what it's all cracked up to be?

2007-05-23 17:10:49 · 29 answers · asked by eluvsdmode 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex wife plays "the victim" (by the way,SHE's the one who filed for the divorce) to manipulate people into giving her money. meanwhile making me look like an uncaring father.

2007-05-23 17:10:35 · 12 answers · asked by autoshopexpress@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like while you are getting eatin out, what do you do haha just like sit there? it seems kinda embarrassing. like when i got it i just like sat tehre and uhh it was awkwardish haha

2007-05-23 17:08:41 · 32 answers · asked by Leyla S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 17:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if i go out to the pub, get drunker than hell, and come home to my gf smelling like a distillery(i sleep on the couch or even a few times for some reason i decided to sleep in the bathtub, i dunno)does this make me a bit of an asshole? she says hse doesnt mind...but she always has that look in her eyes that says otherwise.

2007-05-23 17:01:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 16:58:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think it's called the recession, after the kissing of the bride and the couple are on their way out of the church.

2007-05-23 16:56:06 · 20 answers · asked by misscynical77 1 in Weddings

Hey guys, been with my girl for 2 years.. well a few months ago I was suspicious she was cheating, we worked it all out and things went back to normal. Well a few weeks ago she gets a text from the guy in the middle of the night, it says ".". She said she has no reason to talk to him so I let it go.

Well the past 3 nights she's been going to Wal Mart (where the guy and his buddies hang out) all at 9 pm, when they are usually there. She says she hasn't seen them. But tonight she said his "best friend" ran across the parking lot to say "hey" to her and they talked for 5 minutes. I questioned her and she said, "No! Why would I talk to him in public, when someone you know could see me?" or "If I wanted to hang out with them I would have dumped you"

Now.. based on what she said.. do I believe her or is there something up?

And I know how important trust is, just getting opinions on what ya think.

2007-05-23 16:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by aa 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a good comback when they call you a loner?
I can never think of anything, please and thanks much.

2007-05-23 16:46:26 · 20 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Friends

It seems like the majority of girls hate full beards on guys. What's wrong with the ruggid, scruffy look?

2007-05-23 16:45:37 · 11 answers · asked by Lee Chamberlain 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfreind and me have decided to be freinds and all but the truth is i love him so so much, and i have loved him ever since we were kids. When we email he tells me he loves me and all but i dont think he knows how much i love him and I need him to know that i love him the same way I did only much more. Me and him exchange sweet words but i dont know were we are. Were supossed to be friends but its so confusing and i love him so much and i need to tell him how much but hes a guy right? how do you tell a guy that you still love them? or that you dont know were you are? I NEED help.

2007-05-23 16:41:46 · 22 answers · asked by Tiffany A 1 in Friends

I like this shy girl but theres this dance thing comming soon for high school and i want to ask her to it before i do i want to know if she lieks me. Her freinds when i see them tell me she doesnt but then after they shout out just kidding or im joking,im not sure if they mean she doesent or does. I noticed her take a couple glances at me a couple tiems and smiled and inoticed some other little things but i try to talk to her but she always is to shy to talk back ,anyways i want to see if anyone cant put anything useful out there for me to read

2007-05-23 16:39:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 16:32:18 · 13 answers · asked by norcalbtown 1 in Weddings

How do you tell when a man is being honest and when he is lying through his teeth??

2007-05-23 16:25:26 · 34 answers · asked by dorcas_3210 3 in Marriage & Divorce

when we were kids, our parents tought us not to talk to strangers, but now that we're adults, how come we talk to strangers?

2007-05-23 16:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in my last relationship i had a problem trusting the guy b/c he played me......i mean we started talking again but now i dont rly feel as if i can trust the new guy im talking to which is my ex-b/f.......i rly dont want to get hurt........im soooo confused on wat to do........

2007-05-23 16:21:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 16:18:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and with a full beard.

2007-05-23 16:16:40 · 13 answers · asked by Lee Chamberlain 1 in Singles & Dating

But now this guy has been doing something so odd that I am honestly wwondering if there is anyone else out there that has been through the same thing? This guy gets mad at me over anything and if that is not enough, he then hits his ownself so hard in the head and stomach, you name it! He will hit his own self until I beg him to stop and I have to tell him that everything will be alright and only then will he stop. I tell you this is really upsetting me. I can deal with about anything but, this is turning into a puzzle. Has anyone else ever heard of such a thing and if so why is he doing this. It's making me just feel emotionally sick to my stomach and it's upsetting to have to go through. I for one am tired of calming down a big over grown man that kicks his own but, Seriously!. I am kinda scared that if I try to leave now that he might be dangerous, what do you think? Ok thanks everyone and God Bless you all!

2007-05-23 16:15:13 · 11 answers · asked by SecretUser 3 in Singles & Dating

NOW THAT I GOT YOUR ATTENTION...(this isnt really about sex)...im having trouble. i was friends with benefits with one of my friends and he ended up falling in love wit me and i told him i wasnt comfortable with him telling me that so he stopped saying it but i could tell he still felt it cause he still acts like it and he hasnt been with any other girl since then and the other day i asked him how he felt and he said "you are my world" and that he still loved me but i never saw myself as being in a relationship with someone like him. my reasons for us not bein together were our age difference and that his mom doesnt like me. i always saw myself as being with someone different but im wondering if by still trying to find someone that has all the qualities i want Im going to be missing out on what me and him may have if we were to be together, he's told me he wants to be with me but i always say no because of our age difference (he's younger). so im wondering if i should give him a chance

2007-05-23 16:14:40 · 11 answers · asked by PAISA 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean my dad to this day (im 20) never has mentioned anything not even my mom i learned everything from friends and other family members and of course the media..but why is it so bad ...if anything i wouldve love to be tought about ... HIV,pregnancy,gays/Lesbians, and when to say something..

2007-05-23 16:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-23 16:13:27 · 4 answers · asked by fsu-boy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 30 year old woman, truely in love with a 19 year old man. He is very mature, never talks to other girls, good looking, cares about me, wants to be there for me and my son, and is going places with his life. He acts like he is my age. I have a 9 year old son with my ex of 9 years. My ex and I broke up about a year ago, and I left him because he beat me so many times, and the last time he broke my jaw. He followed me and is now living with me and my brother and our son. He said he has changed, won't ever beat me again, wants to marry me, and wants everything to be ok and that we can work things out. I don't love him, and love my dear boyfriend who loves me so much back, and has proved to me he is there for me and wants to be there for my son too. My son doesn't like him that much, and wants me to go back with my ex - his dad. He doesn't know he beat me. I feel guilty and think I should go back with my ex to make my son happy, I don't want him to suffer. Am I making a good choice?

2007-05-23 16:12:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What's the best thing/first thing to say to a passive-agressive person when you realize that they truly are passive-agressive?

2007-05-23 16:11:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey there. My parents are pretty wealthy and some of my friends are, er, not. One particular friend hardly gets anything for her birthday. It makes me real sad. My parents will let me spend any amount I want on her present.. But I think it might make her feel uncomfortable if I spend too much and it might make her parents feel bad.

Do you think buying someone a nice present - such as a 35 dollar hair straightener and a new t-shirt - and giving them one hundred dollars is too much? That's what I'm planning..

Keep in mind, there's not a lot of rich people around where I live. Just a few. So it's not everyday you give someone an expensive gift. But she's seriously my best friend and I want her to 1. have a straightener that actually works, 2. have a new t-shirt (freshman wearing 7th grader's clothes. D:), and 3. have some money to spend. But I just don't want to belittle anyone, you know?

Thanks for your help.

2007-05-23 16:11:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

as i said in a question before my brother was murdered this year by my nephew. my nephew was indetifed by another person whom he shot and also my cousin an eye witness the same night of the murder. so why did it take them 1 whole month to put a warrant out for his arrest. we found out a couple months ago that my nephew was actcually arrested 2 weeks after the murder out side of nyc HOWEVER since the police department only had him as a "person of intrest" and not a warrant they let him go!!!! and then my sister talked to the detective handling the case trying to give him some info that she found out and the detective told her to be honest your brothers case isnt our priorty!! when has it ever been?? is it becuase its family are we not supposed to want my nephew behing bars?

2007-05-23 16:08:40 · 8 answers · asked by bonbonhey 1 in Family

Well my ex fiancee who also happens to be my best friend comes to see me with about 40 hickies on his neck. It looked like some disgusting rash and he tells me that he got involved with some random guy (I've known he was bi for quite some time). Come to find out from my friend that he wrote in his livejournal that he is in an relationship with some guy. I asked him straight out if he was involved and he lied to my FACE! This isn't the first time I caught him lieing, but I thought the lies stopped years ago. He wasn't afraid to hurt my feelings (he's done that many times with no regrets whatsoever). I'm so pissed. It's not that he's in a relationship that bothers me it's that he would lie straight to my face. That and it's not cool to come see your ex with a hickie necklace with no warning whatsoever. What should I do? I really want to hurt him right now. What would be the right thing to do?

2007-05-23 16:06:44 · 7 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i keep a friend that like me more???

2007-05-23 16:04:14 · 2 answers · asked by Jamie T 4 in Singles & Dating

Dated a guy, broke up with him because of his anger issues. It's been almost 6 months, and I've had sporadic contact with him. He's had counselling, anger management, he's got a different (less stressful) job, different roommates, and he's inquiring about going back to school to improve himself. He also says he wants me back. Do I trust him? Has he really changed or is all that just for my benefit?

2007-05-23 16:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating