in my last relationship i had a problem trusting the guy b/c he played me......i mean we started talking again but now i dont rly feel as if i can trust the new guy im talking to which is my ex-b/f.......i rly dont want to get hurt........im soooo confused on wat to do........
2007-05-23 16:21:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is a hard one, especially when your trust has been betrayed before. It takes time to trust again, but you can not make your new man pay for the mistakes of your ex-man. You have to take the chance and trust your man to not be like your ex-man. That's what love is all about... taking a chance.
The trust issues will always be there, but at least you'll be a little more wiser now.
2007-05-23 16:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Island*Chica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel like you can trust someone, don't go out w/them. Trust is #1 in a relationship. If it's not there, don't waste your time & get hurt in the end. I'm a little confused if you're talking about your ex & being able to trust him again. I'd say to stay away from that one if you had problems before, who needs them again. You'll always be wondering if he's being honest w/you. That's not a relationship, that's asking to be hurt!
2007-05-23 16:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be very cautious now. I've been cheated on a whole lot of times and I know what you mean about not being able to trust again. But you can't let the fear run your life. There's no reward without the risk. Just keep your guard up and be cautious about what goes around. Good luck.
2007-05-23 16:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, ya can't fix him. Your common sense is a drag cause thats whats nagging you here. Its good to be so smart but the down side is always those darn feelings. Smart girls do get experience and learn to Nip it! There are better guys out there, and truely relationships are supposed to feel good, if its a constant hassel on any comfort level, NIP IT! How did you get 14% best answers-----I'm jealous
2007-05-23 16:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your first feeling that he can't be trusted. What makes you think you won't get played again?
2007-05-23 16:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that this guy is a different human being. You have to trust him in order to make it work.
2007-05-23 16:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to give him a chance, because you won't never know if you don't try. try not to let your past interfere with your future
2007-05-23 16:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by KEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he played you before he most likely will do it again they always say theve changed but never really do so beat him at his own game pay backs r a *****.
2007-05-23 16:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by babey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he doesnt like you. Or anyone at all. Give up on dating.
2007-05-23 16:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by 5g 28s 12c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think that you should just take it slow and be friends for awhile and see what happens next,good luck
2007-05-23 16:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋