But now this guy has been doing something so odd that I am honestly wwondering if there is anyone else out there that has been through the same thing? This guy gets mad at me over anything and if that is not enough, he then hits his ownself so hard in the head and stomach, you name it! He will hit his own self until I beg him to stop and I have to tell him that everything will be alright and only then will he stop. I tell you this is really upsetting me. I can deal with about anything but, this is turning into a puzzle. Has anyone else ever heard of such a thing and if so why is he doing this. It's making me just feel emotionally sick to my stomach and it's upsetting to have to go through. I for one am tired of calming down a big over grown man that kicks his own but, Seriously!. I am kinda scared that if I try to leave now that he might be dangerous, what do you think? Ok thanks everyone and God Bless you all!
2007-05-23 16:15:13 · 11 answers · asked by SecretUser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should leave him alone right now, because he sounds crazy and he might hurt you one day so i think you should get away as fast as you could. and he sounds controlling
2007-05-23 16:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men and even women will enflict pain on themselves to keep from doing it to their partner. When in a relationship or even with family matters the person will get upset over something and start to hit, bite, punch, or create pain on themselves to keep from doing it to someone else they love. It isn't normal to do it and most people are medicated for it. You should mention to him that you think the two of you should go to counseling or maybe you could go with him to his family physician. If you wan to stay with him, it will help him more if he know's and feel's that you are supportive of him helping himself. Just try and see if that work's!
2007-05-24 11:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by SWEETPEA!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the guy has some serious emotional issues and you should leave quick and fast and never go back ,if you are worried about something as in you think he will hurt you or whatever then you can get someone to help you get out of that house and good luck ,it sounds like it is going to get worse before it gets better if it ever gets better take care of yourself girl ,sounds like you are going to need it and be careful find you a guy that isn't a nut case and date him latter
2007-05-23 23:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to leave, he is a head case. He has real problems that you don't need to be part of. He isn't going to get better and if you stick around it easily could get worse...for you. This is a really bad situation, get out now and don't look back no matter what he says he will do to himself.
2007-05-23 23:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get out. It sounds like he's trying to get some control over you. By him hitting himself, he has you thinking that you are the only one who can get him to stop. He will probably stop hitting himself and start hitting you. Get out, contact the police if you have too, but leave.
2007-05-23 23:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is controlling you. He is smart enough not to do so directly (hitting you), but also knows that you will respond to him hitting himself. So he gets you to do what he wants you to do, gets the reassurance that "it's alright" and that's what he wants. You are enabling him.
If you love him, get counseling together. If you don't, leave. But choose fast.
2007-05-23 23:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Adam G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has an emotional mental health issue...and for your safety and his you should get a mental health evaluation for him before he seriously does damage to himself and worse ...to you...he is already effecting your mental well being....GET HELP FAST! Too many underling issue to asses in a forum such as this!
2007-05-23 23:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by elz98409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Krazy MOFO! Man he needs help and if you stick around, you will too. Save your money, hold out till the end of the lease and get out! If it gets worse fast, leave him some money for rent and leave.
2007-05-23 23:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that sounds serious. have you tried talking to him about this, in a nice way? maybe he can explain, if not, seek some more professional help? I don't know, hope everything turns out well for you and your guy.
2007-05-23 23:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring him to a psychiatrist.... It's the best thing to do for now..
God bless... Don't lsoe hope dear..
2007-05-23 23:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by SoSick0fy0u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋