My ex boyfreind and me have decided to be freinds and all but the truth is i love him so so much, and i have loved him ever since we were kids. When we email he tells me he loves me and all but i dont think he knows how much i love him and I need him to know that i love him the same way I did only much more. Me and him exchange sweet words but i dont know were we are. Were supossed to be friends but its so confusing and i love him so much and i need to tell him how much but hes a guy right? how do you tell a guy that you still love them? or that you dont know were you are? I NEED help.
2007-05-23 16:41:46 · 22 answers · asked by Tiffany A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"I still love you."
2007-05-23 16:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing first; before saying the words you need to figure out where both of you stand because you donot want to look like the fool in this. What I mean is you never know what he is thinking and most guys after breaking up either try to find out how much his ex still loves him or not. When he finds out that his ex still loves him; most guys treat you like a fool knowing you would do anything because you love him.
Just find out where both of you stand in this thing called "Friendship". After finding out then you will know what to do. If his love is genuine then you should tell him how you feel but if it's not then don't because it wouldn't be worth it at the end.
2007-05-23 16:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by deniseywalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't do it face to face, opt for the email. Just be honest and tell him, I know we are friends and I don't want to ruin that but I have to be truthful and tell you, I love you, more than just a friend. How do you feel about that? Just talk and you might find out he feels the same but is too shy to say it. Wish you the best.
2007-05-23 16:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very confused. I'll suggest to you that since your not in an actual relationship, its not adult to get into idolizing him because you need to stay in the moment with whats real. This romance ended for valid reasons on one of your parts. You could suggest going out if hes game, but stay grounded here. There is a lack of maturity about your thinking.
2007-05-23 16:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am having the same difficulty, coz it seems like begging or stooping for us femmes if we kind of let on that we still carry the torch for them. Maybe on a spur of the moment when it feels right you can just sort of blurt out, but before that I guess you have to find ways to know whether he is sincere and still crazy for you, and if you can, make him say it first.
2007-05-23 16:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jumpin' in the Dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya... you gotta lay it on the line!
tell him that he's the one for you... that when you close your eyes, he's the one who you dream about, when you catch your breath, it's him you breathe... with apologies to Michelle Branch "everywhere" ... it ends with a question... so it's open to him responding...
Turn it inside out so I can see
The part of you that's drifting over me
And when I wake you're never there
But when I sleep you're everywhere
You're everywhere
Just tell me how I got this far
Just tell me why you're here and who you are
'Cause every time I look
you're never there
And every time I sleep
you're always there
'Cause you're everywhere to me
And when I close my eyes it's you I see
You're everything I know
that makes me believe
I'm not alone
I'm not alone
I recognize the way you make me feel
It's hard to think that
you might not be real
I sense it now, the water's getting deep
I try to wash the pain away from me
Away from me
'Cause you're everywhere to me
And when I close my eyes it's you I see
You're everything I know
that makes me believe
I'm not alone
I'm not alone
I am not alone
Whoa, oh, oooh, oh
And when I touch your hand
It's then I understand
The beauty that's within
It's now that we begin
You always light my way
I hope there never comes a day
No matter where I go
I always feel you so
'Cause you're everywhere to me
And when I close my eyes it's you I see
You're everything I know
that makes me believe
I'm not alone
'Cause you're everywhere to me
And when I catch my breath
it's you I breathe
You're everything I know
that makes me believe
I'm not alone
You're in everyone I see
So tell me
Do you see me?
2007-05-23 16:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tell a guy you love him first. Let him be the one to open his heart to you first. Then if you feel the same way, let him know.
If he already told you he loves you and you feel the same way - just way it. Let him know that you love him as well. Just say, I love you. Nothing hard about that - I am sure it will put a smile on her face and a skip in his heart. Go for it.
2007-05-23 16:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nicely... she's your female chum, so one might think of that it truly is a risk which you like her. i do no longer think of there'll be any surprises there. do no longer worry, kick back, and tell her once you're waiting. you will understand whilst the time is suited. that would not advise you isn't worried however. this is completely organic to experience somewhat jittery once you first tell somebody the style you experience approximately them. quite, once you're terrified of sounding too "corny". With all of that suggested, if she feels remotely the style you do, she's probable hoping you will tell her the style you experience, so do no longer worry.
2016-10-13 07:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really need to find out if there is any possibility of you and him getting back together. If so, instead of telling him how you feel try showing him. But be sure, having someone not return your feelings can hurt.
2007-05-23 16:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by itsallreal2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no simpler way than to just come out and tell him... he may have the same feelings too, but may think that you're probably not in the same page with him. The best way to find out is to discuss it with him.
2007-05-23 16:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by Faith . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell him, preferably in person. You need to be very clear, guys are big on getting hits or reading our minds. So don't beat around the bush just tell him honestly how you feel.
2007-05-23 16:45:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋