Well my ex fiancee who also happens to be my best friend comes to see me with about 40 hickies on his neck. It looked like some disgusting rash and he tells me that he got involved with some random guy (I've known he was bi for quite some time). Come to find out from my friend that he wrote in his livejournal that he is in an relationship with some guy. I asked him straight out if he was involved and he lied to my FACE! This isn't the first time I caught him lieing, but I thought the lies stopped years ago. He wasn't afraid to hurt my feelings (he's done that many times with no regrets whatsoever). I'm so pissed. It's not that he's in a relationship that bothers me it's that he would lie straight to my face. That and it's not cool to come see your ex with a hickie necklace with no warning whatsoever. What should I do? I really want to hurt him right now. What would be the right thing to do?
2007-05-23 16:06:44 · 7 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I know this will come up, but I'm over him. I'm in another long term relationship and everything.
2007-05-23 16:07:03 · update #1
On top of it, not even 2 days ago he came to see me at my house and he says we need to start trusting eachother more and goes on about how close we are. Only for him to do this...
2007-05-23 16:08:24 · update #2
maybe you were just meant to be friends....just friends..
2007-05-23 16:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by a Rose with no other name. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok why do u stay in a relationship with this person?
1st off he's bi( 9 time out of 10 he swings more the other way then ur way)Ur never gonna be happy with a guy bi because if he's not cheating on u with another girl he's messing around with a GUY!! and thats worst then him cheating with another woman.
He stabs u in the back but will lie think nothing of lying to ur face
he's a two faced backstabbing jerk( DUMP THAT TRASH AT THE NEARST GARBAGE DUMP)
He shows u NO RESPECT because he has heckies all over him and don't care if u see them.
He's living proof that once a cheater always a cheater, once a lier always a lier, once a backstabber always a backstabber.
U thought the lies would stop, why should they the cheating hasn't.
U said ur upset that he lies to ur face HEY if he stabs u in the back he's gonna lie to ur face( two faced)
So ask ur self " Im I really happy with this, will this get any better, can I do better?
Ur not doing yourself any good stay with a person who would do this to u, it will NEVER be a happy relationship, because of the lying, back stabbing and the cheating with whomever.
He doesn't care about u if he did he would NEVER HURT U BY DOING THE THINGS HE DO
U would be the love of his live and he would be pleasing u not hurting u
Dump him and get with a guy who's not bi, a backstabber a cheater and a lier.
This is a big world and once u get out there a meet guys who will treat u better u will look back and wonder why u wasted time with this person.
Good Luck
2007-05-23 16:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, take the high road. Do not sink to his level. That only diminishes your self esteem. Just leave him and find someone worthy of you.
2007-05-23 16:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. I wonder about these rashes on his neck.
2007-05-23 16:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him, dump him, get him out of your life like a smelly piece of trash
2007-05-23 16:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were engaged to a bi person? it seems to me hes not the one with the problems.
2007-05-23 16:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by leolabrit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he lied cause he didnt want to hear your mouth,
your not mad cause he lied your mad cause he is with someone,he is your ex move on
2007-05-23 16:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋