NOW THAT I GOT YOUR ATTENTION...(this isnt really about sex)...im having trouble. i was friends with benefits with one of my friends and he ended up falling in love wit me and i told him i wasnt comfortable with him telling me that so he stopped saying it but i could tell he still felt it cause he still acts like it and he hasnt been with any other girl since then and the other day i asked him how he felt and he said "you are my world" and that he still loved me but i never saw myself as being in a relationship with someone like him. my reasons for us not bein together were our age difference and that his mom doesnt like me. i always saw myself as being with someone different but im wondering if by still trying to find someone that has all the qualities i want Im going to be missing out on what me and him may have if we were to be together, he's told me he wants to be with me but i always say no because of our age difference (he's younger). so im wondering if i should give him a chance
2007-05-23 16:14:40 · 11 answers · asked by PAISA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like him but i have trouble seeing myself in a serious relationship wit him
2007-05-23 16:24:40 · update #1
lol anita that was such a cute answer :-)
2007-05-23 17:01:25 · update #2
personaly i like friends with benefits more, not cause I'm a pervert or anything but it's jus more fun that way. but if u actually wanna d8 then might as well n wait for some1 with all the right qualities, i know a girl that's been waiting for years for that... personaly i think it's not worth the wait, by the time u find some1 they'll prolly have more experience in dating stuff than u. But if u don't really want a bf right now jus keep bein FWB, u can't really get let down or put out by FWBs as long as u dont fall in love w them, can only get fun. I dated a couple girls who were 'friends w benefits' with me and both them and me found it more boring...
2007-05-23 16:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him a chance. I dont suppose that he is more than 5 years your junior. There are many other couples out there like you. Some i know too have gf, wives, bf or husbands younger or older. One should know that chemistry is very important in a relationship. Be it to start or to last.
2007-05-23 23:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by igck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love knows no age,space, or time,it is what you feel in your heart and you have to be willing to take risk,and as for the mom thing all mothers think thier sons are perfect and no woman is good enough for thier baby boys just remember what god jions together let no man putasunder-so yes give him and yourself a chance and always put god first in your relationship and you will never be sorry,i speak from knowlege firsthand.
2007-05-23 23:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by emerqald moon61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how you feel about him. Do you truly want to be with him? Do you like him? If you do, forget about age. Age doesn't matter. Love doesn't have age. Remember that.
2007-05-23 23:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How big is the age difference?
2007-05-23 23:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if the age difference is more than 3 years, forget about it
2007-05-23 23:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a great answer!
NOW THAT I GOT YOUR ATTENTION
I lied. I have nothing for you. I feel so used and manipulated by you. How could you toy with my emotions like that?
2007-05-23 23:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should give him a chance.
this MIGHT be destiny combining with true love.
2007-05-23 23:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by JaviActor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if he is younger than you give him a chance
P.S nice topic
2007-05-23 23:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by knox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if you can't see yourself being with him for the rest of your life, don't settle...keep looking and you'll find your "one"
2007-05-23 23:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by confused angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋