Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

my sister gets really hiper sometimes and i just like want to shut her up

2007-05-23 14:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by midnight_mouse2121 1 in Family

i dont know if im just paranoid or it is a woman's instinct thats been bugging me for almost everyday. i would admit that there has been a history of cheating on his side but after dat he assured me of not doing it again. one time, he told me that hel go out with a friend who comes back from other country. then, i called him suprisingly, i dont know if he accidentally answered his fon, and i heard girls talking. so i called again, he answered again and record the conversation to be proof.the next day i ask him, denies going out with agirls, and showed him my proof, he explained to me he denies it because scared of having arguments again. after that he said that hel be honest and said that if hel be out with girls with his friends he will not lie to me, and let me hear their conversations.

2007-05-23 14:51:56 · 17 answers · asked by prettyhotchick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 24 years old and I just had a wonderful date with a wonderful guy who is 29. We really hit it off and I really feel like we could have serious relationship potential. My question is....after the first date, when would be an appropriate time to initiate/have sex? What do guys see as a good time to have sex? After the first the third date, third week, third month....what? After how long do guys assume that a girl must be a "prude"? Any thoughts would be appreciated!

2007-05-23 14:50:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently took an out of state promotion in Jan. my wife who was behind me in this move, and was able to transfer to the same city with her company, has now decided to stay where she is I believe for the social life she enjoys there. Now I also need to add that I work nights and she works days, so our time together has been limited the last few years. I did not expect her to sit on the couch by herself every night. However, lately it has turned into 3-4 nights a week that she goes to the bar. If I don't make the effort to drive 7 hours on the weekend to see her, then I don't because she will not come to where I am at. Or meet me halfway. We have been married close to 10 years now. But I feel as though there is someone or something else. She gets evasive when I ask why she did not want to move with me. I made this move to better our lives. I think I made it worse. Or brought out what was going to happen sooner. Should I just go ahead and let her go?

2007-05-23 14:48:48 · 9 answers · asked by Vinsims 2 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP

2007-05-23 14:48:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you been completely faithful to this person? By choice?

Do you ever mourn not being single?

Would it be as solid a relationship if you were just co-habiting?

2007-05-23 14:48:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HEY i need help my friend recently came to Canada with a work permit he is legal person in Canada and will be a citizen in 2 yrs ok....now the problem is he was framedby his wife...what his wife did was hit her self on the head and call the cops stating he hit her...i know this b/c he told me....also i have know him since 2 yrs of age...he is the most honest men i have ever met and i believe him more than...anything trust me here (if you cant just imagine it is a hypothetical...i need ans not love...) so he went to jail and does not live with his wife he is on bail and lives by himself he still hasn't gotten the items from the wife's apartment...now my questions is what can he do....to prove his case....the daughter was in school at that time....also the mother had filed a complaint for the daughter that he abused her which is false 100% the mother is spoiling the daughter so she can support her by letting her watch TV 24/7 and you know buying her stuff and bull s h i t....

2007-05-23 14:43:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A stripper ask my for my number will she was giving my a lapdance. I asked an other strippers for her number just to see what she would say and she gave it to me. A third stripper even asked my "Don't you want my number?" Does this happen to most guys that go to strip clubs because the girls are hustling?
I did call them but I lost interest because they are strippers.

2007-05-23 14:40:35 · 7 answers · asked by moviegoer 2 in Singles & Dating

would guys prefer a girl dressed really sexy or would they prefer them in a cute teeshirt with a slogan or something? i am 20, looking for answers relevant to my agegroup. thanks!

2007-05-23 14:39:33 · 7 answers · asked by daisyduke 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy !(confused!)!?
i dont like this guy but he really likes me he also says he loves me but hes 15 and im 13 1/2 and i told him that we really dont know what love is and that i dont like him........ the reason i dont like him is because i think hes gay or bi im not against that at all its just i am straight and i want a straight guy there is also something not right about him he is really weird and i dont feel safe around him and i dont know if i shouldnt give him a chance or not...... should i or not???

2007-05-23 14:33:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has his son 50% of the time.He divorced his ex when tom was just a baby and i have been in his life since he was 2yrs old so this life is all tom knows.But in the last yr or so tom has gotten very jealous of me and wants his dad to himself.Now my husband is the perfect dad and spends quality time with his son alone and with me.But lately tom does not even want his dad to watch tv with me after he goes to bed he wants him to stay with him till he falls asleep.If my husband trys to talk to me about something tom starts climbing all over us trying to get attention from his dad.now my husband spends almost all his time with tom(we never get a babysitter when tom is over we just go out when we don't have tom) playing and doing what he wants. but when we do talk tom will make my husband feel guilty by saying things like "Its my special time with u do something with her when i'm not here" can anyone tell me why he is doing this?

2007-05-23 14:32:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been here only two days and have found 99% of the questions regarding divorce, property settlements, pre-nups, child custody, support and visitation, and probate have the same issues. a lack of factual data on which to offer a valid opinion.

That's why I am wasting a question to try and help those of you BEFORE posting.

If you have a question regarding one of these issues then please do yourself and those who may try to help you a favor and supply the following:

Were the two of you married?
In what state was the custody, visitation, divorce and/or property settlement issued (court order)

If pertaining to a child, and unmarried, did the father sign an affidavit of paternity?

If pertaining to a child and married, was the child born within 6 months of being married or divorced?

If visitation, what does your order state regarding the issue?

2007-05-23 14:30:13 · 3 answers · asked by hexeliebe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

well i was dateing this guy for a year and he left me for my bestfriend amber and he didnt even tell me that it was over i walked into school and seen him and my friend amber makeingout and holding hands and i dont know how to get over him and its been a mounth and i still cry every night and every time i see them together.....so how do i get over him? and because of him i feel like i dont even want to date ever again....someone plz help me

2007-05-23 14:24:16 · 15 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 14:23:49 · 2 answers · asked by flowerpot1990 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it illegal for a 15 yr old and a 22 yr old to be together? Say this 15 yr old and 22 yr old are dating, no sex, parent permission, etc. Is this legal? Can the 22yr old have any charges pressed agianst him? On sort of the same topic, if they were having sex, is there ANY way the 22 yr old could get off-parent permission, love, etc.? AND this is all coming from the mouth of the 15 yr old just to let you know. Please no rude comments (ex. he should be locked up, that's gross, etc.). Thank you!

2007-05-23 14:22:08 · 36 answers · asked by Spicky & Grl ♥ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

remember im only a freshman going to soon be a sophomore:)

2007-05-23 14:17:59 · 10 answers · asked by makay 1 in Singles & Dating

I fell out of love and got bored with my husband and started a relationship with a coworker. We have been together for almost 17 years and have three kids. When he found out that I wanted to leave him he freaked out and had to go to the hospital for what they called "emotional shock". I'm with my new lover now but just curious if that sounds like normal behavior?I might go for full custody if that doesn't sound normal.

2007-05-23 14:17:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://usera.imagecave.com/iowngodsface/doeshelikeme.PNG

^ First, he said this. ^

Now, my "friend" is telling me that he doesn't like me.

I don't know who to trust... her or him?
(she used to go out with him)

2007-05-23 14:17:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm newly divorced in my 30s and just wondering what other woman my age look for in a man.

2007-05-23 14:14:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

But once I got over it I started asking people if they liked my friends who had ditched me and it turns out everyone hates them! My ex-friends havevery few friends and keep apologizing, but I actual feel happy that people hate them and I'm completley ignoring them, should I feel guilty?

2007-05-23 14:11:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfrind and I have been living together for almost a year now. I get introduced as his wife by alot of people in our lives. He has been separated from his wife for 2 years now.
Can we be considered common law married even if he is still married by law? I want to put him on my insurance plan and if we are common law it is allowed but I want to know will him being legally married make it possible?

2007-05-23 14:10:41 · 16 answers · asked by Valentina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex have had a rough last 6 months of our current relationship. What should I do? I feel like I am holding on to dear life for him and yet he pushes away and acts disant. I really love him and have been threw so much with him. I am afraid of losing him. He has been my strength and my armor when I need him the most. Should I let him go or should I stay by him? REALLY CONFUSED

2007-05-23 14:07:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you finally get married?

2007-05-23 14:06:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf of 4 yrs(engaged 2) has a short fuse.He has never hit me but has smashed a few things when pissed at me.He likes to yell and sware(i never at him) when fighting with me.He does not call me names but he will say things like "I can't take this f-cking sh-t anymore find someone else" or "go to f-cking hell".Now he does not talk to anyone else like this just me.At the end of yelling with me he will always say to himself loud enough for me to hear"i need to get out of here" meaning move out.Why do i stay? Both my parents have died and i am only child i have no family.I moved out off state to be close to his family so i don't really have any close friends i just know a few people from work.I'm so sad all the time but if i leave him i will be alone and don't know if im just overreacting as i have no one to talk to about this.

2007-05-23 14:06:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i love dogs, but my girl friends evil little dog needs to go ASAP. as i am asking this question the little monster is tearing up my rug!! it craps all over the place, it barks every minute, humps my ankle when i'm not looking, it doesn't listen, it's mean towards everyone but my girl friend. can anyone tell me how i can convice my girl friend to put the dog down or give it away someone dumb enough to take it? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-23 14:05:27 · 16 answers · asked by josh j 1 in Friends

i have a 2 year old daughter and have raised her almost completely by myself with little help from her father. now that i am dating he is angry and wants to take her from me. reason being he thought we could get back together and is afraid someday ill make him pay child support and thinks that will go towards a man. he wants her half time or more, but already has a 10 year old he passes around to his family or whoever is able to care for her. he has had 12 jobs in last 2 years, just now got a place to live and call home, goes out all the time, never payed his bills on time, changes his daughters school yearsly to whichever is convenient,and doesnt take the raising my child right as serious as i do. he has more money than me and a better attorney and is getting just what he wants, like all i have to say doesnt matter! i want him to see her, but i want her primary residence to be with me so i can maintain a stable life for her. and yeah, i want child support too...what do i do?

2007-05-23 14:05:22 · 6 answers · asked by thats me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf of 4 yrs(engaged 2) has a short fuse.He has never hit me but has smashed a few things when pissed at me.He likes to yell and sware(i never at him) when fighting with me.He does not call me names but he will say things like "I can't take this f-cking sh-t anymore find someone else" or "go to f-cking hell".Now he does not talk to anyone else like this just me.At the end of yelling with me he will always say to himself loud enough for me to hear"i need to get out of here" meaning move out.Why do i stay? Both my parents have died and i am only child i have no family.I moved out off state to be close to his family so i don't really have any close friends i just know a few people from work.I'm so sad all the time but if i leave him i will be alone and don't know if im just overreacting as i have no one to talk to about this.

2007-05-23 14:05:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you ever be friends with an ugly guy? If so, would you hang out with him in clubs and other public places?

2007-05-23 14:04:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf of 4 yrs(engaged 2) has a short fuse.He has never hit me but has smashed a few things when pissed at me.He likes to yell and sware(i never at him) when fighting with me.He does not call me names but he will say things like "I can't take this f-cking sh-t anymore find someone else" or "go to f-cking hell".Now he does not talk to anyone else like this just me.At the end of yelling with me he will always say to himself loud enough for me to hear"i need to get out of here" meaning move out.Why do i stay? Both my parents have died and i am only child i have no family.I moved out off state to be close to his family so i don't really have any close friends i just know a few people from work.I'm so sad all the time but if i leave him i will be alone and don't know if im just overreacting as i have no one to talk to about this.

2007-05-23 14:04:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ejaculate in like a minute or two whenever we have sex, leaving her unsatisfied, so she wants to leave. She's my first and we've only had sex like 5 times, in which times i always come like 4 times before she comes once. She frustrated and wants to leave. What do i do to sexually satisfy her and make her stay.

2007-05-23 14:03:18 · 11 answers · asked by Kiddo C 1 in Singles & Dating