But once I got over it I started asking people if they liked my friends who had ditched me and it turns out everyone hates them! My ex-friends havevery few friends and keep apologizing, but I actual feel happy that people hate them and I'm completley ignoring them, should I feel guilty?
2007-05-23 14:11:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why would you feel guilty? As long as you behave in a kind way and don't talk behind their backs, you have nothing to feel guilty about. I don't know if the "I feel happy that people hate them" is a good thing, though. You might want to let the anger go, if only for your own sake.
2007-05-23 14:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! They didn't treat you right, and you DO have every right to not feel guilty. I HATE people like that! I have some "friends" like that, and they're always on and off. they dont treat me right, and I'm the one who turns up, feeling hated, and thinking I'm a loser, because I keep going back, and appologizing when i DID NOTHING WRONG. sO, TO HECK WITH THEM. yOU'LL FIND NEW FRIENDS. bETTER FRIENDS.
2007-05-23 14:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Isabelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i no you were upset by the way they acted but maybe you could give them a second chance. they didnt do anything to hurt you just your feelings. who knows maybe they realized what a fun freind you were and miss you now. hating will get you no where but being a forgiving person will have many more rewards for you in the end. good luck hope it all works out. lanay
2007-05-23 14:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty! I'm kind of in the same situation and I don't feel guilty. It's their fault people don't like them, not yours.
2007-05-23 14:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by erinmitbaren <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that happen to me and it hurted me alot and annoyed me too. I think you should find friends that respect you and could trust. I think you shouldn't feel guilty at all they hurted you more.
2007-05-23 14:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by PurpleLiliy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should feel guilty because they ditched you.
But if you do feel guilty maybe you should try acknowledging them without being really nice.
2007-05-23 14:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't feel guilty about it but they may have just been joking with you so you may want to give them a second chance
2007-05-23 14:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Donnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt feel guilty because its not right for them to ditch you.real friends wouldnt do that.
2007-05-23 14:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by BeAcHBaBe1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your x-friends don't sound like real friends. Don't feel bad or anything!They ditched you first!
2007-05-23 14:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Julie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two ways to look at it> oh is me. or thank God so the right person can come into my life.
2007-05-23 14:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋