Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

A friend and i met at school and it started as a random hookup. I had never had a serious relationship before. As i pushed her away less and less things snowballed. we live together and have extremely compatable personalities. Things were perfect for almost a two years now and she had started to maybe look like the one. Her X cheated and really hurt her so i never questioned her loyalty.
I found out a week ago she kissed a guy at a party. Her story is she had a small crush on him and it was "coincidence" to see him at the party i missed. Im told they hung out alot and had a questionably close relationship. He kissed her and she kissed back but immediatley felt bad and left the party. Neither of them were drinking. She cried alot for a day or two. were still together but with a huge elephant in the livingroom problem. Ive been thinking about how much i like her and how she betrayed me all day every day. I think her persuit of the crush is just as bad as sexual cheating. What do i do?

2007-05-23 18:09:36 · 31 answers · asked by viewsonic1687 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am a christian woman who has fallen for a good friend that is Muslim. Never in a million years did I think that this could happen to me. He is one of the best people I know and I truly love him. He does not know this yet, because I have not decided what I am going to do. I know that he has feelings for me as well. Does anyone have any experiences with this type of situation?

2007-05-23 18:07:19 · 7 answers · asked by uuummk 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 18:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by 951 1 in Family

Where should I look. I am attractive a bit overweight but I am extremely well proportioned. I catch guys looking at me all the time but I am so shy I don't know what to do. Please anyone with advice.

2007-05-23 18:01:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for about a year and a half. When he first met me he told everyone he knew that i was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen. He tells me things like that all the time... That said, I am confused and infuriated as to why he looks at other girls. He doesn't gawk, but he looks nonetheless. What makes me FURIOUS is when our gay mutual guy friend tells me when my boyfriend says a girl is hot when im not there. It makes me so mad, I throw tantrums and cry for hours. I can look at a guy and think he's nice looking but it stops there; I don't go on about it to friends. Yes, I know I sound like a basket case but i really don't know how to deal with this. If he thinks im so hot why is he telling his friends how hot other girls are behind my back? Can i stop it or curb the behavior? it's killing me!

2007-05-23 18:00:04 · 11 answers · asked by L K 1 in Singles & Dating

Been going out with my girlfriend for awhile now and think that we should change things up a bit. We kiss all the time and both have talked about going farther. She is alright with my grabbing her breast but I am unsure on how to do it.. I think that it should be done while we are kissing, but if you have any pointers please help me out.

2007-05-23 17:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Like woahhh!!! (: 3 in Singles & Dating

It just started one day when I grabbed a drink after work. I introduced myself to him and told him that I work right by him at another store. That night he gave us a free round. So a couple of days later, he comes by my store and he remembered who I was and my name, and honestly, I didn't remember his name. Last thursday, I go out to the bar and he's working, and the whole night, he would be giving me and my friends free rounds, he would immediately come up to me when I'd go to the bar and take my order. He would ask where my man was. That night he tried to "holler" at me after he got off of work, but i didn't hear him. He would even bring up making out with other men. I decide a few days later to leave my number to another bartender to give to him... since he wasn't working. from what I heard, he was happy to get my number and said he would call me. So, the next day at work, he walks by my store, which was WAY out of the way for him, and he came by to say hi after he got my number.

2007-05-23 17:56:40 · 5 answers · asked by CROWN_PRINCESS 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you do that? i mean i always have my heart broken when i never even dated anyone! and im 15 already.

please dont say i'm tooo young or anything like that. i mean is it even possible to love someone and then not getting hurt??? please be specific and detailed

2007-05-23 17:55:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a daughter who is 2 (His stepdaughter)
I have been with my current Boyfriend/Fiance for 7 years and he is still married to his ex wife because she refuses divorce...and he feels threathened by her. So do I.
He has 2 sons (my stepsons) , age 13 and 17 and he pays for everything they need including the proper food. Is She entiled to half of our new business that we started 3 months ago?????????
The new business is starting to go very well!! ( A dream come true).
I am nervous that she may have some rights, I do not know about and will act on them.
We are finally able to make a better life so we can take better care of the children and send them to university.
Also, can I be his fiance if he is still technicially married on paper.????

2007-05-23 17:55:30 · 15 answers · asked by Katz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is just that. A scorpio man who is very opinionated and tough. Two traits that I love and fear at the same time. Lately, we have had several arguments over issues that don't necessarily need to be argued over and he has even went so far as to say our relationship is going downhill fast. Don't get me wrong, I am not perfect by far and sometimes I do tend to take the argument a whole lot farther than necessary but it really hurt when he said that. He has said that he thinks I am trying to change to appease him when in actuality, I know that we are both to strong people who sometimes have to bend so the relationship won't break and for the most part I don't mind being the one bended. I love this man and would love to see our relationship flourish, so I guess my question to you is not can it work, but what are some good ways to make sure we are going in the right direction?

2007-05-23 17:53:17 · 7 answers · asked by Mirry 2 in Singles & Dating

I like to think it's quality over quantity, and I've only had 2. I'm told that I'm very attractive, so that's not why the number's low, it's just that I only have sex with people I love. Sex is awesome, and I don't have any moral hang-ups over it, but I just don't feel comfortable giving it away so easy. I know the average woman has 13 partners by the time she's 30 though, and probably more in her lifetime. So, is it bad to eliminate all the hook-ups and one-night-stands from your lineup and save it for just a few people you care about? Or are those experiences that people should have?

2007-05-23 17:52:50 · 8 answers · asked by Natalia 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been casually seeing this guy for awhile. He made the first move...and we've become close. I've developed and openly discussed my feelings for him. He claims he likes me but he's not good with commitment and doesn't want anything "serious"... but when we're together he's playful and he seems to want to spend time with me...when I ask him to go places or on trips, he jumps at the chance, but then shows no interest when were there...he calls me all the time, says nice things..boosts my confidence... but then will tell me about a date he went on... is this someone I should stop wasting my time on?

2007-05-23 17:52:15 · 1 answers · asked by hipmama 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone,
I need some serious answers with my problem.
Naturally I am very cool headed. However, I have been with my wife for two years, we dated for 5 making a total of seven. She is very very troublesome. At times, she riles me up so much I want to hit her. In fact, in some cases she does hit me first and when I try to leave she doesn't allow me to leave, and still keeps hurting me. Naturally, I have to retaliate and hit her back, more out of self defense and not to hurt her. I have never caused her injury. She provokes me so much, even when I want to leave, she does not allow me to,.
Now my questions are these
1. How do I deal with this?
2. She says I'm abusive and I also feel so, am I?
3. I really love and can't leave her, what do u think i do. I've tried everything ,but she's just troublesome.
Please advise me and I'd really appreciate it Also, there should be no holds barred. State the fact as it should be very candid answers.
Thanks a lot and hoping to hear from you

2007-05-23 17:50:33 · 24 answers · asked by concerned s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to the gym, I wear a normal T-shirt and shorts, I don't wear makeup, don't do my hair, and men stare. They don't even hide it. I just want to know don't you guys know that it's rude?

2007-05-23 17:50:15 · 7 answers · asked by eyeballsgr8t 3 in Singles & Dating

Questions about failed romances?

2007-05-23 17:49:35 · 6 answers · asked by K. Marx iii 5 in Singles & Dating

and how long did you date before you went that level?

2007-05-23 17:47:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean really wierd evil scary

2007-05-23 17:44:19 · 4 answers · asked by Tan Boon Hwee k 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 17:43:53 · 7 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

to have a relationship with him and I'm using him for sex, is that bad?

2007-05-23 17:42:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend says i cant watch movies that have sex/nudity in them like horror movies and such. and if i watch them she will break up with me. what should i do??

2007-05-23 17:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by Justin L 1 in Singles & Dating

5 mins ago? a day ago? a year ago?

2007-05-23 17:37:58 · 35 answers · asked by k 2 in Singles & Dating

what can i do to stop this. i am planning to give him a black eye. is this a good answer . he is one of those smart *** jocks at my school

2007-05-23 17:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by azngrlrocks 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi all,
My husband is having an affair with one of his friend's wife since June 06. He has admitted having an affair with that woman and always told me it's over until i find yesterday that they did not take any break.I want to file for a divorce , but the single evidence i have is his cell phone listing of him spending hours on the phone with that girl. Is my evidence enough to get a divorce in Maryland? I can bear that anymore. I am a full time mothers of 3 kids full time student and full time worker. My life is already full of stress. Please kindly help.
Thanks
Florie

2007-05-23 17:35:52 · 11 answers · asked by florie k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

of every thing i do/

examples:
i like this guy
and she was with me when he was arond she got mad and make h im stay away from me.
she hate my hair
and the way i dress
im not gonan change for her what should i do
?

2007-05-23 17:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by madithelard 1 in Friends

your spouse had an affair with for a short time,( 2 months)?? Is it a mistress or just a plain wh**e?? Be nice this man had a deep feeling for the other woman........He told his friend that she is a nice lady.....

2007-05-23 17:30:31 · 24 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5 in Marriage & Divorce

nice woman

2007-05-23 17:28:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when ever I go on our home computer I notice that in the tool bar there's porn sites, but when I ask my husband why he says he's not going on them but every time I use the computer there's more sites popping up so I believe he's lying to me. And I think if he'll lie about this then he's probably lying about other things. I really want to leave but we have two kids and I don't want to hurt them, I'm just not happy anymore..What should I do.

2007-05-23 17:24:10 · 30 answers · asked by Castro 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you save face, or humiliation when the girl (in which you work with) that you took out the week before turned out to be dating a guy in the same area that you work with?? Thanks to anyone that can help.

2007-05-23 17:24:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have women forgotten their role in the home? Is it so wrong to expect to come home to a good dinner,clean home and quiet kids after a long day at work? Divorce rates seem to be at an all time high.... should men be allowed to have a speedy divorce on the grounds of lazy wife? Im not a chauvanist at all.. just asking opinions...

2007-05-23 17:22:15 · 33 answers · asked by RubbingRhubarb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, when i say i come home drunk, its maybe once a week, if i go out after work with my friends, and i do spend time with her, i love being with her, we go out, we stay in, we do all kinds of things together. and i usualy dont drink except on those occasions when im out with friends, and i sleep on the couch because i dont want her to have to smell me...and i love her mroe than anyhting, weve benn together for more than a year, and i jsut dont knwo what to do about the look she gives me the morning after i wake up...i dont wnat to disapoint her...but im not an alchaholic or somthing...i just wnat a womans opinio non how it would make them feel if their lover came home everynow and then drunk, adn passed out on the couch...thats it, i cant understand why this upsets her so much.

2007-05-23 17:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating