to have a relationship with him and I'm using him for sex, is that bad?
2007-05-23 17:42:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm.. need you ask??
2007-05-23 17:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by wanttolpve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, it's sex with minors. If this guy was 18 I'd say that it is ok to have PROTECTED sex with as many people as you want. If he wants a relationship and you dont then just say no, but believe me, he would love having a booty call, no strings attached. That is everymans fantasy, especially at 17..err...I mean 18.
2007-05-23 17:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by The_Family_Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad Girl, or just lucky. It's not a bad thing, as long as you aren't leading him on, and he knows what you are doing.
Men do it all the time. Sadly women, with much more at stake, take a more serious view of relationships like yours.
So as long as you are above board with him and he knows what you are about, then I'd say, go enjoy it, he must be. He's living most of us guys dreams.
2007-05-23 18:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are bad, as long as he understand you are only in it for the sex and nothing else.
Just need to make extra sure you using protection, as you said you are only in it for the good sex, don;t need a child out of it :)
Good Luck with it, It will not last forever
2007-05-23 17:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by morrisville75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant even think of a man 17 years my junior its incomprehensible i hesitate with men 4years my junior!!
well u messing with a kids future if this was a love story it would be something else but this?? well it all depends really if this is what he wants as well if u have deceived him then its u who is behaving like a teenager not him.
He sounds good, but he deserves to choose don't u think??
2007-05-23 17:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both over 18, and you both know that its only for great sex, then I don't see a problem with it. Now if he thinks its more serious, and you don't then thats kind of unfair to him don't you think?
2007-05-23 17:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by traveler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming the person you are sleeping with has reached puberty you should be well old enough to know if that is wrong or not so im not even gonna answer that question but thnx for the points
2007-05-23 17:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Simone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO --- if you both enjoy and have no other commitments then dont worry just have fun
2007-05-23 17:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is if this person thinks that you are serious about him.
2007-05-23 17:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh... i agree with answer # 1
2007-05-23 17:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well--- look at it this way... he might also be using you.
2007-05-23 17:52:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋