I've been casually seeing this guy for awhile. He made the first move...and we've become close. I've developed and openly discussed my feelings for him. He claims he likes me but he's not good with commitment and doesn't want anything "serious"... but when we're together he's playful and he seems to want to spend time with me...when I ask him to go places or on trips, he jumps at the chance, but then shows no interest when were there...he calls me all the time, says nice things..boosts my confidence... but then will tell me about a date he went on... is this someone I should stop wasting my time on?
2007-05-23 17:52:15 · 1 answers · asked by hipmama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yup, unless you are just looking for a hang out pal, that's what he is looking for and seems to have.
He may be sending you confusing signals, but I can't see that, he's open with you, enjoys being with you. He just wants a girlfriend, nothing more.
I'd say if you are having fun with him, keep him around, but if you want something more like marriage and kids, he's not the one for you.
Forget about him, as a husband, and start looking for a man, who is willing to commit to you.
2007-05-23 17:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋