I like to think it's quality over quantity, and I've only had 2. I'm told that I'm very attractive, so that's not why the number's low, it's just that I only have sex with people I love. Sex is awesome, and I don't have any moral hang-ups over it, but I just don't feel comfortable giving it away so easy. I know the average woman has 13 partners by the time she's 30 though, and probably more in her lifetime. So, is it bad to eliminate all the hook-ups and one-night-stands from your lineup and save it for just a few people you care about? Or are those experiences that people should have?
2007-05-23 17:52:50 · 8 answers · asked by Natalia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not. The more time you have for yourself, the more you'll know what you want out of life, as opposed to, bouncing from one relationship to another trying to satisfy someone else by making sacrifices and being influenced to change more for someone else's benefit than yours.
But, that doesn't mean it's bad to have those experiences either, even if some of them (or heck, even all of them) are written off as bad relationships. You learn something in each one, good and bad, and that's just part of life.
Don't base your life on statistics that can in no way be accurate to any degree of certainty. There are many things that work for a lot of other people that just don't work for me.
2007-05-23 18:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Johnnie5 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am completely agree with you, it is better quality than quantity and the most important think when you are going to have and enjoy sex is that you really feel comfortable then, nothing matter especially if you really don't have any moral hung-ups over it. Don't feel bad and compare with other just be you and be alert to take any opportunity to enjoy your sexuality and life when you get the feeling it could be great.
All the best
Lois
2007-05-24 01:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lois 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you're not the only one. I'm in my mid 30s and I've only been with 2 men (I married one of them in my early 20s).
I think it's wise to limit your sexual partners nowadays. Personally, I am not one for one night stands. I'm too suspicious of what's out there, what with the diseases and all of that. I'd have liked to have had more than two partners, just to see if my recent bf is really the sex god I always think he is... Apart from that, I have no intention to add another notch under my belt.
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2016-11-26 22:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about what pleases you and averages are just that --- an average --- one night stands and casual hook ups dont give you a chance to get to know the person and appreciate them as a person --- which makes the sex so much better --- enjoy
2007-05-23 17:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just all denpends on the person and how they feel about it. if it makes you happy that you've only been with 2 people then don't worry about it. i think its a good thing. i've only been with 2 people and i'm ok with that.
2007-05-23 18:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by black_gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17 and I wish I didnt have as many partners as I have had... I wish I could of saved them like you have. Cherish it dont be like other people be your own person... its normal
2007-05-23 17:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by jungle_babe89 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I think you respect yourself and one night stands only lead to feelings of being used.
2007-05-23 17:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋