How do you save face, or humiliation when the girl (in which you work with) that you took out the week before turned out to be dating a guy in the same area that you work with?? Thanks to anyone that can help.
2007-05-23 17:24:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you keep your dignity basically is what I mean.
2007-05-23 17:24:30 · update #1
Yeah it kills because I feel so humiliated, especially since I told this girl how I feel about her. :-(
2007-05-23 17:33:55 · update #2
Ow, that sucks. That was just wrong. If the guy comes up to you and starts something, just apologize and tell him that u didn't know that she was seeing him. As for the girl, well, just act like it doesn't bother you. Just go about your day as you normally do. If she wants you to take her out again, tell her that you're into dating women that are more honest and classy. Like I said, just don't let her know it bothers you and find a girl more deserving to take out. Good luck.
2007-05-23 17:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Phyll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger man, and just act like you couldn't care less about it. Don't stoop to fighting with them or anything else that would show they bothered you. Be polite but distant when you meet up with either of them, and ignore them whenever possible.
I would be so grateful I wasn't more involved before I found out!
2007-05-23 17:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act as if you don't care. Why would you lose face if she doesn't matter to you?
And find another girl to date. Living well is the best revenge.
2007-05-23 17:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just don't care. she was the idiot, and anyone who knows the story isn't going to make fun of you (if they're smart)... but they'll know what kinda girl she is. she's the one who should worry
2007-05-23 17:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by :-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep smiling.
2007-05-23 17:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋