He is just that. A scorpio man who is very opinionated and tough. Two traits that I love and fear at the same time. Lately, we have had several arguments over issues that don't necessarily need to be argued over and he has even went so far as to say our relationship is going downhill fast. Don't get me wrong, I am not perfect by far and sometimes I do tend to take the argument a whole lot farther than necessary but it really hurt when he said that. He has said that he thinks I am trying to change to appease him when in actuality, I know that we are both to strong people who sometimes have to bend so the relationship won't break and for the most part I don't mind being the one bended. I love this man and would love to see our relationship flourish, so I guess my question to you is not can it work, but what are some good ways to make sure we are going in the right direction?
2007-05-23
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Scorpio men are over dramatic and passionate about all the wrong things in life. They thrive on drama surrounding them in life, whilst professing that it is the last thing they want in their lives. You are on the right track but don't bend too far backwards trying to be accomodating. You are a proud sign also and should not compromise yourself in any way for a man.
Try to back away from arguments rather then feeding the fire and see how you go from there.
2007-05-23 18:14:47
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answered by smile_girl 4
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maybe this is corny but i have tried this and found it to be somewhat helpful. the two of you need to sit down together and write down your dislikes about the opposite person, discuss one issue at a time, try to figure out where the problem comes in and how to make it better or who should do the bending over to make it work. it takes a team effort and the both of you have to be willing to make it work otherwise your relationship will go downhill. you both have to understand where one another is coming from. a relationship is not impossible. im a scorpio woman so i know how it is when you say scorpios are tough and opinionated. for myself as a scorpio woman i've learned to listen to others and take in what people are saying to me cause i do tend to pop my mouth off with out looking at the whole situation first.
2007-05-23 18:05:08
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answered by Anonymous
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No they don't seem to be properly matched, properly i'm specific consistent with possibility there are Leos and Scorpios who're satisfied jointly, yet over all no. i'm a Leo female, until now this 3 hundred and sixty 5 days (March) i began relationship a Scorpio guy, he replaced into somewhat candy and attentive before everything, even in the previous we've been given jointly, he's ask how my day replaced into, tell me what i wanted to hearken to etc...then a month into it issues began getting humorous, like he somewhat wanted to make certain me, even however he in uncomplicated terms lived quarter-hour away, he by no ability advised absolutely everyone approximately me, we by no ability went everywhere, like on dates or maybe though. He in uncomplicated terms wanted intercourse...besides I later found out the reason he somewhat observed me is cos he replaced into dishonest and he lied a pair of few najor issues... So no, Scorpios and Leos are not getting alongside. He replaced into continually in a bad temper too and could control me and make me sense undesirable, so i could apologise whether it wasn't my fault just to maintain the peace. i'm with a Taurus guy now and its sooooo lots better.
2016-11-26 22:10:40
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answered by ? 4
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hi i am a scorpio, and just to let u know ask him if he thinks it going to work because, once a scorpio makes up their mind no changn it srry, but true. we see everything with feeling and passion and if we are hurt in those areas we are not very nice people. plus most people dont think so but we can keep secrets so u need to find out what u did for him to be so mad because we wont tell you if we know u have done something hurtful. think like a scorpio we are not self centered people but if we get hurt we will hurt the person back
2007-05-23 18:01:40
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answered by Anonymous
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You would be much better off in the long run if you ran like a scalded cat from that man!,I'm telling you from personal experience,It is better to have loved and lost, most Scorpio men do NOT bend !!!sincerely
2007-05-23 17:59:50
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answered by sha 3
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You are both very strong willed people. It will be very difficult to maintain this relationship unless you are BOTH willing to give a little. If you love each other, it can be done, but it will be a tough challenge.
2007-05-23 17:59:07
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answered by PEGGY S 7
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The Sex Test, sounds dumb but works. If you guys can have sex and its actually passionate and not like forced upon or just doing it for the heck of it then you will know your answer.
2007-05-23 17:57:14
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answered by vegetaguy 2
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