Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

It can be anyone. Your boy/girlfreind, your hubby, or the machanic who lives down the street it could be yourself if you want to put that.

2007-05-23 13:32:59 · 18 answers · asked by мαɢɢιє 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and we would always mess around at school that we go out and a while ago we were watching a movie at skool and we were holding hand so i thought he liked me but i see him hug other girls and stuff but wen he is around me he messes with me just like he does with those other girls.....plus he is going to a different high skool as me...wut shud i do??

2007-05-23 13:32:05 · 2 answers · asked by Sofia 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, This is hard for me to talk about but I am desperate. i have been married for 12 years, my wife suffers from clinical depression and has extreme emotional problems. she has been on almost every drug for depression but she is still down and miserable, she sees a Dr. and a conselor but nothing is working, she talks about her misery and despair on a daily basis. I have been the only support she got for years now as most of her family and friends choose not to be around her anymore including her parents. I take care of everything in our life and feel exremelly overwhelmed and tired. I have no hapiness in my life, my love for her now is not romantic but I can not bring myself to leave because of the guilt and the effects it might have on her, i feel as if I am about to leave a baby in the middle of the road and walk away. her issues are consuming me, she constatnly cries and wishes she was dead. I am lost and feel that my life is passing me by. I am 35 and have no kids

2007-05-23 13:31:00 · 4 answers · asked by Mike E. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what should we do? ideas on where to travel or other ideas?

2007-05-23 13:30:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a progressive liberal so I'm a little more enlightened then your average american. I wanted to help the poor people of New Orleans who lost everything due to Bush's Hurricane. I invited several people to come stay with my in my home in New York state so they could get there lives together. My wife and daughters were upset but I told them we had to help. The men refused to look for work and they constantly spend my money on things that I don't feel are necessary, like alcohol. They stay up all night playing rap music loud with women who I suspect are prostitutes. I get very little sleep which has severly hurt my job performance and I was demoted. They have spent almost all of my savings now. Now my wife is threatening to leave me after the men sexually assualted my daughters. I don't know what to do, I can't turn these great heroes away after what happened to them, but I don't want to lose my family or home either. Please help me!

2007-05-23 13:23:37 · 33 answers · asked by Progressive Liberal 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex husband is threating me he says he will kill me if I go to our custody hearing tomorrow5-24-07.He has a very long history of domestic violence and I do fear for my life!The proper athourites have been notified but...THEY ARE NOT doing anything! anyone have ideas??I have notifed :police, ICE,news media,newspapers included,state rep here in Waukegan...even the minute men..anyone have any other suggestions?The system here is failing me!! I feel like I am on death row!!

2007-05-23 13:21:38 · 8 answers · asked by Paula F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am still friends with my ex girlfriend and we still talk. She says that when her and her current boyfriend have sex that after they are kissing and before insertion he loses his erection. How is this possible, especially at age 19. she said he did have sex with his prior girlfriend. Now there have been questions about the guys sexuality like as a "goof" in her words there are pics of him in his mom's clothes, and he acts "feminine" according to her. would that have anything to do with it? Is it nerves. Its happened both times they have "tried" to have sex. I just don't know how you can have ED at 19. I mean this girl is very hot and is always getting hit on. She told me that in the looks department he rated her a 7 and his ex a 6. And in regards to being with his ex she said that they had sex but she cheated on him sexually. Can you please help me explain. I would be lying if i said i wasn't enjoying this because the guy is a prick and i still would like to get back with her.

2007-05-23 13:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by loner8671 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 13:08:12 · 27 answers · asked by evo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is 13 years old, and she is going out with a boy that is 15 years old. (Is that too old for her?) BUt anyways, she's in the 8th grade and he's in the 9th. She told me the other night that sometimes her boyfriend acts as if she doesn't exsist. He hasn't called her in 3 days and she all sad about it. I tried to give her a little advice but I really didn't know what to say. What can I tell her?

2007-05-23 13:06:04 · 5 answers · asked by simone :) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

p.s. hes sensitive and dramatic

2007-05-23 13:04:39 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone. mostly guyz.

2007-05-23 13:03:35 · 12 answers · asked by rylee c 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people check their registries daily to see what guests have bought so far. Do you?

2007-05-23 13:02:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so im going to loose waight do u no any good ways of fast weight loose, i am a tiny bit lazy, is horse riding a good way to loose weight???

2007-05-23 12:59:40 · 20 answers · asked by Danniela 2 in Singles & Dating

my cousin her nieces that there trouble she makes exuses for them like iam crazy or something. they accuse all the guys in the family of molestation. including her hustband. there trouble and now she wants them back in the family like going to the parties because they dont go because of her hustband is there. and my aunt acts diffrent when shes around them like shes stuck up towards me and attitude. even her son is on my side about this.

2007-05-23 12:58:24 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

My ex never signed the birth papers but my husband did so my question does he have just as many rights as i do?

2007-05-23 12:56:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say you work with her and had casual once in awhile..
How would you feel if...
1. the next day you saw her at work and she acted like nothing happened? you get no attention mybe just the odd glance.
2. she never tries to talk to you or call you or email you - she left it up to you to ask her to meet. sometimes she says yes and sometimes no - it's her schedule?
3. she wont share information but you start sharing your personal life - childhood, family and past realtionships.

would you feel like a boy toy? does it sound like the guy is becoming emotionally invested and girl is not? Your thoughts guys would love to hear what you think of each point. Thanks

2007-05-23 12:56:07 · 3 answers · asked by Single Gal 2 in Singles & Dating

i aksed a question a little while ago and i got some positive answer but also some really mean answers. i guess i left some of the story out so here it is, my friend shes not really my best friend anymore we still hang out and stuff but arnt that tight. we both went to this music thing in surrey in bc and there was this guy that thought she was really hott and he got her msn addy and they talked all the time and i felt like she wasen't telling me the whole truth but her bf got really jealous and wanted her too delete him so she did....what i dont get is that he cheats on her with me and he wont let her talk to this guy that live in the US. he is the type that is full of him self...he plays football and is the guy that everybody wants to be friends with.

2007-05-23 12:54:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 12:53:21 · 2 answers · asked by ★☆♥iiSa:D♥☆★ 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, ever since I got back from camp on Sunday, all my frends have been so bitchy to me.

They used to be so awesome and nice, but now they always ignore me! They act like I'm not even there!

They always ditch me too! They don't care about me anymore!

Worst of all, they think everytime I say "hi" to them, they think I'm soo weird. They hate it when I talk. IT NEVER USED TO BE LIKE THIS!

And one time I just walked up to my so-called "frend" to ask her sumthin about the hw and shes like "LEAVE ME ALONE!" omg they made me cry for the past few days. PLEASE HELP ME!

So far I have to just hang out with myself. They're always like "wats wrong", but in a mean way. And if I dont say anything within 2 seconds, they just walk away and never say anything else!

So now I seriously have no frends and am miserable. Any advice b4 I cry myself a waterfall? PLEASE ANSWER BY TONITE SO I CAN BE A HAPPIER PERSON 2MARROW!

2007-05-23 12:52:39 · 2 answers · asked by xoCAMISADOox [[ Ryro ~ Lover! ]] 2 in Friends

school lets out yet another day of bad behavior disruptive argumentive rudeness to his teacher another day of red.upon questioning him he increasing gets angrier. he starts yelling screaming i ask why did you have to take it to red again your not even trying to stay on green{thats good-red-lowest in behavior}sitting on foot stool in his bedroom he comes at me grabs my shoulders and screams i hate you i wish you were not my mom i pushed back his arms and put my hands on his shoulders and said who do you think you are iam the mom and your a 6 year old child-he started screaming i punched him which in no way did i,he continues to say im going to shoot you until you dead.im tired of the fight the husband is a crock,the child is out there and im ready to go tomarrow-i cant take the abuse the pain and heartache-i feel its time to resign give him the child the house and just leave-let him figure out what to do with house child daycare wraparound-i just feel empty and a failure so i give up

2007-05-23 12:52:38 · 15 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do man prefer blonds or brown haired females?

Do females prefer blonds or brown headed man?

2007-05-23 12:51:12 · 19 answers · asked by All about me and you 2 in Singles & Dating

look people tell me im really cute this and that! but all the guys like me but they never ask me out? what the hell is wrong with them!
ok guys what would u do to me if we had one full night together. i want detils
im a blonde with green eyes
nice boy i work out
im fit what would u do detils plz

2007-05-23 12:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley B 1 in Singles & Dating

Last week in lunch, the guy next to me spilt his drink all over the table, my book bag and books. He apologized immediately and rushed to get napkins. I kept telling him it was no problem, and I helped him clean up the mess a bit. He offered to carry/clean my books, but I said it was cool.

Today, he asked if I had a few papers he could borrow for a couple of minutes to get some late work finished up. I searched for them and gave him the papers. I had on a WoW shirt, (online game) and he mentioned he tried the trial out. After he finished he thanked me for the papers and apologized again.

You'd think he would've totally forgotten about it after the incident. lol

I didn't really know what to classify the question under. Sorry! :/

2007-05-23 12:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get over it? my son will be gone for 4 months. i have alot of bills and everything is changing so fast and i have alot on my mind. i start to cry and sleep alot. its hard my family notice iam not the same person i cant tell them because then ill start to cry anyways. how do i go past it or work through it.

2007-05-23 12:47:32 · 11 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we want to move in together while I attend nursing school.. Im an adult but my mom is not ok with the idea at all. Any suggestions?

2007-05-23 12:47:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At checkers,
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sorry i play dirty

2007-05-23 12:46:46 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay first of all I'm kinda sorta seeing this extremely gorgeous guy, and we've had sex twice the first time, he didn't go...I was really sad..because I felt as if I wasn't turning him on...but he just said..that it takes him a while..the second time we had sex...he was like tottaly fooling around and I was into it..and after 30 minutes I was like getting tired and asked him if he was going on go..and he was ilke..oh you want me to go..and like a second later..he did..like he went on "q" why do guys do that...?? what was his deal

2007-05-23 12:46:09 · 17 answers · asked by jmt4127 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months now, we love each other very much. Well recently this guy who lives in Texas is coming back to our hometown and he wants to hang out with her, she says they were really good friends in high school. But I don't like the fact that she will be alone with this guy, and I saw his myspace and he looks like the flirtish type since he doesnt have a girlfriend but his top 8 are all females. So I asked if I could come along, and my girlfriend says that no because he will feel uncomfortable with me there, he just wants to hang out with her. I was thinking of breaking up with her for this cuz I really dont like her going alone with another guy, I mean I can understand a group thing, but the fact that I can't come along and at least meet this guy really bothers me. Its not that I dont trust her, I just dont trust him. Am I taking this to seriously, should I break up with her, or just let her go out with this dude who I think likes her?

2007-05-23 12:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by Brent25 2 in Singles & Dating

I have nice neighbors. They invite me to dinner all the time. The issues I have is just that they aren't on my time schedule. I like my son to be in bed by 8:30 on school nights (he is 7), they dont usually eat until about 8. The other issue is, is that when they have a problem, like with their cable cuz they didnt pay the bill, they ask me if they can hook up to mine. How do you politely tell them to cut it out? they over-react to everything. If I tell them no to something, they take offense and ask if I am crabby! I am not crabby, I just said no is all. Please help, I am a nice person, and like to help people, but I am trying to make it myself as well. Any advice? thanks!!

2007-05-23 12:41:42 · 18 answers · asked by joshsgrl82600 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now. Anymore, he has been calling me lazy for only exercising three times a week. Despite this, I still work full-time, pick up his messes around the house, and have my own side business.

Last fall I was working full-time and going to college full-time as well. Am I really that lazy?

2007-05-23 12:41:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships