I'm a progressive liberal so I'm a little more enlightened then your average american. I wanted to help the poor people of New Orleans who lost everything due to Bush's Hurricane. I invited several people to come stay with my in my home in New York state so they could get there lives together. My wife and daughters were upset but I told them we had to help. The men refused to look for work and they constantly spend my money on things that I don't feel are necessary, like alcohol. They stay up all night playing rap music loud with women who I suspect are prostitutes. I get very little sleep which has severly hurt my job performance and I was demoted. They have spent almost all of my savings now. Now my wife is threatening to leave me after the men sexually assualted my daughters. I don't know what to do, I can't turn these great heroes away after what happened to them, but I don't want to lose my family or home either. Please help me!
2007-05-23 13:23:37 · 33 answers · asked by Progressive Liberal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are delusional, if any such thing happened you would have called the police and they would have been arrested, in any case, its your house, your rules and if you cant be the man of the house you deserve to lose your family
2007-05-23 13:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
while i think that its great that you opened your heart and home to these guys, i don't understand how you can think of these guys as heros if they are blowing yor money, being ungrateful for the help and above all sexually assualting your daughters. your wife must be really understanding because if i were her i woulc't be threatening to leave, i would have taken my kids and left along time ago. KICK them out if you actually care at all about your family. if they won't leave then call the cops, which you should have done anyway when the suspicion of them sexually assualting your daughters came up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you don't need anyones elses help you need to wake up and be a man.
2007-05-23 13:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call yourself enlightened, but all you are doing is putting your head in the clouds and pretending. If anything it makes you stupid. Are you that stupid that you would let these "heros" rape your daughters, spend all your money and walk over you.
I dont care if a guy gave all four limbs for me and my family, that doesnt give him the right to the things these people are doing. Grow some balls and kick these people the f@ck out before they destroy you.
Trust me, i used to live with a user (not half as bad as this though) which is why im getting so fired up. It doesnt matter what you belive in, there is no belief worth screwing over yourself and your family for.
2007-05-23 13:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are such a freaken tool! I admire you wanting to help your fellow man and everything, but you are serverly being taken advantage of. I would never tolerate these bleeding idiots to sexually assault my kids or refuse to respect me in my own abode. Also, you called Katrina "Bush's Hurricane". Last time I checked, Bush is not God and he can't control the weather. While I respect your cause and hospitality and think that the Katrina disaster was a terrible event, you are a doormat. Grow some balls and kick those ingrates out!
2007-05-23 13:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? They hurt your children, how can you call them hero's? If I was your wife I would have left you that day if you did not call the police and get them out of your house. How can a person that takes all your money, wastes it and rapes your children be able to stay. My advice is to call the police. If you still cant do that then you need some serious help. As for your wife tell her I said she needs to get her children out of that horrible situation and find a man that has some balls!!!!!
2007-05-23 13:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by kitty10s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enlightened? How are you enlightened when you refer to the ungrateful thugs as "heroes" after they sexually assault your daughters? Call the police immediately and press charges. Either this is a total prank question or you are the most naive man in America and you deserve to lose everything. Tear up your Man membership card right now.
2007-05-23 13:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Maurice G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i'm sure you wanted to help out these people, but you were wrong in not concidering your wife and kids oppinion about letting these people move in...you could have helped them in other ways......these are grown men, men you dont know, and to have them around your wife and your daughters, and you continue to let them stay there after they assaulted your children......they committed a crime and should be punished, yes i understand they went through a major disaster,..but my god...they never intend to leave as long as they have what they want there and you are too nice to put your foot down to these men....they need to be arrested for the assault. your job as a good samaritan is done with these men, your family comes first.....but what i really think is that you are afraid of these men, and don't know what to do.....get them out of your house, atleast in jail they will have shelter...they dont want to work any ways so jail is the best place for them.......my friend where is your dignity when it comes to your family?
2007-05-23 13:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by dismukes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Your first responsibility to to your family, and to protect them.
2. If these people that you have helped have violated your hospitality, then you must break off that relationship. Call the police, if necessary,
3. You should prosecute whoever assaulted your daughter.
2007-05-23 13:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sexually assaulted your daughters and you are calling them heroes? Obviously you report them to the police and let them rot in jail. What the heck are you thinking risking your family for a bunch of "heroes" that sexually assault your daughters and get you demoted.
2007-05-23 13:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are they great heroes just because their homes got destroyed, they are just unlucky. If the men assaulted your daughter and you either didn't kill them or didn't call the police, then YOU are not a real man and shouldn't be around your family anyway.
YOUR family should always be first.
Shima
2007-05-23 13:28:53 · answer #11 · answered by hiroshima23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋