Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

I'm a stay at home mom of four kids. I do feel that it's my job to do all the housework but I just need a break! I work 24/7 for over a decade now. I do all the yardwork, taking care of the kids, housework, bills, you name it and I'm in college full time to get my degree, oh and I homeschool the kids. It is starting to bug me when friends and my husband included get to relax on their days off but I never have one. This may sound like just a bunch of complaining but after 14 years without a day off I'm getting burned out. It's affecting my moods, I just dont' want to do all this for a day or two. We can't afford a vacation, not even a small one. I'm not the type to go get my nails or hair done, besides that would cost money. What's something free I can do for a day where I can seriously just relax?

2007-05-23 11:02:22 · 9 answers · asked by fourzenuff 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so like a long time ago when i was in8 grade i told this guy Josh who i had gone out with during most of my eigth grade year so at this point we are really close friends and i still kinda liked him but anyways so one night we were talking online and my friend dared me to tell him that i wanted to have sex with him that up coming week and to go along with it for a while so i tell him this and he believes it and im going along with it and hes like saying things like allie we shouldnt do this etc. so it got too a point where i couldnt tell him it was a dare bc it would have been to embarressing and he says lets wait together untill or senior prom and i was just like omg w/e at the time so i said ok yah well do it the night of our senior prom well so the four years go by and we arent really friends anymore we know each other but never really talk so my prom is this weekend and i have a boyfriend and a date and everything but Josh justcalled me up and he was like do u rember?wat do i do

2007-05-23 11:02:15 · 23 answers · asked by allie 1 in Singles & Dating

experiencing mixed feelings toward her even now. What should i do.

2007-05-23 11:01:48 · 1 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

I am gay myself but it still surprises that girls always want to be my friend just because I am gay . I also get a lot more attention from girls , very pretty ones even ... It's like the world upside down

2007-05-23 10:59:04 · 20 answers · asked by Henri S. 2 in Friends

in your opinion how young is too young to have kids? I'm not planning to have kids anytime soon. i know im not ready for that. in my opinion im to young(im 15). what do you think is to young?

2007-05-23 10:58:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with this guy a couple months ago for the wrong reasons and I never stopped liking him, and now we are talking again and I really want to go back out with him, but I don't know how to tell him or how to find out how he feels. I know he's not mad about the break-up, but how can I figure out if he feels the same?

2007-05-23 10:58:16 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

I like to get him books on home repair because he is a good plumber but his carpentry skills leave something to be desired. My question is why do men not like to read about fixing things or how to put things together? It just drives me crazy. I'm sure its a ego thing but isn't it much easier to read and do things right the first time?

2007-05-23 10:57:46 · 9 answers · asked by Annabelle 4 in Family

a desert island is growing slowly in the middle of my head though currently can only be seen from a plane.

2007-05-23 10:56:10 · 24 answers · asked by dot connector 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 10:50:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-23 10:50:26 · 21 answers · asked by panelman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i keep a journal, or a diary and naturally, i put down all my thoughts in it. They're private and i don't want anyone to see them.. i treasure them and i love to look back at the things i wrote as a kid and i'm sure i would want to look back at what i'm writing now eventually. i'm scared that someone will find it and feel offended or mad at me for being honest in it. now school's ending so i can't store it in my locker. where can i hide it? a really really good place.

2007-05-23 10:50:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi, when a woman plays/strokes her hair is it always flirting?

Please could as many women answer yes or no and whether you are purposely doing it? You see there is a girl who is always doing it when I am around her!

2007-05-23 10:49:17 · 50 answers · asked by shark 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey! This guy has got me so screwed up!!! See I really really like him sooo much! But see I haven't told him but we're good friends and we talk. But yesterday stupid me told a friend of mine I liked him then I thought she may have told him even though I made her swear not to. Last night I got on yahoo and I usually talk to him but I didn't and bout 5 or 6 minutes after I got on he got off. And after a while I did too but when I checked to see who was on like 10 minutes later he was on!! So I thought she told him turns out she didn't and I completely ignored him today. Didn't speak to him nothing. And he didn't even really do anything to me but I want to hate him now but something won't let me. When I see him I can't help it I want him so bad. Why can't I let him go? He would talk to me forever and he still lookes at me alot...whats this mean? What should do let him go or what? Thanks!!!!!

2007-05-23 10:47:47 · 12 answers · asked by **JaeAnswers! 4 in Singles & Dating

i like a guy i work with but he is a shy guy (like me im a shy girl lol) anyways there were a couple of times where we just stared at eachother from across the room and then looked away. also one time he was passing by me and then he turned his head and looked at me, he did this twice. one time i also caught him glancing at me from the corner of his eye. we have never had a conversation before cuz im new at work, but i always stare at him lol. so does he like me? what other signs should i look for?

2007-05-23 10:47:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going to be 6 months for the summer and i dont have any stretch marks yet and dont know if im going to get them so i figured i wanted to show my belly off just incase i never get to again! but while i was searching for maternity bikinis i found none so is a pregnant women wearing a bikini a do or a dont? p.s im not fat pregnant (still at pre-pregnancy weight) im all belly and yes i used to wear a bikini before i got pregnant.

2007-05-23 10:46:09 · 15 answers · asked by jordan herne 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking for ideas on when I leave my reception. I was going to have a night wedding so when we left our reception I wanted our guests to hold sparklers. But now my wedding is going to be during the day due to the expenses. Any different ideas that we could do??? besides bubbles, confetti and rice? Thank you so much!!!

2007-05-23 10:45:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

me deal with my feeling. Well my husband takes it upon himself to read my journal and then throws it in my face about what I wrote. I am so pissed I feel violated and confused. Should I be upset or am I overreacting. I haven't spoken to him in 2 days he says he didn't violate me and is very upset that I would even say that about him.

2007-05-23 10:44:56 · 15 answers · asked by KH 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it even worth living? So lonley?

2007-05-23 10:43:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so like everytime im at school and a guy spots me they are like super nice to ME and if im like with a friend they are like F-U-C-K-I-N-G a-s-s h-o-l-e-s! omfg is it like a stage or something when you try to hit on a girl and when they see you like be mean to their friends your like sooo out.

PLEASE ANSWER THIS. its pissing me off(:

2007-05-23 10:42:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok My question that I'm debating with some of my friends is this.
I think that if the man WORKS (remind you that I say works) the woman should do the house work; cleaning, laundry, ironing, cooking, dishes. I think that it should be this way.
BUT
If the man and wife work, but the man works 12 hour days 6 days a week and gets home around 10:00pm, and the wife works 40 hrs per week and is home by 5:30pm then the wife should still do the house work right? I think so. See that is my situation. My friends say I do too much because I work too but I dont think so....I just want to hear what complete strangers have to say about it...Kinda fun to know other peoples opinion. Thanks!

Oh and my husband feels this way too. Is he wrong?

2007-05-23 10:40:34 · 38 answers · asked by Just here. 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just want your opinion. Do you think that two mature attractive adults can be friends without either one of them thinking beyond that friendship? How about two co-workers? Just want a fresh point of view. Thanks..

2007-05-23 10:40:31 · 30 answers · asked by Shabby_Chic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone else feel that they enjoy life different than others?
I know a lot of people that love to travel, love eating out, and being out on the town. Me, I enjoy staying around the house, going to the park, working in the yard, cooking and watching a good movie. I love just sitting back and enjoying things. No stress, no worries. I like spending time with family. After work I enjoy coming home, excercising, watching TV, sitting on the porch, playing video games, playing on computer. I seem to not like doing what everyone else does.
Anyone else like this?

2007-05-23 10:40:30 · 1 answers · asked by wonderbubba9778 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK this is the story. Sammy my friend and her boyfriend keep going on an on about their first kiss ( I'm friends with both), they both(separately)keep coming to me for advice and i give it to them but they don't take so they are relly starting to bug me. what should i tell them next.

2007-05-23 10:37:18 · 7 answers · asked by cassie 2 in Singles & Dating

Someone calls you hun or sweetie and there like the same sex as you and the same age

2007-05-23 10:35:15 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for four years, but we've been off and on. This time he got with a girl and she is now pregnant. We had been talking about truly working things out and now he says he wants to do the right thing and come home but he feels he has failed me as a husband. I don't know what to do. I want to make my marriage work with my husband. He says he's tried to talk the girl out of having the baby but she wants it. Even though he tells me this his actions are different from what he tells me. I'm thinking he may want to be with this woman and he just doesn't want to tell me. Could that be possible? Or do you think he feels as if he has messed up so bad that he can't face me. I'm confused and i just need to know exactly what to do or what i should consider doing, you know.

2007-05-23 10:35:03 · 60 answers · asked by stillovehim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband "kissed" another woman because i was neglecting him physically. only because he was very emotionally cruel. now we have sex whenever he wants it how he wants it. he said it's over and i make him happy, he only wants me yada,yada......is he finally telling the truth?

2007-05-23 10:34:15 · 8 answers · asked by phattkitty23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Assuming this is someone you have never met.

2007-05-23 10:33:45 · 17 answers · asked by tin2 5 in Singles & Dating

When first seeing a guy, whats the first thing you think of? His looks, the way he dresses, or if he would be good in bed?

2007-05-23 10:33:43 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my wife in a moment of weakness. I told her and we got counseling and are working it out, but now the girl I had sex with is claiming to be pregnant.I asked her to get an abortion, but she's in love with me and wants to have the child. I don't know what to do. My wife can't have babies and this will break her heart. Do I tell her? What about the girl? Do I take her baby and give it to my wife so we can raise it? Please help?

2007-05-23 10:33:36 · 36 answers · asked by marquelandchristina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married next year. I have alot of family members that im close to. How do I include them without hurting their feeelings?

2007-05-23 10:32:28 · 19 answers · asked by KIMBERLY J 1 in Weddings