Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

Well basically I have a so-called fiance who says "Oh babe, we don't need to get married right now. We need more time because I don't want to end up in a divorce after a few months".

I don't get it? If he truly loves me and wants things to work between us then isn't it supposed to be "For better or worse, through thick and thin"? I mean there is a reason they included those words in the verse. We already have a child together, and I know I love him with all my heart, and I wouldn't want to make things work with anyone else. I'm commited to him. So why doesn't he feel the same?? Is it cold feet?? HELP me understand. PLEASE!!

Signed,
Frustrated

2007-05-23 11:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 11:44:01 · 5 answers · asked by xxs4mm13j0xx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had what I thought was a genuine online friend and today for no reason at all he suddenly turned on me for 'fun'. He called me all sorts of names and when I asked him why he was doing it he said that it was like a lion with it's prey i.e biting it's prey's neck for 'survival'. Why would he do this to me?

2007-05-23 11:43:45 · 23 answers · asked by Michelle E 1 in Friends

I recently broke up with a girl, but lately her and her friends have just been screaming at me on AIM, or giving me dirty looks. Our last month we didn't even like each other. She didn't like my lack of communication, and i didn't like her friends living out the relationship for her. Any ideas on how to cope?

2007-05-23 11:41:36 · 16 answers · asked by bamak93 3 in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to tell your parents you would like to buy condoms? and if you shouldnt tell them at all what is the best way to go about it buying them from the store?

2007-05-23 11:38:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is this passion that I feel inside
Such love and joy that I cannot hide
Do you see what you do when you are next to me
You've let me loose, you've set me free

I've tried to hold back this tied of emotion
But I just got sucked into this heavenly ocean
I'm drifting on the timeless currents of pure bliss
Hoping I will alway feel like this

For in your arms is where I'm at
No longer caring for this and that
I've just surrendered all I am
So that I may be, forever your man

Yes, I wrote it.

2007-05-23 11:37:20 · 19 answers · asked by honest guy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

whe we broke up the last time he got into some trouble an whent to jail .while he was in jail thy found his mouther murdered. all he had was her an her only.an me but.all he knew was vilenc.we did alot of things together but most of the time it was rong.but i moved on an met this nice guy that had something.gives me the world.what to do

2007-05-23 11:36:54 · 2 answers · asked by lonistyt 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you guys find it annoying?
LIke when we talk about how we feel and how something you did made us sad blahblah blah?

2007-05-23 11:35:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband always accuses me of cheating on him. I've NEVER cheated on anyone in my entire life, especially my husband. I was always the one cheated on in every single relationship I've ever been in. I would never want anyone to feel the pain I went through when I was being cheated on. How do I reasure him that I have not and will not ever cheat on him?

2007-05-23 11:33:31 · 7 answers · asked by TwinMommy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband left me and doesn't want to come back to the arguing. I have soul searched and really know what I need to do to change, and he is scared to take that leap and come home. Just wondering what I can say or do to get him to believe me and come home.

2007-05-23 11:32:44 · 18 answers · asked by crysmomof1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Things like bridesmaids & decorations

2007-05-23 11:32:17 · 18 answers · asked by Cheese 2 in Weddings

There are two possible guys i could have right now, but i don't know who to pick? i like them all!
Guy 1: We just broke up a while ago and i like him A LOT! i told him i wasn't over him and he told me he didnt think he was over me. Then he told me to forget everything he said because he didn't want it to be akward between us. I don't know why i like him because he can be a total *** sometimes and never puts into the relationship, but we seem to have some type of connection.

Guy 2: He is a really really really sweet guy. I don't know if i like him as much as i do the first guy or not, but i feel like i could. He's amazingly sweet and is the kindest guy i know. The only problem is that he smokes pot and i dont do that stuff. I know he would never make me do those things, but should i still like him even though he does it?

Guy 3: I don't know him that well, but he always seems to be there. He is also extremely nice, and we are involved in the same things and ar very similar??

2007-05-23 11:30:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went on multiple dates with a male. We are not official. We flirt. I tell him I like him first. We continue on dates. We get close, nearly did the dirty (BUT WE NEVER ACTUALLY HAD SEX). But he stopped as he knows I didnt want to rush things. I ask himif we are official. He says he doesnt want a girlfriend because he wants to have some more fun and didnt want to hurt me. But that I was a cool chick to have around. I agree. Then I offer myself up to be friends with benefits, he said no. He wanted to maintain our relationship as JUST friends as FWB will complicate things.

So i take it that he isnt interested in me and cease communication of ALL FORMS. BUT then after THREE DAYS he texts to check on me. He still texts and calls me to check if I was okay. I have been replying but keeping the converstaions under 2 minutes. or 2 texts. We still talk the same way, positive and flirty.

I AM CONFUSED. I think he still wants a friendship. BUT DOES HE LIKE ME AT ALL? Please EXPLAIN. PLEASE

2007-05-23 11:29:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dad- looks at bad pictures on the internet
Mom- Yells at whoever gets in her way (NOT THAT TIME OF MONTH)
Me- REALLY REALLY STRESED OVER ALL THIS AND IT IS MAKING ME VERY HOSTILE AND I AM SOOO WORRIED!!

Im 11.

HELP MEEEEE

2007-05-23 11:28:21 · 15 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Family

why is it when a man tells you he loves you every day, and then one day he forgets to say it for a couple of days, you start to think he is up to some thing, just wondering,

2007-05-23 11:27:56 · 22 answers · asked by birddog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has been accusing me of cheating and having hidden cameras in our house recording him for some time now. He thinks that I am sex addict and has called me an "internet whore" accusing me of meeting people online and having them come to my house to have sex while I put our 3 year old in the next room. He is finding pictures of girls on the internet and sending them to family members telling them that they are me, even though his family and I tell him they are clearly not me. He calls me a liar in front of my kids. The accusations keep getting bigger and more frequent as time goes by and they could not be farther from the truth. I have told him repeatedly to leave if he thinks I am a cheat, but he insists he's in love with me and won't leave. We live together in a house that is in my name, so I do not plan on moving out. What would you do??

2007-05-23 11:25:05 · 17 answers · asked by Gone Crazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She had a sunken chest!

2007-05-23 11:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Family

2007-05-23 11:23:51 · 35 answers · asked by xxs4mm13j0xx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is so bossy that it is absolutely pathetic! It sucks! He is soooo ruude!I can't stand it! Every thing I do he's right in my face saying"Don't do this,don't do that!"What are some thiings I can do to get him off my back?What makes him this way and who gives him the right of way to another person's private business?!I can't stand the way he acts. I wish he was dead! I can't wait to doog him the next time I see him!I hate his ****** guts!What would you do????

2007-05-23 11:18:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They got married last July... and I saw her through a car window once. I have NO idea what this woman is like... what her views on parenting are...etc...
My ex is an extremely controlling man.. any advice on how to get him to let me meet this woman??

2007-05-23 11:18:15 · 5 answers · asked by running2adream 6 in Marriage & Divorce

cutting through
my soul broken
what is left?
i hate you
you don't love me anymore
i can't move on
you cheat on me
what is new?
our friendshp is broken
you cna't do noghting to make me happy now
why did you do this to me
hate my life
i just wanna be dead
i cry in school, in my room, in the car anywhere i just cry
how much i give you
you just useing me
please need me alone and don't talk to me!!!

2007-05-23 11:15:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How often is too much? too little? I want to know how often you want to hear those words.

Don't tell me everyone is different. Tell me what you like.

2007-05-23 11:15:24 · 24 answers · asked by na 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there are phone calls,nasty movies, and now internet porn. it makes me feel sick!

2007-05-23 11:11:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 14 years. we have no friends to hang out with. I feel that one reason is that my husband wants it that way. The signs were there before we married but we were so much in love I couldn't see it. Here are just AFEW samples of incidents. We were on his boat, going to meet some of my friends on the river. As we found my friends on their boat, he wouldn't drive within 100 ft of them Other days he would get in verbal agruements with strangers as we were putting the boat in or out of the river. Claiming that they were taking cuts in line. Once we went camping with my friends, He bent my fingers back while hiking with them, saying I was walking too close to them. This behavior continues to this day. Once we went to an out door concert, Looking for a spot to sit, a woman was infront of us about to take a spot that looked good, John pushed her out of the way. Ruins vacations when we're with other people. He belives that he is justified for every incident. This is sad.

2007-05-23 11:09:28 · 12 answers · asked by DONNA T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm only 16 and He's 17. He will be 18 in November. He's leave'n for the Army in Augest. I really love him alot!

2007-05-23 11:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by Countrygrl@Heart07 1 in Singles & Dating

logic seems to be unimportant to women. Why is that?

2007-05-23 11:08:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and my bf r close and my teacher is his aunt and she said she want's us to break up by friday cus we pop kissed and some on snitched and if we not geting wrote up for kissing enless we dont break up if we do we dont get wrote up but if we dont we get wrote up but i know we can get wrote up for kissing but is she alowed to tell us we can't date and say if we r still dateing we get wrote up???

2007-05-23 11:07:23 · 1 answers · asked by CONFUSED! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-23 11:03:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee just left for his friend's 5-day bachelor party - is this normal? How long do bachelor parties usually run?

2007-05-23 11:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by trillian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for 3 years and they still ignore me at family functions and his sis is the worst. she acts like im not even there. it is to the point where i consider breaking the relationship off because i could not imagine having them as inlaws. should i break it off and give them what they want or deal with it because i love my boyfriend?

2007-05-23 11:02:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family