There are two possible guys i could have right now, but i don't know who to pick? i like them all!
Guy 1: We just broke up a while ago and i like him A LOT! i told him i wasn't over him and he told me he didnt think he was over me. Then he told me to forget everything he said because he didn't want it to be akward between us. I don't know why i like him because he can be a total *** sometimes and never puts into the relationship, but we seem to have some type of connection.
Guy 2: He is a really really really sweet guy. I don't know if i like him as much as i do the first guy or not, but i feel like i could. He's amazingly sweet and is the kindest guy i know. The only problem is that he smokes pot and i dont do that stuff. I know he would never make me do those things, but should i still like him even though he does it?
Guy 3: I don't know him that well, but he always seems to be there. He is also extremely nice, and we are involved in the same things and ar very similar??
2007-05-23 11:30:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guy 1. You are defo not over him and won't be able to feel the same way about guys 2 or 3 until you've made a definite break which it doesn't sound like you have..
Also you say "two possible guys" and then describe three. Try again with Guy 1 (we are all total ***es sometimes without meaning to be) otherwise guys 2 or 3 will be on here soon saying their girl doesn't seem to be over her ex.
2007-05-23 11:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should choose any of them. Here is why.
Guy 1. He is a loser and you know it. You said he was a self centered person. You may like his different approach, but it will wear thing as time goes on.
Guy 2. He borders on being a criminal. There is a reason he smokes pot and it has nothing to do with you. You don't want to get into this kind of relationship with this kind of person.
Guy 3. He is just there and obviously does not take an interest in you. So you do some of the same things together - lots of people do.
Best bet. Find guy #?. Check him out well and be selective, you are worth it. Don't worry about a 'connection'. Do this. Decide what you want in a guy - write it down. Look over it again and again and make changes if necessary. Once it is finalized, use this as a guide line in seeking new relationships. If your new guy hits 80%, that is a goodie one. Your 1, 2, 3 above wouldn't make the cut.
2007-05-23 18:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by charliehc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote for guy 3. In my book, exes are always off limits. There was a reason you broke up the first time, and that issue will resurface sooner or later whether you like it or not. Guy 2 seems nice, but the pot smoking could become a problem, even if he doesn't push you into it. It's not a good idea.
Guy 3 seems to have it all. You should get to know him better, and dating is a pretty good way of doing that. It really helps that you have similar interests.
Good luck :) I hope that whoever you chose works out great for you.
2007-05-23 18:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy number 3 seems like he is taking what he hears about how you feel about the other two and staying at a distance. He is being smart, but not trying to connect hoping you will get frustrated with the first two. He is probably your best bet, although a little too far stand-off-ish.
2007-05-23 18:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by mark o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy 3. Or you could get to know Guy 2 and let him know that you don't like that he smokes. Guy 1, definitely out of the question, unless he gives 100%.
2007-05-23 18:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by ☆Zestee☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for guy two do not go for someone who smokes pot trust me I have been there and done that and its not worth risking yourself over....as for guy one if it did not work the first time it's not going to work the second time....I would say get to know three a little bit better and make sure he is going to be honest with you and treat you with all the respect you deserve....GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-05-23 18:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Nevaeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 or 3
get to know 3
2007-05-23 18:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥*DAnCA*♥*FOreVa*♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy 3 all the way
2007-05-23 18:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pick guy #3! you don't need some who is not willing to put into the relationship, and you don't need someone who does drugs. you will always come second to the addiction.
2007-05-23 18:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You have problems with who or what the first two are already. Life short, be happy and enjoy it.
2007-05-23 18:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by Pizzaguyfl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋