My husband always accuses me of cheating on him. I've NEVER cheated on anyone in my entire life, especially my husband. I was always the one cheated on in every single relationship I've ever been in. I would never want anyone to feel the pain I went through when I was being cheated on. How do I reasure him that I have not and will not ever cheat on him?
2007-05-23 11:33:31 · 7 answers · asked by TwinMommy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, he most likely has a guilty conscience, and he is the one cheating on you. I would seriously look into finding out what he is doing behind your back. I hope that I am wrong, but usually if you are not showing any signs of cheating, but they are accusing you, they are paraniod of what they are doing, and try to throw the feeling off onto you. He might be cheating on you.
2007-05-23 11:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by da_trump_queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he cheated on before you two got together? If so, his issues may be with a former girlfriend and it's his sub-conscience talking...If this is the case, you may not get a break... Just tell him, "If you don't trust me to the fullest, then what am I doing here?" OR "If you think I am cheating, follow me around ALL DAY LONG...If you don't see or hear anything you don't like...THEN QUIT ACCUSING ME OF IT...or you will drive me away!!!"
2007-05-23 11:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Red Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that he has a guilty conscience.Have you two ever thought about going to marriage counseling? He may see that you really want to work your marriage out and that you are serious.
2007-05-23 11:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is an insecurity of ones self... he thinks ur cheating because he doesnt feel good enough....the best thing to do is make him feel more secure... its truelly not anything your doing.. it could be him.. if he gained weight or something....keep trying to make him feel special to you and show him how much you truellly love him.. good luck
2007-05-23 11:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got insecurity issues or he's cheating on you.
2007-05-23 11:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him if he don't believe you, you want a polygraph test and tell him that seeing how he is asking you then he must be guilty of it and you want him to also take one.
2007-05-23 11:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot reassure an insecure person they must feel good and secure within themselves to trust others.
2007-05-23 11:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋