My b/f has asked me to merry him, what do i do?

Question

I'm only 16 and He's 17. He will be 18 in November. He's leave'n for the Army in Augest. I really love him alot!

Answer 1

well, there are good and bad,...will your parents approve? I think in some states, the parents have to approve it...I don't know how long you guys have been together, and it is hard for us to really give you good advice on this...Personally, I would say it might be a good thing to do, as you would benifit from all of his benifits from the Army..but then again...I don't know if you could stand the worrying all the time from him fighting in the War right now...I think marriage is always the right answer darling, but I surely, can't tell you or advise you. What does your parents think?..God Bless him and you sweetie,...I pray you make the right decision in God's eyes.

Answer 2

Tell him you will marry him when you're 20. Until then, you are finishing high school and then getting a good start on college. That way you can work and support him and the babies when he gets kicked out of the army and sits on his behind all day watching soaps and being sassy with you.

Answer 3

Why dont you wait until he comes back from the Army? That will give you some time to develop yourself, and to find out if you are really meant to be.

Answer 4

If you love him and can see yourself with him for the rest of your life than yes... the worst that can happen is he goes away and you decide you are to young to commit right now! Being a military wife is not EASY! You need to make sure this is really what you want!

Answer 5

well follow your heart; i f u love the guy then marry him and dont worry anout what people think! hope this is helpful :) ♥