we have been together for 3 years and they still ignore me at family functions and his sis is the worst. she acts like im not even there. it is to the point where i consider breaking the relationship off because i could not imagine having them as inlaws. should i break it off and give them what they want or deal with it because i love my boyfriend?
2007-05-23 11:02:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should leave his sorry a ss. After all if you got married you'd have to live with them and sleep with them, oh wait no you wouldn't. You could have the last laugh if you were his wife though!?
2007-05-23 11:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some human beings see alcohol as a narcotic drug which will nicely be addictive and unfavourable in human beings's lives. And the actuality that some human beings are not getting hooked on it would not make it any much less risky risky than different drugs are. in case you study US historic previous, then you definately will understand that there became a time whilst alcohol became prohibited as an unlawful drug. and countless human beings have been arrested and went to prison for alcohol possession and trafficking. some wellness experts now say that alcohol is extra addictive and extra risky than a number of the presently unlawful drugs are. and perhaps human beings like your boyfriend and his kinfolk do have a solid rationalization for his or her approach. i do no longer think of you are able to convince your boyfriend that alcohol intake is powerful and suited. the wonderful you are able to desire for is silent tolerance from him.
2016-10-13 06:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by winbush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"give them what they want" isn't the correct way to look at it. The correct thinking is: "giving you what you want".
If you marry your boyfriend, you get them no matter if you like them or not. It's part of the deal. If you don't want them, then don't marry your boyfriend.
The fact that you love your boyfriend isn't enough to overcome a bad set of in-laws. This isn't a hollywood movie where things work out, or love overcomes everything. Those things are not real, what is real is them.
2007-05-23 11:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my wife - for 35 years I hate my mother-n-law. My wife knows why I act today as I do. Her mother is 94 and still a pain. I don't think I said three words to her in all these years. When she talks to me - there simply is no responce. Yet I do contrubute to her old age home. I do what is needed and ignore her at the same time,
2007-05-23 11:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't nothing but thang. I have been together with my man for 9 years and I have not spoken to his moms for about the last two years or so. It began with that animosity then ended with I just can't even be in the same room with that lady. But me and my man is still going strong. I always tell him to tell her that I ain't going nowhere so to get over it. You are marrying him not his family so thats it.
2007-05-23 11:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by whos_tat_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him then stay with him inlaws arent always going to be nice ignore what they say if you two love each other adn you tell them that they should respect your and your boyfriends wishes and you gotta talk to hi about it too and sometimes talking just helps but make sure you dont argue witht them just take things into consideration try to see what they hate about you i mean theres gotta be soething that can fix it all
good luck girl i hope it works out for ya
sammy
2007-05-23 11:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Return the feelings and let them know they're not running you off.
2007-05-23 11:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make them angry,
stay with him,
he loves you and vise versa!
eventually they'll like you
or not whatever
just as long as you love him
then you should be ok
and when you too get married or whatever
hope this helps...
2007-05-23 11:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try tallking to them maybe take the sister out some where she and u would like together..and maybe take the hole famaly out some where and have funn ..comunicat to them..if u rilly love this man you would try..
2007-05-23 11:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kaitlin V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with it as long as your boyfriend loves u thats all that matters
2007-05-23 11:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by lizjess2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋