I am gay myself but it still surprises that girls always want to be my friend just because I am gay . I also get a lot more attention from girls , very pretty ones even ... It's like the world upside down
2007-05-23 10:59:04 · 20 answers · asked by Henri S. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because you are no threat to them... unless you both like the same bi guy... then see how fast the friendship lasts!
2007-05-23 11:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by michael 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of it is the idea of wanting something you know you can't have. A taboo type of thing. And there is also the fact that feminine gay guys are alot like girls but still a guy. Girls think they can ask them about guy stuff and they will be able to answer them. And with some things they can the others they bs their way through it usually just to be popular with at least the girls. Plus gay guys are usually more emotional like girls are and into drama then you guys are. I don't know how old you are but I wouldn't worry. The girls will soon figure out they are barking up the wrong tree and start looking to you straight guys. They will still be friends with the gay guys so don't get jealous when they want to hang out, it's only girl time. Just act cool and act like it doesn't bother you. The best way to get a girls attention is to ignore her. Don't treat her bad, that's not going to get you anywhere. But if you ignore her then that makes her feel like nobody is paying attention to her. Girls like it to be all about them. You have to kind of think backwards when it comes to girls, they are tricky. Good luck.
2016-05-21 02:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree the world is upside down. Unfortunately, girls have a very good reason for liking gay guys. The reason is that girls like to have male friends. They are silly and fun and quite different from their female friends. Unfortunately, the average straight guy will, sooner or later, develop romantic feelings for the girl who is his friend. This will cause discomfort for the girl and will often lead to the end of the friendship. This happens so much!
So being gay, you're safe for them :) They can be as friendly as they like with you, and you still won't ask them out on a date.
2007-05-23 11:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i think we girls can talk better because we can relate to the same things together and we can joke around about things we cant with straight guys i mean sometimes straight guys get very rude but all my gay friends are so nice and comforting and there a bit cute because they're not scar3ed to show a feminine side to them and i believe they have a better spirit then straight guys
2007-05-23 11:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys are like girl friends except without all the drama. Any girl knows that she can ask her gay guy friend anything and he will always tell her the truth.
2007-05-23 11:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Gay guys are awesome.......
.It's like you're the "girlfriends" weve never had, plus most if not all gay guys are HOT HOT HOT.
.We can talk to you and have an intelligent conversation
.Shop with you, hell gay guys have more fashion sense then a woman half the time!
. Gay guys are fun to party with
.Gay guys know how to have fun and how to have a good time
.Gay guys are always positive
**And so much more.
.I think you should be flattered!
........
2007-05-23 11:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is because girls know that they won't fall for them and they are kinda like a girlfriend but they are guys. So, it's fun to have gay guys around since they are fun people to be with. That's just what I think.
2007-05-23 11:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls want to be friends with guys and most guys take this like she likes me, and they try to get in there pants, So with you they really can have a friend without some freak hitting on them all the time.
2007-05-23 11:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because you can have a comfortable relationship and not feel like like the guy wants to sleep with you all the time. It's so hard to talk to str8 guys about things without them thinking you want to have sex, with gay guys it's safe.
2007-05-23 11:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking because you gay guys are kinda like girls or alot like girls
2007-05-23 11:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by country.black 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gays guy seem to understand girls better and we can better communicate with them than we can with straight guys who mostly just want a peice of a**. we just share common interests and the fact that we know you won't hit on us is good too.
2007-05-23 11:03:28 · answer #11 · answered by manna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋