if you cant have children, what should you do with all your life?

Question

Is it even worth living? So lonley?

Answer 1

Travel....go on adventures with friends and when you get to that older age you should have met some people along the way to keep you company and surround yourself with family, and people that have children...just because you can't have your own doesn't mean you can't be as important to another child. You may be able to adopt as well. In the mean time LIVE your life do things and try to reach other goals...the answer will come with your experiences.

Answer 2

I chose not have children back when I was a teen. I'm 42 now and have no regrets. I've got friends and family who love me, so there is rarely any lonely (and having kids is NO guarantee you won't get lonely).

Do what you want with your life. I have no restrictions. I can come and go when I please. I've never had to find a sitter or had kids as a reason I couldn't go somewhere or do something.

Your life is what you make of it. If there is something you are unable to do yourself you either 1) find another way (adoption, for example) or 2) adjust your life and walk a different path.

Kids aren't a reason for living...LIFE is the reason for living! ☺

Answer 3

You should be fine. Everyone seems to have a baby or a child from an old relationship so when you meet people to be in a relationship with, youll be gettin your package deal that everyone seems to come with. If not, just adopt a kid! those kids need homes. Youlle be helping a kid and society at the same time. Oh you will also be helping yourself because I knew some lady who got paid to take care of adopted kids

Answer 4

adopt for sure. those children need homes too. You can also have someone have a baby for you. Or find a woman that is pregnant and is thinking about adoption. You can ask your doctor I'm sure they will have more info. Take care of cousins and nieces and nephews. They are good because you can spoil them then send them home. You dont have to punish them either :-)...just kidding

Answer 5

Children aren't good companions, and a good parent knows that. They will not cure loneliness, that's not their job.

I am sorry you want children and cannot have them yourself. I will assume that adoption is not for you, since you don't mention it.

I would suggest you spend your time working with children and give back to them what you would have as a parent. All schools need volunteers, there are mentoring programs in all communities and almost all charities have special programs for children. Open your heart to those who need it and you will not be lonely again. Good luck.

Answer 6

My heart goes out to you. My sister also cannot have children. You will make a wonderful aunt I am sure. Hopefully your siblings will give you lots of nieces and nephews to spoil. You might consider adoption. There are so many lost children in this world. They would love to have someone hold them and kiss them. Good Luck to you

Answer 7

Go on living and if you cant have children that's why we have this thing called ADOPTION. There are a lot of children out there who need to be loved.

Answer 8

You could do a ton with your life. Travel, develop interests and hobbies, volunteer, go to university, marry and so on.

If you are desperate to parent, you could adopt, foster, marry a person with kids already and help raise them or even try different medical/scientific means to have a child.

Answer 9

if you really want a child and you should be a parent (as in can give the child a good life and everything they need) then look into adoption. or find one of those wemon willing to carry your child (from ur husbands sperm) or get animals. my animals are like my children

Answer 10

What a terrible question! Who says that a life is less worthy if children aren't involved?

If you want children and feel that it's the only way to validate your existance, then adopt.