Okay first of all I'm kinda sorta seeing this extremely gorgeous guy, and we've had sex twice the first time, he didn't go...I was really sad..because I felt as if I wasn't turning him on...but he just said..that it takes him a while..the second time we had sex...he was like tottaly fooling around and I was into it..and after 30 minutes I was like getting tired and asked him if he was going on go..and he was ilke..oh you want me to go..and like a second later..he did..like he went on "q" why do guys do that...?? what was his deal
2007-05-23 12:46:09 · 17 answers · asked by jmt4127 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chicks a never happy he prolly would have been happy being done in like thirty seconds and then you guys would all be saying he a min man and making fun of hime for that. and here he is trying to be a stud and make you happy and you guys are saying hes weird. Give the dude a break.
(dont worry bro im looking out for you)
2007-05-23 12:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok a lot of the times guys hold off on going because they are just enjoying the feeling. my boyfriend does this quite a bit. dont take it personal. he is just enjoying the feeling so much that he wants to prolong it for himself and for you. some girls get upset when a guy finishes too soon. just have better communication about your sexual preferences and then you guys will be alright.
2007-05-23 19:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by DEBii 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does it too but I learned that he wants to see me get off first. He will do anything and everything before he goes. It was nice the first few times but then I had to tell him that it was okay for him to go before me. At least he's being considerate.
2007-05-23 19:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probally is nervous as hell, you need to make him feel confortable. They say that some females need foreplay perhaps its the same with guys (not me i pull boners for the weirdest reasons)
2007-05-23 19:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
some guys are worried that they didnt please you and try to wait until they know for sure that you were pleasured until they do. until girls... guys can "release" a lot faster... most girls need to be in the moment and not have anything else on their mind... work, school, chores, etc.
2007-05-23 19:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by avita81 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He has control.
Normal women typically appreciate it... they don't go on Yahoo Answers and ask about it!?
2007-05-23 19:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kia A 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh!!! I would be so annoyed, but I have had the same experience where I'm like ok you need to hurry, and then he did, so weird!!!!
2007-05-23 19:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Celi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd say he's just nervous. You should move on though. I don't think he knows what he really wants.
2007-05-23 19:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzy M 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hes a perf or he wants to make you happy
2007-05-23 19:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by phantomgirl714 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it was your nagging that made him get there faster.
2007-05-23 19:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋