My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now. Anymore, he has been calling me lazy for only exercising three times a week. Despite this, I still work full-time, pick up his messes around the house, and have my own side business.
Last fall I was working full-time and going to college full-time as well. Am I really that lazy?
2007-05-23 12:41:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're lazy and stupid, what does that say about his choice in women? LOL He sounds like a tool. Dump him. If you're living with him, move out.
2007-05-23 12:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont let that fool make you doubt yourself. how can anyone working, going to school and having a side biz be lazy. what does he do? is he in school? work full time? a boyfriend is someone who cares for and supports you. even if you are lazy and stupid, its more about the way he talks to you and how it makes you feel. you know exactly what i mean. if you are giving more than you get back and dont even know why you deal with him just move on...if its on the rocks in ten months its not going to get any better.
2007-05-23 19:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by kimm24seven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound lazy to me - full-time job+side business! If you aren't getting enough exercise just doing that, three sessions a week sounds like plenty. He may be calling you lazy for not meeting a particular need of his that you may or may not have time for. Ask him what he wants you to do, and if his request is unreasonable, or he just continues to attack you, tell him to grow up.
2007-05-23 19:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by vincentcostumer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound lazy to me. He's the 1 who's lazy if you have to pick up behind his butt.Don't be letting him call you stupid either cause it takes a dummie 2 know 1. He needs to be upgraded.
2007-05-23 20:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're as busy as you say you are then no. You already work out three times more than my wife in a week. Unless your dating the next Heisman trophy winner, he should have no complaints and pick up his own shite for a change!
2007-05-23 19:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not be lazy, but he would be right about you being stupid if you stayed with him. get rid of the loser.
PS. I think you need to relax a bit more. you'll live longer & be happier. don't worry about what other people think. everyone deserves a day of just relaxing ... be lazy! take 2 days and tell who ever questions you about it, TROLL SAID SO!
2007-05-23 19:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by eyepopping hideous female troll 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he's just a jerk. Anyone who can't clean up after themselves and has the nerve to call someone else lazy should get smacked upside down their lazy head.
2007-05-23 19:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by sai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take that from him!!! You are not lazy. Hes probably the slob. How dare he say those things?! I was in a relationship were my ex called me all kinds of names. You nane it, he said it. They will never stop or change. Its not worth is. There are other cuter, more intelligent fish in the sea!
2007-05-23 19:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he got lots of free time to call you lazy, Make him busy!!!
2007-05-23 19:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEC NO!!!!! you seem to work very hard! just talk to him. tell him how you feel and all the things you do. if he still thinks you're lazy then he's crazy!!!
good luck and hope this helps!
2007-05-23 19:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by ***Lena*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋