My sister is 13 years old, and she is going out with a boy that is 15 years old. (Is that too old for her?) BUt anyways, she's in the 8th grade and he's in the 9th. She told me the other night that sometimes her boyfriend acts as if she doesn't exsist. He hasn't called her in 3 days and she all sad about it. I tried to give her a little advice but I really didn't know what to say. What can I tell her?
2007-05-23 13:06:04 · 5 answers · asked by simone :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey there. forgive me for being blunt, but he is too old for her. plus shes too young to have a boyfriend.
If there not having sex already, than soon he will be bugging her for it, and will eventually get it. thats just the way it is now.
I am a 24 yr old male myself, and im telling you, young boys mess up young girls lives when their too young.
Dont know what you can do to help her, except tell her not to take the relationship too seriously, and therefore she wont get hurt as much.
hehe trust me, my future daughter wont be dating until shes in college, school just isnt the place, especially in this day and age. guys just want sex.
Once again sorry for my blunt view on the matter, but I know, from seeing my girlfriends' Crazy girl friends, how mash up there lives are because of getting into relationships that early. Now theyre sleeping around like whores.
Good luck!! lol
2007-05-23 13:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dan E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong. There are often reasons behind it (work, family matters & stuff). She is still way young, there are many minutes on her clock, many fish in the sea every day is a learning experience.
If the guy is using her drop him and find someone who would appreciate her more. Make sure you keep her away from players, they know the game they have experience and they know what heartstrings to pluck, im sure your experience in the field will be good for her.
2007-05-23 13:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is youthful so she consistent with possibility somewhat lost in what she is doing. She would not comprehend the undesirable outcomes that can happen with having intercourse. definite, shes 15 and youths think of they comprehend each and every thing yet you may prob sit down and talk along with her. supply her the vast sister suggestion and perhaps a number of your person journey memories. that's recommended to do it without your mom, no offense yet she could think of you 2 are gaining up on her. sit down her down and tell her approximately aids, hiv, getting preg. at 15 years previous, and the different issues that flow alongside with the territory. tell her which you dont apreciate her coming in all hours of the day and bring adult men living house without your permission. you may set circumstances the place she must be living house and (in case you like) tell her she will have friends over purely there is limited circumstances for business business enterprise. you may desire to tell her that ya, you're her sister no longer her mom and which you have 2 babies of your person and dont prefer yet another one to seem after and if she is going to stay there she is going to could desire to soak up somewhat some the living house carry household projects around your place. If she would not choose for any of them then you could prob deliver her decrease back on your mum and dad. they could desire to handle her anyhow. you have 2 teenagers to preserve. If shes nevertheless appearing this form deliver her off to militia college. Thats quite lots all i comprehend you may desire to do for her. stable success!
2016-11-26 21:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by pass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her no matter what she does she probably is not going to find a mature guy for a nice relationship until maybe her senior year in high school. and even that is stretching it.
2007-05-23 13:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by marcelinom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has she called him? Maybe he doesn't want to seem clingy. If she does, and he still ignores her, then he probably isn't that into her.
2007-05-23 13:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋