I am 24 years old and I just had a wonderful date with a wonderful guy who is 29. We really hit it off and I really feel like we could have serious relationship potential. My question is....after the first date, when would be an appropriate time to initiate/have sex? What do guys see as a good time to have sex? After the first the third date, third week, third month....what? After how long do guys assume that a girl must be a "prude"? Any thoughts would be appreciated!
2007-05-23 14:50:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is a pretty serious thing. I wouldn't share yourself with this guy until you've gotten to know him.
You'll only really frustrate a guy who actually cares to get to know you if you don't have any sort of sexual relations whatsoever; oral sex and the like is sufficient to satisfy everyone for awhile.
The guys--well, women too-- who will get very frustrated over lack of immediate sex probably just want you for sex, not for you.
In all, just wait until it feels right for the both of you; this might be a day, a week, a month, whatever.. nobody can say. After this, when you do decide to have sex you'll both have much more to share with each other in the moment.
Good luck and enjoy.
2007-05-23 14:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex I think should be the clincher of a relationship. You have sex not to form a relationship but to cement an already strong one.
People treat sex casually but I think that there is something about sex that makes the bond between two people stronger and that bond is a powerful one. Treating it carelessly is going to cause problems in the future.
I don't think there is something numerical about it - I think you should have sex when you're relationship is strong for reasons beyond sex.
2014-12-17 21:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today is a good date to have sex :P. Dont know usually i just let it flow, If it happens, it happens you can discuss whatever later on. If it has potential and he realises it then im sure he wont mind if u get into it early.
Just feel it out, if it feels right go for it
2007-05-23 14:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are always the one to control sex in a relationship just talk to him about it when you are ready. Maybe a kiss on the second date and sex on the fourth?
2007-05-23 15:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't put a number of dates on it you do it when you both feel comfortable with it..There is no rule book to follow..
2007-05-23 14:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 rd
2007-05-23 14:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Zippy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋