I like this shy girl but theres this dance thing comming soon for high school and i want to ask her to it before i do i want to know if she lieks me. Her freinds when i see them tell me she doesnt but then after they shout out just kidding or im joking,im not sure if they mean she doesent or does. I noticed her take a couple glances at me a couple tiems and smiled and inoticed some other little things but i try to talk to her but she always is to shy to talk back ,anyways i want to see if anyone cant put anything useful out there for me to read
2007-05-23 16:39:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stand up and go for it ask her you don't have anything to loose besides if she says no, then she's not for you but if she says yes, Congrats!!!Good Luck
2007-05-23 16:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her friends are having a great time yanking your chain dude! It's obvious that shy girl likes you so make your move and ask her to the dance. People that are shy will not send out monster signals to let you know that they are interested so it's great that you noticed the small signals. If she says yes, just get her a really pretty flower, take her to the dance and follow her lead. If she wants to dance, then dance. If she wants to hold up the wall all night, then you stand right there with her and hold up that wall. The key to winning her over is to make her feel comfortable and special so that she will open up to you. You're a great guy! Good luck.
2007-05-23 23:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to read anything. The answer is inside of you. Reach way down inside and pull up your courage and confidence. ASK HER! Give a little thought to where and how. If it were me I'd like it to be somewhere kinda private, yet not isolated. And don't worry if you feel awkward. You probably will and it won't matter. I think she already likes you. So it almost doesn't matter how you say it, just ask her. You could take some deep breaths, that could calm you a little. And give her a big smile when she says "YES".
2007-05-23 23:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life there are no gains without risks. If you don't ask her you know you won't be going to the dance with her, right? If you do ask her either you will or you won't be going to the dance with her. I like the odds on the second situation better than the first so take the risk and ask. And if she says no, ask someone else to go with you, don't let rejection get you down, life is full of disappointments, but what you will remember at the end is the successes.
love
Jim
2007-05-23 23:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by jim r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, for crying out loud. Sheesh. From what you've described and guessing your age category, chances are she's interested. But if she turns you down it's likely because she is THAT shy and has no self-confidence and doesn't want you to know she likes you too. You'll never know until you take a chance. It's unfortunate that it has to wait for an event like a dance to test the waters, so to speak.
2007-05-23 23:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by OP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to the dance...If she says yes then you've got your answer...If she says no then move on to the next one....Quite honestly man, if she's too shy to even talk back to you then I'm not sure how much fun you'll have at a dance...Maybe start with something a little less intimidating than a school dance.
2007-05-23 23:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by theanswerman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out. It's obvious she is showing some interest in you. Ans your friends with the "just kidding" crap.... don't pay them any mind. Just talk to her and get to know her. Since she's shy, make her feel comfortable around you (in a gentleman like way). If she's too shy, don't give up. It's only a matter of time before she starts opening up to you.( I use to be like that shy girl.)
2007-05-23 23:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Gizma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step up and be a man and go up and ask her out. Put your heart out on the line. What is the worse that can happen? She says No?, but then again, she could say YES. Just ask - you'll never know if you don't. You can do it, you sound like a brave young man who is not afraid of asking a girl out. She's only a girl --come on. :):) You can do it. Let me know if you did and what happened - if you want to.
2007-05-23 23:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never get anywhere unless you step up! That means with this girl and that applies to just about everything in life as well. Just use a little finesse. You'll get the hang of it. Just be direct you will get much more respect and people won't misunderstand your meaning. Always look people in the eye, male or female. Trust me on this one!
2007-05-23 23:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to her, look her in the eye and say, " Hi, "___", I'd really like to take you to the dance." That's it. Don't beat around the bush and don't ramble on. Be casual, grin and stand a little close, about 2 feet away. If she's looking at you and smiling she likes you. Girls like confidence. Good luck.
2007-05-23 23:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Fireball4513 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her to the dance, whats the worst that can happen? you like her, and it sounds like she likes you. I'm a lot like you when it comes to girls it seems, but i've learned that its not as complicated as you think. Signs that you think are signs but you aren't sure, or a hint that you think is a hint, but you think might not be a hint, is almost always a hint. Just ask her, cross your finger, and hope you hear a yes. If not, no biggy, just move on.
2007-05-23 23:43:51 · answer #11 · answered by Dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋