This actually happened to me... my bf and me was having a quarrell the last few days and he was really mad at me... and I was even madder! he was so bad to me!
And it ended up to be..
we broke up..
so.. I felt very sick without him.. and there fore... I was like..
didn't really wanted to go for work... but I actually knew how to keep my mind away from him.. which is... I stuff myself with work.. but... I wasn't really sure about it... so..
any advice? I need some help for forgetting him!
Thanks in advance.
2007-05-23 20:25:42 · 19 answers · asked by CELiNE:] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but actually... I can telepathy know that he didn't really wanted to break with me... but... if he really wants... I may not care about him anymore..
2007-05-23 20:35:09 · update #1
Forgetting my dear never happens, you just learn to live without that person .
Days are coming when you will even doubt that you made the right decision,but cheer up you will get another loving and wonderful person
It is not the end of life,keep your head up you are a star.
2007-05-23 20:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by papa askofu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. it normally helps to not communicate with the guy.. even if yall "just want to be friends".. I know from experience that is not possible. Too much anger is still there, after time.. it is possible to be friends..but just a difficult situation. I had to block my ex's txt, ignore phone calls, and not go places where he would be even though we shared mutual friends. Secondly.. find someone to occupy your time this could be a good guy/ girl friend. This is how I met my fiance. After my past relationship, I needed someone to be there for me and console me..and he was there. We didn't talk much about my past relationship, but mainly focused on building up our friendship and that helped me so much. Without him, I would have most likely been in your situation. Just mainly keep yourself busy, and EAT :) lol I always feel better when I eat.. maybe it will help you.. Good luck.
2007-05-24 03:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me :) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can not just forget it. In end of a relationship is just like a death. You need to deal with your feelings and come to terms why you have made this choice and get on with your life. The answer is live your life - you can not this forget.
Nothing with working as long as you are taking care of yourself and other responsibilities. Bad choices would be drinking, indiscriminate relationships, drugs, laying in bed, food binges, etc.
Good Luck
2007-05-24 03:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by longhairguypa2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go look for someone nicer. Why put up with anyone being mean to you? There are a lot of nice men in the world. You don't want to live a life of abuse. It makes for miserable not happy. There's a lot of people on this planet, why settle for a loser? Be a winner, that nice guy is out there some where go meet him.
2007-05-24 03:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF THE BREAK UP WAS JUST RECENT GIVE IT SOME TIME AND MAKE SURE IT IS RELLY OVER. THE TWO OF YOU MAY BE ABLE TO WORK THIS OUT.
JOURNALING HELPS. IT HELPS TO WRITE IT OUT AND TALK ABOUT IT WHEN YOUR HEART IS HURTING.
I THINK THE BEST THIING TO REMEMBER IS NOT TO GO OUT AN DGET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE ELSE TO HELP YOU GET OVER HIM BECAUSE THEN YOU ARE ADDING MORE PROBLEMS TO WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE.
2007-05-24 03:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by soarinwithclouds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you don't want to forget about him at all. If you want to forget about him, meet new people and stay w/ your family and girlfriends and just talk and forget about him. If your thinking of going back to him, tell him how you feel. He could take your advice and use it. Good luck.
2007-05-24 03:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its that hard. maybe u weren't meant to be forgetting him?
why not think about getting back togt again??
it could be an option. find a chance to work it out. u guys broke up (seemingly) like an act of impluse. maybe talking and sorting things out will help patch things back (if it's meant to be)
or let u know that u should move on without him. (if it isnt meant to be.)
hope u find the answer within YOU :)
2007-05-24 03:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend that maintains that all psychological questions / problems can be boiled down to one simple answer.
Getting over an ex, mourning a death, schyzophrenia, alcoholism, obesity, all of it. The difference is whether or not you can implement it in your own life.
his phrase?
admit it, and quit it.
you want to stop smoking? admit you do, and do it. next time you want a smoke, force yourself to get a piece of gum.
want to get over your ex? get a dog.
2007-05-24 03:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by howtoms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm you don't really mention you guys age, but I was married for 23 years and its a lot harder to forget someone that easy, but in your case you are in the right path, work and work and stay active wether in sports working out or just staying active and not thinking about him. time heals all wounds, believe it or not. good luck in your future hunn
2007-05-24 03:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by mabuloong 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you still have feelings for each other.
but if you really want to forget about him, try to FOCUS on other things... like friends, family .. yeah, work (but not too much.... too much of something is bad). you could watch movies with friends, no things that will make you happy, hang our with them, eat in a nice restaurant with some yummy foods, bond with your family. hey girl, enjoy!
i wish you goodluck.
2007-05-24 04:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by ritz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋