It's gut check time pal! Now follow me on this okay?
You love this girl right? right
This love is so deep and sincere you feel like you're gonna die every time you see her right? right.
You get sweaty palms and that achy feeling in your chest everytime you think about her right? right.
You would walk a thousand miles just to hold her hand at the movies right? right.
Well if you'd walk a thousand miles and do who knows what other crazy things to be with her, how about this...
You would pull yourself together like ya got a pair and talk to her to be with her right?
well?
right?
:) go get 'em tiger
2007-05-23 21:35:32
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answer #1
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answered by Tim F 3
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If you don't have a casual relationship with her now then that is the first step. Ask around about her to make sure she is not attached and to find out her interests. This is to make sure you are compatible and like some of the same things. Guys get shot down because they don't do their homework. If you find you have some of the same interests she does like movies, animals, sports, art, video games, etc. that will be something you can talk about. You don't have to have a line to drop because that is a turn off to most. Start showing up at the places she goes and casually say Hello and introduce yourself if she doesn't know you already. If she does know you just start saying Hi everytime you see her. This breaks the ice. Once you do that just keep it up and you can start having a casual conversation about the common interests you have like "I saw you at the Spiderman movie last week, did you like it? Seems like we like the same movies.....Don't forget she may be shy too so it takes more than one try. Girls pick up on this pretty quick and if she wants to get to know you she won't avoid you. If she does avoid you after you have tried numerous times then take the hint and move on. Hope this helps.
2007-05-24 04:48:40
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answered by Anonymous
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I know how you feel, but you need to understand that you're infatuated, not in love. You really like her, but how can you love someone you can't talk to?
If you know her at all, just go up to her (when she's not surrounded by friends) and make conversation about something she's doing or similar interests/past times, or current events. Or... just introduce yourself. Once you open the doors for conversation, it gets much easier. Good luck!
2007-05-24 04:31:50
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answered by seventhyearfalling 2
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First of all, make sure that when you say you love her, you know EXACTLY what that means to you. A lot of people mistake infatuation or an extreme crush for love. I would say just grow some cajones and talk to her. If you feel strongly for her, she should know.
2007-05-24 04:32:45
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answered by Jon S 2
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You can just go and talk to har. Or u can be her secret admirer. Send her cards and letters and watch her reactions.If she is interested she will want to meet u.Then u r in for it. This is the opportunity for u. If she in not interested she wii not pay attention to ur cards.
2007-05-24 04:35:12
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answered by Shab D 2
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You can not love someone that you can't even talk to. You have a "crush" on her. Just walk up to her and tell her how nice she looks.
2007-05-24 04:30:49
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answered by PEGGY S 7
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THAT DEPENDS ON ARE YOU SURE ITS LOVE YOU ARE FEELING AND NOT JUST SHEER LUST?
YOU FIRST FIND OUT HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT YOU, MAKE SURE THIS LOVE/LUST IS MUTUAL.
BE GENTLE AND CARING IN SETTING THE MOOD TO TELL HER ABOUT THIS LOVE YOU HAVE.
BE YOU MOST OF ALL. GOOD LUCK
2007-05-24 04:32:12
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answered by CEYISHA S 4
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next time u see her.
no matter what the situation is like,u just ask her out.
dude there is no such a thing as RIGHT MOMENT if she likes u she will accept.
hopefully she will
good luck.
bbye.
2007-05-24 04:30:56
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answered by looking for a happy ending 2
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Be brave. Tell her u love her. Don't wait any longer. Good luck!!!!
2007-05-24 04:33:44
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answered by coleslaw 2
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Slip an XTC in her drink, you'll have her eating out of your palms my friend.
2007-05-24 04:31:32
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answered by Forrest GumpLokeSta 1
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