Ok well ive been going out w/ this guy for 3 weeks. We he recently yold me he loved me over the phone and i said i wasent ready to say it back, he told me again and again so i eventually told him back.
Hes really good to me, and calls like 3 times a day. He makes me things and sings to me. I really started falling for him.
Then i was gonna send him some pictures, and it dident work. And he was like what were they of. And i was like just me. And he was like were they naughty? and i said "you wish"
and he said not really cuz im eventually gonna get the real thing, and i was like NO YOUR NOT. and hes like if i marry you i will.
Later i was telling him i was excited to meet my future husband and know it was him, and he was like "do you know yet" and i said not yet. Ans he said ill just have to prove it to you.
Hes moving SO fast. and he tells me he loves me every 5 min.
i really really liked him but now im kinda freaking out. And backing off. what do i do
2007-05-23 19:39:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really need to let him know how you feel. If he really "loves" you then he will back off a little and give you space .
2007-05-23 19:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by kittyxxx123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are the kind of person that needs time. Tell him that you do not want to move too quickly because you want to enjoy every step of the relationship process before making any commitments. Tell him that when people rush things, they usually end up splitting because they don't know enough about each other to make the commitment. Tell him that you want to get married one time, and one time only, so you want to be sure that it is right before you jump into it. Tell him that if he really cares about you, he will respect your wishes.
2007-05-24 02:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwwe:) I don't think you really have anything to worry about. Like..I was kind of in the same situation.Just shows he's pretty crazy about you. I dunno. But You'll come across more then one guy who *Moves to fast* haha. If it starts getting weird & stalkerish though, which it kinda sounds like with all the I love yous..after only 3 weeks..haha then you'll have to get over him.. You don't need a weirdo lol :)
2007-05-24 02:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the question of marriage has even come up after only three weeks, sounds like a bad sign. maybe this guy is desperate to get married? maybe he has emotional problems? who knows. either way, this sounds like a bad deal. i recommend you take the red pill (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill) and get out of this relationship asap. leaving only hurts once; staying in a bad relationship just keeps hurting over and over.
good luck to you. =]
2007-05-24 03:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by kagerousan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is too pushy. Not good. I hated dating guys like that. Obviously the relationships never lasted more than a month because they were too pushy. Guys like that are only looking for one thing. Please listen to me... Dump him.
And you sound WAY too young for him to be talking about tasteless pictures or sex. Ugh I hated dating guys like that!!
2007-05-24 02:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Just Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whats in your heart. He sounds like he's just flirting and laying it down thick.
2007-05-24 02:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by the white indian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋