It is widely said that girls don't like pickup lines. How else to start a conversation? Many people suggest to use situation specific openers. But I have observed that that they don't necessarily lead to further conversations and you are back at square one wondering how to break the ice again.
2007-05-23 19:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by Kannan J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start to make a eye contact, smile, if you are far enough to her, walk beside her and say, Hi!
"Did I see you somewhere?"
"What was your name was?"
"yeah! I see!"
"Ahh! I remember now.... I was here all along I been waiting for you", then smile again and laugh.
2007-05-23 20:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you use the openers, be ready to ask more questions, or continue the conversation, should they give you a one word answer until the other person feels comfortable. Just be sincere, and relaxed when making that first move. It will make the other person more open to talking with you.
By the way, it is always best to ask a question that can not be answered with one word. For instance--Instead of saying do you like something, say it appears that you are enjoying that, what is it that you enjoy so much? This way the person can not answer with one word, and move on. She will tell you what she likes, and you can come back with your own opinion.
2007-05-23 20:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the funnel technique. Start conversation with anything. Ask small questions that would make her reply in detail. Lateron when she is confortable talking to you, be a good listener as whe might speak a lot. In between you have to judge what are her favourite topics. And even if you do not like something, do not say you do not like. Agree to her and show common interests.
Show that you are a like minded person.
2007-05-23 22:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quoting the character Buddy Love from the 1963 movie THE NUTTY PROFESSOR with Jerry Lewis
talking to Miss Purdy:
" You're crazy about me, right? And I can understand it. Only this morning, looking in the mirror before shaving, I enjoyed seeing what I saw so much I couldn't tear myself away. Have some, baby?"
or.....
you can say "hello"
2007-05-23 20:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are various things you can do.
Bump it her on accident. Or a simple, 'Hi, I'm (name) Nice to meet you.' Try to overhear a conversation and pretend to be passionate about that subject. Don't be too forward or aggresive or she's possibly scared off.
2007-05-23 20:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by t3h_hul|<_1sh_m3h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking with out thinking any thing like she is girl and your are boy.
2007-05-23 22:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by deva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually being you and speaking your mind. just relax, be polite. try to be sincere. genuine you know. things like that. be a real gent. ask about what she enjoys. what's her take on the war. whatever. most important. be yourself.
2007-05-23 20:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you guys have to make it so complicated? Repeat after me: "Hi. How are you doing tonight?" Keep it simple, silly.
2007-05-23 20:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by god_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start by saying hi how are you? you are very beautiful where are you from? and keep the questions going
2007-05-23 20:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hey good lookin, whatcha got cookin? how bout cookin somethin up with me.
Or just say hi.
2007-05-23 20:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by burgler09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋