i have this boy as a freind the thing is we hug spoon and make out kiss sleep togetha and sometimes hold hands but weneva i ask him out he says no what do i do and i tell him how i feel
2007-05-23 20:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by measexymonkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he likes me but doesnt want to date me wen neva had sex and he said he wants to be my babys dady but doesnt want to be my bf wat the f***
2007-05-23 20:31:00 · update #1
he likes me but doesnt want to date me we neva had sex and he said he wants to be my babys dady but doesnt want to be my bf wat the f***
2007-05-23 20:31:41 · update #2
I hate to tell you...but he doesn't want you. Well, he wants you...but just for sex and all that stuff. If he is even slightly interested in having you as a girlfriend he would have hopped on that bus a long time ago. Gather the courage, stop talking to him, any you will find a guy that will respect you a lot more. No matter how much you love this guy, he doesn't feel the same and it is pointless to try and change that fact. Just move on...in the end you will be happier and you will have a differnt guy that will be an amazing boyfriend. Good Luck. :)
2007-05-23 20:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do You (or any other Female) have any idea how difficult it is for a Boy/Man/Male to want a Girl /Woman/Female for a friend and to not have sex with Her because You respect Her, or just do not like Her as a sex object? Think about the way You have asked Your question, and how You would give advice to another. You are never going to have someone who is not interested in You, unless You force Them to comply with Your wishes. And that is not the basis of any sort of relationship, be it good, bad or indifferent. Accept the fact that Your friend is an individual, rather than an object, and show Him the common courtesy of respecting His beliefs and decisions. Perhaps then You both will mature.
2007-05-24 03:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there well im going to be really honest with you and i do not mean to hurt you or upset you .....so please read and think about what im saying .......its quite simple here ...you sweetheart are being used by this plank and he wont ask you out as he can come over make out with you kiss and what ever else goes on and in the morning he goes on his way ......you dont tell him how you feel you show him ,the next time he thinks he is coming over to stat and have all the fun HE WANTS !!!!!,you tell him NO ! and shut the door and tell the plank that you do not want to go out with me but you think you can use me ?? SOD OFF PLANK BREATH !! and bang the door shut look iknow that sounds really harsh considering that you are head over heals in love with this guy ,but sweetheart he is using you ,and until you say look hang on a minute ive had enough he will keep coming round for more ,and to be really honest he is not showing you any respect ,but having said that you are not showing youre self any respect either ,look we all want and need love but there are some kinds that do us no favours and you sweetheart have one right now .....look this action that im suggesting you use will either waken this plank up and start showing you real respect and ask you out ,or it will be over either way you are going to win .....how ?easy as you will find some one that really love you and wants to go outwith you and really look after you !! please listen to what ive said this happens all the time its just a pity that us females sometimes fall for guys that really are planks !! i hope you find real happiness and true love .....good luck and take care xx
2007-05-24 03:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if he liked you for more than a booty call he would have said yes a long time ago, think about it, why buy the cow when your getting the milk for free?
2007-05-24 03:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by NA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop hanging out with him and talking with him for about a week. He'll come crawling back to you and beg you to be his gf. Make sure he has to work for it.
2007-05-24 03:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Karoline M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not you try to sleep semi naked beside him that he get tempted on you. Do this after having full booze
2007-05-24 03:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by madlymadrks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say one thing LEAVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-24 03:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋