Family & Relationships - 23 May 2007

My husband works for his uncle and the cell phone comes with the job , my husband doesnt pay the bill , my question is how do I get my hands on the bill so I can look at all his calls, I have reason to believe that hes cheating again, and I want the phone bill or account number to verizon, does anyone have any ideas?

2007-05-23 04:35:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband goes out almost every night to the bar and sometimes does not come home at all. He swears that he is not cheating, but sometimes stays gone for up to 5 days because of a small disagreement that we have had. Do I get out of this, or deal with it? How do you know if there is another woman?

2007-05-23 04:34:14 · 34 answers · asked by Cynthia P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know everyone wants an answer to this one. I've been told by my therapist that the rule of thumb is 2 years for every year together...is this really how long it takes. I have no problems dating, but no one gets to me the way he does.

2007-05-23 04:33:40 · 7 answers · asked by go1den1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Marry a person with a different race?

2007-05-23 04:33:07 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After i had my son who is now i have had a rapid weight loss from about 135 to 113 and can't seem to get past the 115 line. for most women they would be happy about this but im conserned i havent weighted that much is so many years. i am not comfortable with my wieght being so low. is there any kind of drink/ supplements i could be taking to help me gain about 15 lbs? really would like to stay in the 130-135 range. or has this ever happened to you or somene you know and what did you do about it?

2007-05-23 04:32:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Suppose i am 15 yrs old.Just suppose that i am ,then what do u think?

2007-05-23 04:30:34 · 28 answers · asked by Subhayan C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife (married 24 yrs.) typically utters, "Jesus" when she is frustrated or dissappointed in something my 14 year old daughter does or doesn't do. My 18 year old daughter and I told her she should not use his name in vain, that Jesus has nothing to do with the situation. Further, I told her some people find it offensive, and out of respect she should not speak like that. She retorted, "I'll speak any way I damn well please!"

To me, this is a sign of selfishness, immaturity, and disrespect of both God and for her immediately family members that she supposedly loves. I find this particularly bad, because she knows I have high moral standards, and we even sent our two girls to Sunday school when they were children. My 18 yr old daughter played on a church basketball team for 10 years.

What do you think?

2007-05-23 04:27:37 · 19 answers · asked by Robert T 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 04:26:13 · 9 answers · asked by Kellie B 2 in Singles & Dating

No, in the twelve years we have been together i have been out once, only because he did. Never ever cheated or given him a reason not to trust me. Same goes for him. I think we are so close in everything we do it just seems outrageous for me to do anything without him. Oh i have went out with my elderly aunts shopping on weekend trips during Christmas season.

2007-05-23 04:24:38 · 20 answers · asked by twisty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've gone on about 6 dates with this guy, he's met my family and i've met his. we're hanging out tonight with another couple, and I would just like to know if he considers us a couple, but i dont know a good way to ask him so its not wierd. any ideas???

2007-05-23 04:23:36 · 15 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1 in Singles & Dating

I shrunk myself down to an inch tall and you find me spying on you in your bedroom, what would you do?

Just looking for some fun answers.

2007-05-23 04:23:04 · 18 answers · asked by Stang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if anyone has done this or knows anyone who has?

2007-05-23 04:21:26 · 22 answers · asked by Robbie Digital 3 in Singles & Dating

My daughters daddy gives me a small sum of money a week, how much should I get with one child in NC. I work full time also.
Thanks

2007-05-23 04:15:13 · 22 answers · asked by georgiegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-23 04:12:59 · 20 answers · asked by j.mckay29 1 in Singles & Dating

I get to stay home today because I'm exempt from today's finals. The girl I'm talking about is an underclassman so we haven't seen each other today. She always answers the phone when I call anyway, except two times when she wasn't home. I was just wondering if she would want to talk to me even more since we won't see each other today, and how to ask her to hang out with me at a skating rink tomorrow night because a lot of people are supposed to be going tomorrow for some reason.

2007-05-23 04:10:10 · 11 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

okay so im 13 and my boyfriends 15 and we wanna have sex... hes not a virgin and i am.. hes kinda impationt so he gets what he wants from me.... we love eachother and we have been together for 3 months and i dont know what to do.... im going to his house soon and yeah im wondering if i should let him or not because if i dont i might loose him and i realy dont want that to happen becasue i love him so much and i mean people tell me that sex at my age is a bad thing but i have a friend who is turning 14 really soon and she has had sex with her boyfriend who is 14 going on 15 and nothing happened and they have been together 8 months i think it is maybe 7 1/2


what do i do?

2007-05-23 04:08:28 · 69 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend we are together for almost 3 months. I am 40 and she is 32
I go often at her appartment and she cooks for me. We have an honest relationship (I believe)
We have discussed about the medications we both take
We met at yahoo personals.
Yesterday I introduced her at my best friend. Before that she offered me a red rose.
Somehow we had a conversation after that and she proposed me to live with her for some time and marry her. That was suddent.
Its not that I don’t want but is it too early?
I have never been married and I don’t know what should I do and what movements so this can be succesfull. Maybe some more time to establish that we or she really is what she wants?
Please give some advices according to your experience
Thank you

2007-05-23 04:06:26 · 24 answers · asked by Boston 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Throughout our relationship my husband has done things that have really hurt me and made me feel unimportant. A recurring theme is devoting more time, attention or affection to other things/people. He is in the Army and we got married a year ago, right after we got married, we moved to Germany and have been here ever since. I am terribly lonely and bored; the majority of my time is spent at home waiting for him. I feel like I have made so many sacrifices for him and he doesnt appreciate it. Once we had an argument over playing rugby. He wanted to be on a team that practices 2 nights a week with games on Sat. I was hurt that he would be willing to give up so much time with me. I understand wanting to play but doesnt he realize all I do is sit alone and wait for him and he would be doubling that? Just an example. Sometimes I feel like I am being selfish and other times I feel like I deserve all his love and attention for the sacrifices I have made to be with him. Advice/opinions please

2007-05-23 04:06:07 · 33 answers · asked by Amanda D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im shy and i don't like to talk to anyone new what should i do

2007-05-23 04:06:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my girlfriend we are together for almost 3 months. I am 40 and she is 32
I go often at her appartment and she cooks for me. We have an honest relationship (I believe)
We have discussed about the medications we both take
We met at yahoo personals.
Yesterday I introduced her at my best friend. Before that she offered me a red rose.
Somehow we had a conversation after that and she proposed me to live with her for some time and marry her. That was suddent.
Its not that I don’t want but is it too early?
I have never been married and I don’t know what should I do and what movements so this can be succesfull. Maybe some more time to establish that we or she really is what she wants?
Please give some advices according to your experience
Thank you

2007-05-23 04:05:06 · 29 answers · asked by ianquestions 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my parents, but don't talk to them much about what's going on in my mind, life.

I work full-time as an Accountant and am out of the house from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m.

However, in the evenings I get bored and lonely sometimes. I just eat dinner, help in the kitchen some and then am on the computer or read.

I am planning to move on soon and am only living at home temporarily.

I do attend a Divorce Support Recovery Group one evening per week.

What else can I do to prevent the loneliness and boredom?

I know that I should be more open with my parents, but they offer their opinion and I don't always want that.

I am dealing with guilt because my child is not living with me and nasty, threatening voicemails from my ex-husband which I try to ignore.

My parents put pressure on me to vacation, spend money and go out and meet someone. I will do this, but in my own time.

My brother is of no help because he tells me that I am bipolar which I am not.

2007-05-23 04:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

2007-05-23 04:04:53 · 18 answers · asked by sexyass 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I be concerned?

2007-05-23 04:03:04 · 37 answers · asked by Ronin 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend just got a divorce after 25 years of abuse. I would like to go out and celebrate with her but I don't think my husband would let me. My friend is also hubby's cousin. He knows we want be out looking for men or anything like that. I'm sure he'll say no. What should I do? Make a big fuss?

2007-05-23 04:02:57 · 19 answers · asked by twisty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

because before they were broken up they acted like they weren't neva going together cause he was always around me so do you thinl thats what i should do

2007-05-23 04:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My finace & I have been 2gether 5 years now and are having problems over his 10 yr old daughter. I have always been nice to her & tried to treat her as i do my own child who is 8. Then over Xmas when he had her for visitation she brought a journal with her & she wrote nothing but lies in it. This is not the 1st time she has made up stuff. She accused my son of hitting her & yelling at her & he wasnt even there. Anyway to make a long story short, her father had a talk with her, she never got in any kind of trouble or anything which is an ongoing arguement because she can do whatever she wants with no consequences and my son who lives with us 24/7 has rules he has to follow. My fiance is now on a different shift at work & has asked me to pick her up on the friday nights when he has his visitation. I do not feel comfortable being left alone with her since this last incident of her lies eventhough he says he knows none of what she has said is true. Am i wrong for feeling this way.

2007-05-23 04:00:38 · 24 answers · asked by hadenough 2 in Marriage & Divorce

spouse wants to see the baby and knows that she can be taken by them at any time because no papers have been filed for anything and has threatened to take her from me if she gets the chance before

2007-05-23 03:59:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just turned 50

2007-05-23 03:58:19 · 22 answers · asked by Thomas W 2 in Singles & Dating

To this date I have not met anyone who has not cheated on their significant other, for whatever reason, men and women. I have a hard time believing that people don't eventually cheat at some point in a relationship.

2007-05-23 03:56:48 · 17 answers · asked by funkyfree4 3 in Singles & Dating

you ladies are so sure that it would never happen to you, yet you are the ones that make it so easy to cheat on.

All the signs could be right in front of you, yet your stubbornness hide the realities.

If you are appauled by this comment, then you know what i say is true deep down.

2007-05-23 03:55:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce