you ladies are so sure that it would never happen to you, yet you are the ones that make it so easy to cheat on.
All the signs could be right in front of you, yet your stubbornness hide the realities.
If you are appauled by this comment, then you know what i say is true deep down.
2007-05-23 03:55:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Under the ideal circumstances, almost every person will cheat!
2007-05-23 03:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
1st off, the man is still married regardless if they are not living 2gether. You should have never got in 2 that relationship. And there are children involved. He will always have some type of communication w/his babies mama no matter who he is with...It's natural for "HER" 2 want her man back.. I was in a similar situation as yourself however, there are no children involved. My relationship w/a married man lasted approximately 2yrs and I ended the relationship bcus I felt I was being cheated. I will not be put on the backburner for NO ONE. If there is no type of relationship w/the wifey, then it's time to move onto OUR relationship and find our happiness. But sometimes, things don't always turn out the way YOU would like them to. I still love him but I also LOVE myself.. Good luck and have a great week.........
2016-05-20 22:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound so sure that what you are saying is the way it is. I am not appalled by the comment so much as I find it funny. I am not one hundred percent sure that my man won't cheat on me, anything is possible I guess. What I am one hundred percent sure of is what I would do if he did cheat on me and that I hope would be enough to make him keep it in his pants. I know he loves me and I really have no worries about what could happen. If it is going to happen it will, right? If I give him to much space and make it "so easy to cheat on" me, then so be it. Some times it just takes a little self confidence and faith in your relationship to know that your significant other wont cheat on you. MAN OR WOMAN!
2007-05-23 04:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tom and Tiffini,
You are both WRONG! I have never and will NEVER cheat on my wife. She and I have been married for over 32 years. She is the greatest woman in this whole world. GOD has blessed me time and again thru her. She and I became Christians about twenty years ago and to cheat on her is to cheat on our FATHER in my mind. My parents have never been with anyone else and they are living proof that a marriage can work. She is totally disabled and my dad stays by her side day and nite waiting on her hand-and-foot. You can think what you want but that is not true for all men and I can testify to that! I would be glad to assist anyone on studying GOD's WORD or finding a Bible Study Group in your area if you are interested. Have a great day and a wonderful week.
Thanks,
Eds, Truly a Christian.
2007-05-23 04:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Eds 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not appalled by your comment, but if you have a strong marriage, you spend your downtime together, you laugh, you dont nag each other and you enjoy the same things (ie camping, hiking, animals, concerts, racing, tv shows) then you should have no worries. If your man doesnt come home, never has sex with you, comes to bed hours after you turn in, always has plans for the "weekends", controls you, well then, obviously you have a problem. If you argue non stop, never have fun and cant stand to be in the same room, well then one or both of you is probably cheating.
2007-05-23 04:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by lee911 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm not appalled in the least, I work hard at my marriage to insure my hubby won't cheat. There are no guaranties but if you put in an effort then your chances are better than most. Been married nearly 37 years and neither of us has cheated.
2007-05-23 04:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not apalled by your comment. I think you have a narrow view of things, but that's just my opinion, and I've been wrong before.
The truth is I know my man could cheat on me anytime he wants, and I don't really care. If he wants to cheat, he's not worth wasting my time on, and I'd rather know early in a relationship than find out 16 years down the road.
2007-05-23 03:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think your right, but I think thats why it takes two too hold a marriage together. My husband would not cheat, we have the bible in are life and we fellow it daily. I cook for him and clean and i do stuff in bed. The reason why men cheat is because they dont get what they want in bed. or because there stupid.No matter how you put it ,men can become stupid. I feel that its all about how you communicate. and show love too each other. my husband and I always holding on each other, talking to each other. I love him so much...
My husband is still in love with me like the day we met. he surprise me with roses, and card, he remembers everything from the first time we date, when we kiss, when he said i love you. I dont remember all that. He is a fantastic guy..
2007-05-23 04:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lori T 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I used to agree until I met my husband. We started out as best friends , I think that helps the relationship a lot. As far as him cheating on me...I don't think he could...emotionally , he would die. Not only that..but if he did cheat on me , chances are the relationship was already over in a sense. When we met , he was at a very low point in his life , as was I , we helped eachother out , made it through , and would never turn back.
2007-05-23 04:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by dustbaby1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its called being naive ... I thought that could never happen to me when I first met my ex husband but he was quick to throw that whole idea of being faithful right out the window. I was dumb to think otherwise and tell u what even dumber to act like I didnt know what he was doing but I got smarter when I made the wonderful decision of letting his @ss go forever.
2007-05-23 06:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋