how do I get my husbands cell phone bill?

Question

My husband works for his uncle and the cell phone comes with the job , my husband doesnt pay the bill , my question is how do I get my hands on the bill so I can look at all his calls, I have reason to believe that hes cheating again, and I want the phone bill or account number to verizon, does anyone have any ideas?

Answer 1

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Remember serial cheats never change, catching him will not change him.

Answer 2

Because its probably listed as a business account, you wont have access through the internet. But just to be sure do this...when he is asleep, get his phone. Go on the verizon site and punch in his number. It will ask you for a code that you dont have. You can request that the code be texted to the phone which is done right away. Once you have that code, delete the text message and use it to access his account. If he doesnt use it online at all (since he doesnt pay the bill) you may be able to set up the account online for the first time and make it accessible to you at all times. Then, you can always see the calls, the last call placed...all that. Only thing you cannot see is the actual messages if he texts, but you'll know he did. How do I know all this? I used to have to go through this with my husband. I encourage you though, beyond this, to seek a closer relationship with God. He will show you how to 1) not worry about what your husband might be doing, and 2) He will change your husband into the man that God calls him to be through your obedience to God.

Answer 3

I guess the first thing is this - did he tell you why he is deleting all his called and incoming numbers? Is this normal for him? If it's NOT normal for him, then I think you have a right to be suspicious. I agree with the above poster - get online with your cell provider and sign up for online billing/ account. Most of them allow you to see the full list of incoming and outgoing calls. Some will even let you do trending where you can track and trend the numbers that he's been calling and see if it's increased, etc. You have the right to do so, particularly if you have suspicions and he's acting shady. You are married to him, you have a right to know. If he seems like he's hiding something, either he is or he's up to something else. Don't sit around and wait for it to slap you in the face - get out there and find out!

Answer 4

I have been in your shoes and I still can't seem to get out of them. If you know for a fact that he has no on line account for the phone bill then you can set it up without him knowing by creating your own password, you just have to have his cell number. Make sure you use your email when setting up the account and you will need his social security number. However, there is always other ways to find out if he is cheating!

Answer 5

You obviously don't trust him. You appear to have good reason not to - but what if you find out he's not cheating? You still expect him to.

I couldn't advise a way you could see the phone bill, at least not legally.

However, relationships are based first and foremost on trust and you cannot trust your husband. Not a lot of chance for a golden future together is there?

Answer 6

As a child who has witness her parents doing such a thing. I think the best thing to do is just ask your husband. There is nothing that hurts a child more than watching a mother cry because her husband went behind her back and got a call list of her cell phone..some of those calls I made because me and my mom were on a shared plan. As a result, Im 23 years old and still remember to this day how evil my dad can be...this does not help our relationship as daughter and father...despite other things. Please talk it out, a marriage is worth working out.

Answer 7

My husband is constantly looking at my cell phone bill and it drives me CRAZY!!! I have not and will not cheat on him so that is the difference in the situation... If he has cheated on you before he is more than likely cheating again... I would just leave him because everyone deserves a faithful partner forget the whole looking at the cell phone bill its like something a stalker would do... if you think he is cheating just LEAVE!!

Answer 8

I am sure that Uncle wouldn't like to know that he is cheating so ask him and tell him why. Uncle would not be too pleased that he is using his phone for calls that are not work related. Sometimes the best approach is the direct one.

Answer 9

The phone bill wont tell you he's cheating. Him admitting to it or you catching him with the other woman will...Dont waste your time on going through the phone bill. He will probably say, he was calling a customer and doing a follow-up

Answer 10

I did something similar, it does not help, kept looking at hes phone, as i did not trust him as a new number came up regular,we split up, but got back together for two years, i did not check hes phone as i meant when i told him i trust him ,then 2 weeks ago he asked me for a trial separation, now i am all over the place tried talking but i think its to late for me, if your sure hes cheating then sort it now, as u may regret it in the long run, that's not nice

Answer 11

If you or him is not paying the bill why would you want his bill. Why look for something (trouble) when you do not need to. If you think he is cheating, come out and Ask him.