what would u do if u found out that the father of ur child that u love so dearly, is messing around with ur sister? He has asked me to marry him here recently and then everything just stopped and he doesnt come around anymore. Then u find out he has been hanging out with ur sister, who is very flighty. What should i do this is killing me inside it seems that she is always doing this with friends and other family members in the past. We are so sick of it. How do i deal with such intense emotions?
2007-05-23 00:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by boo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would just stay away from the both of them, if you knew your sister had this type of problem then you should not have allowed him to go around her.. She does not have respect for you nor does he, find yourself a real man, you should have married before you got pregnant.
2007-05-23 00:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by je 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the answers that are given like "use birth control" or "drop him" can be a bit easier said than done. You can't just do that to the father of your child - plus, I'm sure you wouldnt swap your child for anything in then world.
I think that in this situation, you really need communication, set things straight, get it all out on the table and work from there.
As for dealing with intense emotions - I'd say find someone to talk to - it can really help
2007-05-23 07:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sammy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump his sorry butt and don't even think of getting married to him. If he is cheating on you then he is going to be a cheater forever.
Regarding your sister, well she crossed the line and she should be ashamed of herself. It's difficult when family members do this to other family members. I would certainly keep your sister at a distance from you for a while.
2007-05-23 07:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uck! Don't allow your sis or bf to drag you into Jerry Springer status. Dump the guy and keep a distance from your sister. I hear of these things from time to time and I cannot believe this really happens. Your sis is the worst kind of tramp to mess w/ your bf....especially now that a baby is involved. Your child doesn't need all that low life drama.
2007-05-23 07:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by selery222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good bye to both. Are you young? Trust me when you go through this you grow up and you will wonder how you could have wasted emotion on 2 people who obviously don't deserve it. Pack up and move or take the long hard journey of tears and tantrums.
2007-05-23 07:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your child needs to be bashed in the head with a frying pan.
2007-05-24 11:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Jerry Springer. LOL. Not much you can do if he does not love you, you can't make him love you. Move on to bigger and better things. There are many guys out there.
2007-05-23 07:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Neal C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rid yourself of him....let him be a father to your child and thats it....You CAN do better than him and you DON'T need him in your life. BE STRONG and good luck
2007-05-23 07:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister, tell her that she might be breaking up a family, if she doesn't listen talk to your parents about it.
2007-05-23 07:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's a sl*t, break off your engagement with the jerk and distance yourself from them from now on. Please don't let your family members pressure you into forgiving your sister.
2007-05-23 07:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋