I swear to God I can't keep up with her mood swings and circular logic. I beg her to stop arguing and she will for 10 minutes and start back up again. It's like being trapped in an endless loop! If I think I've satisfied one particular topic of argument, she'll take a completely different path and I have to start all over! Is it her, me, or are all women just nuts!?
2007-05-23 12:02:29 · 26 answers · asked by Max 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All women are just nuts...accept it and don't speak just nod your head up and down when she speaks to you..
2007-05-23 12:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HOW TO STOP IT.
Go up to her and hug her and tell her you love her so much.
Do this every time you come home from work. Kiss her goodbye as you go to work, never miss.
Everyday compliment her on something, her house work, or her cooking, or her fine A**.
This really works.
Within 2 or 3 days she will be so nice to you your head will spin as you wonder where the monster went.
In answer to your question yes they are nuts but we can`t live without them. So we have to understand they are nuts and that they think with feelings and emotions. We just grunt to our fellow males and they understand completely as we carve up the dead animal. Women want us to feel the sunset as we do it. They say we are not listening but yes we are we have just heard it now for the 30th time in the last 2 hours, but that is not what she is really mad about anyway. Women do not understand that men are utilitarian, we are jeeps, without the features. Women are Cadillacs with all the bells and whistles. We only want 2 things in life, be admired by our women and have sex with them. We will do anything that we are capable of to get that. Heck we will even kill to get it. Without it we leave.
However women want us to be like them and cry and swing in our moods and talk. They don`t understand we are not built with that feature included.
We have to tell them once everyday that we love them and they are wonderful. Unlike the other guys who already know it women have to hear it again and again. Then you will have peace.
Incredibly women don`t even think they do it but it is the #1 reason men leave them.
Glad you asked
2007-05-23 12:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was similar to her until i learned that my marriage was in jeapordy and i didn't want to loose my wonderful husband. she may have PMDD (if it comes in spurts, may be around her menstrual cycle) or she could have a medical issue. more than not she may have a bad past or have been raised by fighting parents. B-Complex helps a lot with mood swings. And a liver cleanse may help. They say the liver is the seat of all emotions. What are her eating habits? It could be a number of things. Trial and error until she finds what's wrong (provided whe even wants to). Let her know how unhappy you are that she's fighting all the time. When my husband told me how unhappy he was and was considering separating I did a 180. Now, we almost never argue. I had to learn to accept a lot of things. Education is the key. It worked for us and helped us understand each other.
2007-05-23 12:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Achilles 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No we are all not nuts. She seems to have some control issues. Have you tried reverse psychology on her. Just agree with everything she says. What is the point of arguing? It doesn't seem to have solved anything. If I didn't know better, I would think you were talking about my sister in law. When dealing with her I just nod and smile. It seems to make her happy. Maybe I could give you her phone number and have your wife call her. It would be an interesting conversation.
2007-05-23 12:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ohhhhhhh ....... that's not my husband asking this question is it ????
My dad said to me once that I was the only person he knew that could start an argument, leave the room, and the argument would keep going.
Yep ... I'm crazy and have mood swings.
2007-05-23 12:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife, and notice I said ex wife, would carry on about the most trivial little things. She would go on and on for sometimes 3 hours. Then sometimes a day or 2 later she would bring it up again and do another 3 hour tirade. I finally realized it was over when she asked me what I thought about something she raged on about and my answer to her was,"what part of your bitching are you talking about? Youve been talking for over enough. I finally had enough.
2007-05-23 12:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ever try actually listening?
I used to do that to my husband, thinking that what I said actually mattered. Nope, after the first sentence, he tuned me out.
Now I just give him the silent treatment and don't tell him why I'm upset. He gets to figure it out. He hates it and then HE goes nuts ranting in circular thought. LOL!!!
2007-05-23 12:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, we can't help it...we're all just a little nutty. We have to be to put up with some of you gentlemen (and I use that term loosely!).
Just when you think you've got the rules figured
out, we change them again. That's life!
2007-05-23 12:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by MAGGIE MAE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hugh: Well Hugo's mood swings are a complete pain in the azz but I love himher in the end!
All women are nuts, and so are men. I guess that's why we love em!
Hugo: Awww...
2007-05-23 12:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I think were all nuts!! It took me 6 years to realize that i'm not alway right. I think after awhile he just stoped listening to me,he'd just nood his head. It will work out!
2007-05-23 12:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋