Please Answers this!(help me)!?

Question

Why are there so many mean people in this world? Why cant' people treat people nicely and not make fun of them or any other kind of humiliation?What is wrong with these people in the world?

I have serious school problems bcuz of this one girl who always makes fun of me.

Answer 1

hola, conteste tu mensaje y gracias

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Answer 2

There will always be bullies. You may or may not be able to modify their behavior. You can however, control your reaction to it.
First, if she is just making fun of you, that's one thing. If she is threatening you, that is quite another. If it is the later, you should report her to a school counselor. You will need specific examples of her behavior and if possible, witnesses. So keep a small notebook and pen, and when she says something, whip out the book and
write down what she said,
where you were,
the date and time and
specifically who else was around that may have heard her remarks.
(The act of doing this alone should shake her.) If she asks what you are doing--tell her you are keeping a record of her harrassment and that you plan to take to a school authority.
Part of the joy in harassing people is to control them. Taking back control by writing all this down makes her see that there are potential consequences administered by someone more powerful than you. And if she isn't clever enough to see this, after writing down several incidents over a period of time, do take the notebook to your counselor and ask her or him to intervene.
In the meantime, you get to choose whether you are going to continue to be hurt by this girl or if you are going to choose to ignor her.

Answer 3

Hey sweetheart ;)

2 reasons why people are mean to each other. Either..

They don't relate to, or have any sought of understanding with their victim, or...

(relating to your problem...)

They are simply jealous that you possess something they can never have.

Its nearly always the case with mean, bitchy girls, that their jealous. Its not necessarily over looks, could be that you have cute mannerisms, or are intelligent..

Its hard to change girls like that, so best bet is to hold back any fake pride, and explain to your head teacher the situation.

Teacher only has to say a few words, and you will be surprised at how quick her mean ways will stop with you, don't mean she will change, she will find another victim, but u will be free of her.

Everyone has been bullied some way or another, even "cooool" people. thats life unfortunately,

Good luck with your situation, and go to college and university after, it will make up for the bull**** you've had to endure in school. bye bye =) xx

Answer 4

Sorry to say it, but I'm convinced it's because kids aren't taught to respect other people any more. I'm not that ancient, but back in my childhood I was taught to respect teachers, older people, my parents, and just people in general. I'm a firm believer in the"treat others how you would like to be treated yourself" attitude - it's something that's part of my makeup. If I seem old fashioned- so be it. I can't understand how kids as young as 6 or 7 tell teachers and parents to f**k off, smoke, swear and generally carry on as if they own the world and everyone on it owes them something. There seem to be too many "rights" and unfortunately the results of this " freedom" is reflected in today's crime rates all over the world. Let's all go back to the days when we could all safely walk down the streets at any time of the day and night without being afraid. When children could play in the park alone without fear of abduction or sexual assault. Let's get back to basics before we destroy ourselves.

Answer 5

I'm really sorry that you are going through this. If it is seriously not something that you can resolve yourself with this girl then you need to talk to a School Counselor (just go to the school office or counselling department and ask for an appointment to speak with someone). Really, there are going to be alot of times in your life that you can't control, especially where it concerns other human beings. Sometimes you do have to ask for help. Ahh, and the reason that they are such terrible human beings? I blame their parents. (Sorry parents, but if that offends you, then you are not who I am referring to.) Think of all the awful ways that parents (and siblings for that matter) treat their children. Someone made them who they are. Hopefully someday they will be affected positively by other people and might just turn out to be decent human beings. But, for now, take care of yourself. Stand up for yourself (sometimes bullies stop bullying someone who isn't 'afraid' of them or who isn't reacting the way they are hoping). But, when all else fails ---get help. Take care and Good Luck!

Answer 6

it's because she's screwed up. She has to put other people down to divert attention form her, so no one will see what she thinks is wrong with her. If she's threatening you or physically abusing you in any way, report it. Otherwise, truly unless you want to get to know her and be her friend and get involved in her drama, just remember people liike her usually peak in high school and go downhill from there , while you will improve each day and be the kind of person you think other people should be.

Answer 7

well you cant stop that most people who are mean have probs at home or somewhere in there life. Just think about it do you have a good life at home? and some people think it is just fun to tease people or to make fun of them. so stay stong and god will help you get through this

Answer 8

Tell your teacher or counselor and get her in trouble.

Answer 9

beat her up