my best friend like's one of my mates... he doesnt feel the same way and tease's her behind her back. i keep telling her to just leave him alone coz she makes it worste for herself...then i stayed at her house and she gave me the phone and it was him on it asking me out on her cell phone. i ddnt know what to say but i said no coz i only see him as a mate. now my friends mad at me... what do i do now?
2007-05-23 19:19:32 · 8 answers · asked by eelamme_13 1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her to grow up, she handed you the phone, you didnt ask to talk to him
2007-05-25 12:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask yourself this: if you were in your friend's shoes and vice versa, how would you feel about that guy doing that to you? Doesn't that sound like something a creep would do?
Seeing things from that angle, would you really want to go out with such a person now?
2007-05-24 02:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave them alone i mean i know ur friends with her but shes sounds like she blinded by "love" sometimes even when she is hurt really bad i had a friend that went back to talkin to her ex that really hurt her a while back, she even knew she was goin to be disappointed but it didnt stop her from talkin to him sometimes letting them find out on their own is better just be there to pick them when they fall
2007-05-24 02:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by knox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is being immature. Tell her that you did not ask him out, he ask you out. Tell her that it is not your fault that he is not attracted to her. Tell her that she is not a very good friend if she lets this come between your friendship with each other.
2007-05-24 02:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't make him ask you out. so its obviously not your fault...lol
tell her that he doesnt need him and there are plenty of fish in the sea. if that doesn't work just sit back and watch what unfolds
2007-05-24 02:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by the Future 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell the truth. Plain & simple. It's gonna be up to your friend to accept it.
2007-05-24 02:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Leia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she was ur true friend she would understand and be happy that u said no.
2007-05-24 02:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you go out with me instead? i'm a famous star.
2007-05-24 02:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Bakekang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋