My ex and I both agreed to see each other, hang out for company and have sex once in a while. Would he want me more if I didn't have sex with him? WHAt would be the best way to get him back?
2007-05-23 19:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by alims94 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you might want him more than he wants you. No clear cut answer for this...would be different for every couple. But this sounds like a game instead of a relationship. If you are very young then I could see why you might think this way. How about you just honestly communicate and see what both of you want and can it be worked out.
2007-05-23 19:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it seems like he doesn't really want to get back together, but just wants to be able to keep you around as a back-up. Someone to have there until he finds someone he wants to keep. I think that having sex with him would be a bad idea because it would just be giving him exactly what he wants and it won't lead to the two of you getting back together. Don't sleep together and maybe he'll realise how much he took you for granted.
2007-05-23 19:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why he is your X, but most important is two people should be married to have sex. Sex needs a commitment of marriage to be right and really good. Casual sex is wrong and can be very damaging, there are killer dieases out there now. Unwanted children can be created and that is a whole other web of problems. You cheapen yourself by giving your precious body to some one who is not your husband and not committed to you. He will have no need to be committed to you, if you just give it up to him for free. If he truely loves you and respects you, he will ask you to marry him and then it will be right and only then.
2007-05-23 19:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specking from experience, if a guy knows there maybe chance of sex and u are not together he may just hang around for that reason,my sugestion is if hes an ex just more on and keep it that way, theres a reason you split up in the first place.if you hang around for people you cant get on with your own life.
good look girl!!!
2007-05-23 19:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he'd probably want you less if you refuse to have sex with him. He's more likely to find someone to have it with. You only see each other once in a while. Just go with the flow, do what you feel like doing, don't try to manipulate.
2007-05-23 19:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get him back is to not want him back. Until you're over him, he won't want you. Guys want what they can't have.
Your best bet is to start dating other guys. Then once he realizes that you may not be around forever, he will come crawling. Make sure he has to work for it or it won't last long.
2007-05-23 19:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Karoline M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she doesn't love you in a romantic way but you love her. Her friend can see that you love her and that her friend has trouble connecting with people. In that way, you're "good for her" but she is definitely NOT good for you. You need to get over her and move on to someone else. It's unfortunate, but that's the case. You need to keep dating other girls until you're over her and even then, keep dating other girls until you find someone who is going to reciprocate your feelings. A woman who tells a guy she doesn't love him and then just ignores his feelings is not a good woman to date. Trust me on this one.
2016-05-21 08:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im doing the same thing with my boyfriend, but i broke up with him. He says he wants me back, but im waiting it out. In your situation who initiated the break up? If you did, then i think its his way of holding on to you, so im sure if you wanted you could get back with him. If on the other hand he initiated the break up, then as a woman i would not sleep with him because then he's getting what he wants without having to commit himself to you. Good luck!
2007-05-23 19:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear you answered your own question, he wants you for sex! why buy the farm when u get the milk for free! and why would you want him back? and control your self move on with your life youmay be surprized whats at the rainbows edge!
2007-05-23 19:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't kno how u get him back...but i have an ex who wants to do that...i would feel bad...if u don't give it to him...more in likely...he will get it from someone else...
2007-05-23 19:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by tinker bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋