Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

So basically I met this girl at a wedding. Ended up getting her number. Last night she txt messaged me and told me that she was sorry, she was trying to find the middle ground between being a bit** and leading me on. She said she was seeing someone, albeit not a real serious thing, but she was actually seeing someone.

So my question is, should I tell her that if things don't work out with him, that I would still really like to get to know her? Or should I just let it go?

Be harsh, be honest. I'm sick of being lead on by girls, I don't need to be lead on by people trying to be nice in helping me, haha.

Thanks!

2007-05-21 06:34:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend likes him very much but he keeps lying to her....he says that he like her too....i tried talking to her but she does not want to listen.....

2007-05-21 06:32:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up but his brithday is on saturday. ( any advice here.)

2007-05-21 06:31:46 · 48 answers · asked by babygirl111794 1 in Singles & Dating

but I'm just so gorgeous

2007-05-21 06:31:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

feelings in general. why hide it,why act like they have no emotions...if they like you why not just tell you, stop going around the bush

2007-05-21 06:28:43 · 34 answers · asked by latina gurl15 1 in Singles & Dating

I am an attractive, 43 yr old woman, would you think younger guys would mind that I was older?

2007-05-21 06:28:27 · 9 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this is a weird question but my husband and I are killing ourselves trying to figure out what Charlie Browns teachers name was!! Did she even have a name??

2007-05-21 06:28:08 · 4 answers · asked by :::eZ:::BrEeZy::: 1 in Family

2007-05-21 06:27:12 · 10 answers · asked by Nick G 1 in Singles & Dating

Won't you rather a small intimate ceremony or even to elope?

2007-05-21 06:25:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Got married to his friends wife so she could get US citizenship. What kind of trouble can he get in if caught?

2007-05-21 06:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by Ceeeeya 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is going to spend at least 20 years in prison. I have been emailing an x-boyfriend and I think that some old feelings have come back. The problem is the old boyfriend is all the way on the other side of The US, I probably will never get to see him either. But is it okay if I still talk to him and say I love you to him?????

2007-05-21 06:20:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I am asking this question to the gents out there. Why do boys/men say they want stupid girls to date and all. But, when they want to get married, they say they want intelligent girls who can have conversations.

Also, why can't guys treat women right? I mean, if you treat us right, we will love you, come on, isn't that what you want.

Also, if a girl is really pretty and attractive, HOW and WHAT would boys/men do to flirt with her, etc.

2007-05-21 06:18:49 · 6 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married in June of 06 while he was on leave from Iraq. While he was in Iraq everything was great, he would call me everyday, email, send flowers, we'd chat on yahoo. He was stationed in Germany and once he left Iraq he stopped calling and all that. I found out he was cheating and he blamed everything on me, I don't think I ever did anything wrong. Well we keep going back in forth bc he chooses to keep in contact with this woman who's overseas. Everytime he would come home on leave he would promise he'd change but would go back to doing the same thing. I feel its very disrespectful that he still talks to this woman who has caused so many problems. But he told her he would always be there for her. I'm still with him bc I hope he changes, but I don't see it.

2007-05-21 06:18:47 · 28 answers · asked by * lovemykids * 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend's 1st husband died in accident and she married one of her friend and she had one boy of 10 years old. he is friendly with her son . they got married 6months before withour permission of his parents and still he is not informing his parents and they are not living together . if she gives pressure to him he irritated and what she should do now what type of step she can take pl suggest

2007-05-21 06:18:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are you good in bed?? I'm my ex have told me i've taking him away. Ty my boyfriend is up to some fun when I see him..

2007-05-21 06:16:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that men and women really get the "Seven Year Itch"? Do you think that after a while people get board with their marrige and cheat on their patners. Maybe thats the reason why so many people cheat.

2007-05-21 06:14:35 · 16 answers · asked by London 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Black/white, Asian/Hispanic, etc etc....what is your position on interracial relationships? And what do you think about the children that are products of those relationships?

2007-05-21 06:13:18 · 39 answers · asked by Laugh!! 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a book that will aid me in expressing my feelings more. I somehow hold soo much in, especially when it comes to the people I LOVE the most. It has affected soo many of my relationships. One factor is that during child hood I NEVER heard my parents tell eachother they loved eachother.

2007-05-21 06:13:11 · 0 answers · asked by esotericnymph 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i are having a baby in july ! He is 17 and i am 15 and i am not so sure what to do....
If i dont marry him hed have to register as a sex ofender for the next 25 yrs, and my daughter would get made fun of! I love him so much and we have been together for 3 years but what is your opinion?

2007-05-21 06:10:42 · 35 answers · asked by sharpiebaby 1 in Weddings

I always seem to be attracted to girls with boyfriends and go after them. I talk to a girl I like a lot, try to hang around with them, joke with them, flirt occasionally and then BOOM, what do I find out, they have a boyfriend. I don't find this out until someone else tells me or I find out for myself of course. It's caused me many Goddammits and I would really like to know why I am always attracted to these girls and even if they have boyfriends...what to do about it. Cause you know I'm a playa...haha, yeah, so what do you guys think?

2007-05-21 06:09:53 · 13 answers · asked by Chris G 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had my nails done for years because I have always thought it was sexy and looked nice plus it shows I take care of myself. BUT a guy friend of mine told me that he thinks that they are vain and a waste of money...what do you think? (I am 31 btw)

2007-05-21 06:05:07 · 12 answers · asked by supergoober 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are trying to make our 6 yr marriage work. He is really trying hard. He treats me really good but last night when I asked if he was starting to love me he got frustrated and said “I treat you good don’t I? what more do you want?” when I said love he replied “If I was with someone I loved I would probably treat her the same way I treat you, so I don’t understand what more you want from me, what else do you want me to do?... next time you ask I should just say I do”.

He didn't love me when we first got married, but since he does care deeply for me and we have two kids, we decided to try to make it work.

He cares about me a LOT and he shows it... but I would like to have a spouse who loves me. Is he right to feel frustrated? Should I be content with support, care, fidelity...? isn't that just a very nice friendship?...maybe loved is reserved for someone lese...

: ( I really wanted (and thought I deserved)... to be LOVED

2007-05-21 06:04:12 · 34 answers · asked by Karla T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of 15 years is getting married. She has come home (she lives out of state) to have a small wedding. It was last minute because her grandmother is sick. My husband has never liked my girlfriend (for reasons that are unmerited) His excuse is there is not enough time to plan for it, which is ludicris.(we never do anything). some background on my husband is he is very controlling. When I stated to him that I was going anyway he said if I did he was leaving me. Please, should I go to the wedding and let him vent his tantrum or be the submissive wife and not go to the wedding. It is really embarrassing. Everyone knows if I don't show up it is because of him. Not going would never be my choice.

2007-05-21 06:02:51 · 34 answers · asked by Tamm 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone im getting married in December its going to be the cutiest little wedding ever, but im having issues with my fiance's mother. I want for her to be involved in our plans because we want her blessings and all, but she wants no part of it. Basically she doesnt like me. I want her to warm up to the idea that we are getting married and thats final, but i have no way on how to go about this situation. Ive known her for about 6 years now, and ther is no getting through to her. Please, does anyone have any suggestions on how to get her blessings, or atleast to have her show up in the wedding for her sons sake.There hasnt been much problems in the relationsip with me and my fiance. Its nothing i believe i did wrong, She just doesnt like the way i look and my race, and she hasnt told me openly about it but i have heard it from other people and my future husband to be.

2007-05-21 06:02:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

whinning? I had a bad experience at a graduation party on several levels, I did share some negative things that happened to me but my husband said I was whinning. I did not use a whinning tone, just needed to vent and talk about it. Ive got no other person to share this with and I thought that was what he is suppose to be there for. I've listened to him plenty and sided with him too. But when the situation is turned around he calls it whinning. Im ticked right now!

2007-05-21 06:02:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy and I are talking (not dating) and he said he was interested in me. Soon it became a connection and we started to like eachother. We would txt everyday and even had cute nicknames for eachother. I started to have feelings for him. Then I didn't have my phone for about a month, but I used my friends phone and talked to him sparingly. When I got my phone back I made sure to txt him and we were fine but he said he was busy. He then asked a question about my sex life and I told him the honest answer and it seemed like he was upset. He stopped calling me baby and stuff. So then I would text him but he would be busy. And the other day, I asked him if he still liked me and he said, "I think I still like you, I mean we haven't really talked in a month" What does that mean...that he doesn't like me anymore, or that he moved on? What should I ask or say to find out the truth?

2007-05-21 06:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 in Singles & Dating

A couple of my friends have dated black guys & said the sex is either the best they had or the worst becuz it hurt too much (cuz they were bigger down there than any other guy they'd been with). One of my friends is married to a black guy & he's a great guy . I've been asked out by some black guys but I always say no. I'm just not attracted to any black guy at all. I think there are some good looking black guys, but I just can't see myself actually doing stuff with them like kissing or especially have sex with one. My friends tell me I don't know what I'm missing & when they talk about their experiences with black guys I'm totally left out of the conversation since I've never been with a black guy in that way. Kinda makes me feel like just going ahead & getting with one just so I won't be left out, but I'm just not attracted to any of the black guys that have been interested in me. I don't have any interest in knowing what it's like to be with one either. Should I go ahead & get w/ 1?

2007-05-21 05:58:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found a necklace in my jelery box that one of my ex-boyfriends gave me years ago. Its a heart shaped diamond. It looks real, but i'm not sure. Does anyone know how to tell the difference between a real and fake diamond? I'm excited I hope its real! lol

2007-05-21 05:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by Simon 2 in Singles & Dating

my x ows me money. we had a verbal agreement for him to pay then he signed a personal letter stating that he would pay 150 every month untill the CC was payed off. he made two payments then stoped. he ows me more money that the bill is worth but that is what we agreed apon separation. i want to send him a bill/ attemp to settle the debt before i take him to court and i need help writing the letter. i don't what to say somthing that he can come back and get me with. CAN Any one help!
sarah

2007-05-21 05:58:06 · 3 answers · asked by Darcy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he got dis chick on da side but dey supposively not talking anymore but she still on him...but then i got dis boy that i used to go with and we been talkin lately about getting back together but he cheated on me and i want something new which is homeboy who got da chick on da side WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????????????

2007-05-21 05:57:55 · 1 answers · asked by 2Cute09 2 in Marriage & Divorce