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2007-05-21 07:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by blue ya 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband wants a divorce. I recently fell into a depression and now I am doing better. During that time, we were fighting and I explained to him about my depression. He says he forgave me but he will always use how I treated him during my depression against me in the future. He wants a divorce. He had a abusive childhood and was married prior for 12 years to a woman who constantly cheated on him. Trying to understand why this is happening but I just can't seem to grasp it. We were having financial difficulties and I didn't have a job because I lost mine so I did everything I could to keep us afloat. I cashed CD's and bonds but nothing is good enough it seems. He still wants to divorce. Please help!!!!! He says he loves me and I know I love him but what the heck is he thinking?

2007-05-21 07:06:17 · 12 answers · asked by Jennifer G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been only married about 6 months. However, ever since the wedding... (actually a few months before even), his sex drive dropped to almost nothing.

He was taking two medications that are known to cause a lack of sex drive... so 3 months ago we went to the doctor with the delima and got him on some new meds that don't have that side-effect.

My husband says it's getting better (he says he's getting erections durning the day at odd times, ie. driving for no reason).

I've tried to be supportive and not push the subject. However, my sex drive has not altered in one bit. I get so frusterated when I tell him I'm horny then blow him in the shower... cause he likes that... but then he never returns the favor. He hasn't touched anything below my breasts in over 6 weeks. (We went on a 6 week dry spell before I cracked and he finally gave me a 3 min quickie, whoppie!).

Anyways, are there any husbands out there that know they have this problem too? What can I do?

2007-05-21 07:05:19 · 7 answers · asked by InnerBeauty28 4 in Marriage & Divorce

GOTCHA!

but really, i look at almost all the questions here and based on my observation, i noticed A LOT of you leap at the opportunity to answer sex questions.. anything concerning "how to have sex" [65 answers], anything abt condoms [48 answers], anything about "should i do it with his person" [44 answers].. ok, so i may be exaggerating, but i see other questions about "i really like this person, how can i confront them?" [7 answers].. if most say sex is an instinct, why teach those people how to work it? shouldn't those who actually need dating advice be assisted more? so out of curiousity, why are most of you so compelled to answer a question regarding sex? does it make you giggle? does it give you a chance to make ppl think you are funny? not to sound like a prick, but most answers regarding sex are either immature/conservative/cliche or just flat out redundant.. do most of you speak out of experience or out of superficiality? thanks!

2007-05-21 07:05:03 · 8 answers · asked by SRSLY?! 4 in Singles & Dating

I went to India in 1978 and married I was 15 years old and from the U.S., my "husband" was 30 years old and from India, I was an emancipated minor in the U.S. and my husbands Father signed for me as guardian in India to be married. We came back to the U.S. a month later, and have had two beautiful children. My Husband is now deceased and I have been told since that our marriage was not really legal, and I was hoping a Lawyer in India could tell me if this is true? My parents had not given permmission, but I was emancipated so did not think I needed permmission. Any help is appreciated, and if it matters our children are over 18, so no one is expecting to get social security benefits!

2007-05-21 07:02:15 · 4 answers · asked by karen 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance lives in South Carolina and I live in Michigan.

2007-05-21 07:01:27 · 38 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

NOT MY CHILD. But she lives with me, I take care of her and basically raise her. She's my niece, 7 years old.

Her mom (my sister) does not live with us but comes over often to see her daughter and take her out and buy/pay for school, etc... Her and her husband are divorce and have other people in their life now.

One morning I go downstairs and my sister tells me her daughter just said she hates her mom and she likes her step-mom better. So of course my sister gets very upset.

I want to know should I:

1. Talk to her and tell her what she said was mean and wrong and disrespectful. & no punishment.

2. Talk to her, punish her with no TV for a week.

3. Say a little something about it and let it go.

Ignoring it is not an option. I understand her mom is obviously not there for her and my neice probably feels a bit of resentment against that, but her mother does visit, call and take care of her financially. whether or not a good or bad mother, she is nonetheless her mother

2007-05-21 07:01:18 · 31 answers · asked by Blah 2 in Family

so i just became a hooker in NYC and i need to learn some new moves, any ideas???

2007-05-21 06:59:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy were very close! I almost thought we'd end up together. But then I changed. I still want to be friends with him, but I know that there isn't much of a chance for that. I just need to know how to make things less awkward with him. Cuz being at the same school we always see each other, and our lockers are right next to each other. I know I hurt him, but is there a chance for us to ever be friends again? And what can I do to help it along?

2007-05-21 06:56:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I have participated in a FFM threesome, and it went very well!!! I had no jealousies (that really lasted) and I've considered doing it again. But now I want to have a MMF threesome. We are in a long distance relationship (military) right now, so we have to verbalize alot over the phone and computer. We've included a man, from where he is, in on our conversations, and it didn't fair well with my husband, but he's agreed to follow through with my wishes to have the MMF threesome. I really want to do it, I like the guy we've chosen, but I don't want to upset my husband. I think it would be only fair that he do this for me, since I did the FFM for him, but I don't want to ruin our marriage of 6 years. I really want to do the MMF threesome, so how do I handle this???

2007-05-21 06:55:47 · 23 answers · asked by duchess77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This happened a couple of months ago. My husband and i we had a fight.He has been cheating me from the very beginning ( 5 Years) with his secretive messages from his mobile phone It took place in front of my mom. Kind of ugly. He took all his stuff and just walked out the door to his moms, can you believe it. Before this he would never allow me to look or even read his messages on his phone. On that fine day i read one of the messages stating that she had some ovary pain and she called him sweetheart. Earlier to this i've seen certain messages that tottaly breaks my heart stating that their sex was good and i would just have a meltdown

I really want this relationship to work. HOw can he not understand the pain im goin through.I really love him.Help!!

2007-05-21 06:55:29 · 39 answers · asked by Sarah Ann 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 06:52:56 · 25 answers · asked by Raymond F 1 in Singles & Dating

My father is a racist and he doesnt aprove of our relationship for obvious reasons. Anyway, I agree with her, I dont really want the baby around that but my mom and grandparents really want to see the baby. How should I handle this situation?

Oh, I should probably add that, my mom is paralized and my dad wont bring her to our house.

2007-05-21 06:52:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My Dob is 17July 1977. I was born at 4:10 PM in Kanpur.I am a female.

2007-05-21 06:51:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my guy likes when i beat his *** lol it turns him on i am just wondering if it normal or my guy is just into werid things

2007-05-21 06:50:12 · 4 answers · asked by emmygirly7 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend lives next door to me and her dad gets drunk and sneaks over to my house. He has raped me already and keeps coming. I tell my parents but they dont believe me, they are drunk alot to. I am only 13 and i'm scared that i am getting pregnate, my stomach is getting bigger and i cant get to the doctor without my parents. My parents get mad at me when i try to tell them that he is having sex with me and they beat me. Then they lock me in the house so I cant run away and he comes over every night. This has been happening for 3 weeks. HELP.

2007-05-21 06:49:12 · 35 answers · asked by I_am_not_laughing 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, is it rare? And how?

2007-05-21 06:46:20 · 48 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

le office phone and door bell for 4hrs. i went there and saw evrything closed. that gcheap girl madhuri told me my hubby was out he came 1hr. before but i was there at that time . ther is no place ,ther is only one small deewan they must have slapt togather. few day back she called me in offica &said he is not well ,iasked her she said i donot know what happend,i went there he was airight, she was calling me ,he was not allaowing me to climb his office footh path, i went runnig for him with my daughter& his nebulizer. but i came back without going inside his office,that day on his underwear lot of fluid was there∧ my photo from his mobile was removed. this fluid i have seen before also. i thnk she is blackmaling him. he has not built physical relations with me since last year. he is even not talking with me on phone in front of her, he immidiatly discoonectphone. she stays at mira rd. tell me what should i do. till night 2"oclock she talks with him, she gives miscal whole night

2007-05-21 06:45:28 · 2 answers · asked by mit 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-21 06:44:31 · 2 answers · asked by "B"lover 1 in Singles & Dating

my frieand took a whole bottle of muscle relxer and some other pills and I told the school they took him away now that his back he hate's me so much. its killing me inside .plez help im only 16 and i feel like i want to take my life because the pian of me know that he hates me is killing me

2007-05-21 06:43:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do u guys think bout that? and girls, so u dothat?

2007-05-21 06:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 06:42:38 · 4 answers · asked by blackmixmexican 1 in Marriage & Divorce

later in life? Still havent met my better half yet....I am not in my 20's anymore. Is there still hope I will meet someone Later in Life? or am I Spinster material?

2007-05-21 06:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Surely not flowers....

2007-05-21 06:36:32 · 11 answers · asked by ericwgrossman 1 in Friends

A friend of mine who has two little kids, Is in jail....he fought and went to trial, they charged him with "attempt lewd and lasivious molestation". He says he is innocent, People that know him back him, But noadays you never know...He will be in jail for a few yrs. When he gets realesed will he be allowed to be around his kids?

2007-05-21 06:36:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Guys, does it matter to you if your girlfriend is a virgin or not? If your gf is a virgin and she tells you that she wants her first time to be with you, would you be ok with that? Would you be upset with your gf if you found out she was a virgin?

Thanks!

2007-05-21 06:36:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you saved $ 50,000 in your company IRA plan, can your spouse take half of that in a divorce.
Both of us have masters degrees and worked all through the marriage, and there are no children involved.
Please let me know if there are specifications on amounts, etc... Thank yoiu

2007-05-21 06:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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